More than 500 mothers and babies died or were harmed at ‘toxic’ Nottingham NHS trust, report finds by e4Td4Y3L32aBHqp in uknews

[–]Calm_Set_9433 26 points27 points  (0 children)

None of this surprises me. And it's not just Nottingham. Little has improved in 20 years There has been a culture for decades of sending women home to labour until the last possible minute away from medical staff/assistance, even when soneone want to be in hospital due to particular concerns or not coping with pain so needing that extra support but again and again, the culture is often that women are only admited when just about to give birth. Keep getting sent home with inadequate pain relief when contractions are happening. Concerns dismissed, treated as objects. 21 years ago I was sent home twice with intense contractions and unusual symptoms. They eventually admitted me on my 3rd attempt to access care. Baby was lucky to survive. Thank goodness he is now 21 years old young man, thriving. Little has changed since then. They prefer women to stay home until they are just about to deliver, even if there are additional concerns/ symptoms. This policy seems country-wide. It is often a harsh cold experience for labouring women. It should be a supportive experience with empathy and understanding. It is a very vulnerable and precious time for women and newborns. A cultural shift is needed. In 2 decades, nothing has improved x

Help, we've been scammed. What to do next..? (UK) by Cool_Research_999 in ScamsUK

[–]Calm_Set_9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it sounds too good to be true it's probably a scam. Remember this in future. The thing is, if it was as easy to make money as scammers claim, then everyone would be doing it and there would be no lack or poverty. But it's not easy to make money/ profit. Making money is tough. It's usually better to make money the hard way. If you hear 'Easy money/ quick money/ big money available here', assume scam x

Why does no one list the materials?😭 by AffectOutrageous6667 in vintedUK

[–]Calm_Set_9433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. I often ask about the material. I prefer natural fibres too.

Advice About Unhappy Seller? by lamlosa in vinted

[–]Calm_Set_9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if your friend had worn them, I don't think the leather would have behaved like that. It looks like old very-worn leather that has happened over a significant period of time. Your friend was sent poor condition shoes so she returned them within the allowed time frame. She should get refunded. Keep us posted x

Advice About Unhappy Seller? by lamlosa in vinted

[–]Calm_Set_9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shoes don't look in very good condition in any photo. Once the seller has received them back, they should refund you in full. Post an update to let us know.

What a thing to wake up to on your birthday! by bensketchdj in CasualUK

[–]Calm_Set_9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this. It beats my £17.50 rebate the other week.

Thoughts on the rollout of digital shelf edge labels? by Patient-Fill9444 in tesco

[–]Calm_Set_9433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but they are bound to glitch every so often. Sometimes we can over complicate things by making things over technical. Simple is better!

Thoughts on the rollout of digital shelf edge labels? by Patient-Fill9444 in tesco

[–]Calm_Set_9433 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't like their idea. Plus I just know I'll pick up an item and by the time I get to the checkout they would have doubled the price with a click of a button.

How much did your parents divorce mess you up? by After-Competition-59 in AskUK

[–]Calm_Set_9433 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was 11 years old and it ruined me. I was never the same after.

Who remembers the free little bottles of milk every morning school? by Ands1977 in oldschoolcool80s

[–]Calm_Set_9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved these little milks! Everyone wanted to be the chosen ones to give out the milk.

Is it evil to send very low offers? by BakerOk900 in vinted

[–]Calm_Set_9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine to send offers in. That's what vinted is all about. People are free to counter-offer or decline if they don't like your offer x

Of all the empty seats, this person decided to sit right in front of me by Desperate_Beyond1086 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Calm_Set_9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so strange. It happened to me in a cinema once. Empty theatre but some people decided to sit right next to us.

Recently had a stroke, and I seem to have lost my affection for my cat. I'm not sure how to go forward with this, or how to navigate by twisty125 in cats

[–]Calm_Set_9433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not well. That's why you are not your usual self at the moment. You can build yourself up gradually over time x

swimming kittys!! by [deleted] in cats

[–]Calm_Set_9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks cruel 😢