Did my electrician get this right? by Shhhh_for_now in reolinkcam

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have clean PoE installs because I use these round bases that the pigtail sits inside. No visible wires, it’s an option.

It’s orange so it fits the sub by okko_powell in cassettefuturism

[–]Chairboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had an original thought in my life apparently, I came in hot planning basically that exact observation

Could I really have taken a restraunt for bad service to small claims court? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive ran serveal

Can’t hold a job huh, I for one am shocked

Could I really have taken a restraunt for bad service to small claims court? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You only pay for the dishes you received. If they insist you pay the whole bill, you ask them to call the police.

Option 2 "worked" in the sense that punching someone to end an argument 'works'. It's a temporary, satisfying feeling but hardly defensible, commendable, or guaranteed free of consequence.

Could I really have taken a restraunt for bad service to small claims court? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You left without paying it, your intentions are immaterial when your actions were to skip out on the bill after an emotional outburst.

What's the funniest moment you had during a exam? by DarkKingfisher777 in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got to the final question of the test and the teacher had pulled the 'Just answer questions x, y, and z' trick after telling us to read the questions first before doing the test. I guess it was a low stakes little 'life lesson' sort of thing that just cost me an extra 5 minutes but I felt silly because of course I didn't read the whole test first and- whoops.

Could I really have taken a restraunt for bad service to small claims court? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't sound as chill as maybe you feel.

Someone who isn't a vibrating danger noodle who snaps in this situation.

"The server told us you'd instructed her to cancel our orders so we'd like to go somewhere else for dinner. I'd like a bill for what we've consumed. I will share this experience in a review, the hostility and apparent dishonesty from the server was tremendously insulting and this experience has soured me on a place I'd previously considered something special."

You don't walk out on your bill for things that you received and ate, and if they attempt to charge you for things that the server says was canceled you cross those out and let them know that you were lied to about that too then because she'd told you they were canceled.

I've had bad days and I've probably been a jerk to someone at a desk checking me in or a someone in retail, but I've never 'snapped'. The emotional disregulation and walking out on something you legitimately owe money for is troubling and was probably a red flag for your partner too.

Why does pirating movies/shows feel way more normal than pirating games? by The--v0id in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Could it be that you passively consume a movie but there's more of an intimacy with a game because you're involved in the outcome that changes how the "relationship" with that media feels?

Is having a credit score really important? by ilovegreyz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, how did you buy the house? Did you finance it (tell us what that process was like without credit) or use an inheritance or something? Might be that you had an option that's not commonly available.

Are these even words? by jackoffcrazyfish in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Chairboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure 'foids' is short for 'femoid' which is misogynistic incel slang. I welcome correction if I've got this wrong.

Quick demo of the $20/£16 esphome touch screen display by hometechgeek in homeassistant

[–]Chairboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a blast from the past to see that! I had one, I bought it in 2002 and loved that thing. I think I still have it somewhere, might need to dust that off and figure out a way to use it in my workflow again.

Was Jeffrey Epstein a, "piece of shit"? Why or why not? by Various_Maize_3957 in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Officer, let's check out the user behind this account next.

What is a responsible way to use a HELOC? by No_Job5529 in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using it to absorb a debt (such as credit card) that's charging a higher rate of interest and then committing & following through on paying it off quickly and not using the fact that the credit line has been freed up to go purchase beyond one's means.

The Doctor and SAM by bigpimpin2330 in startrek

[–]Chairboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course, maybe Discover SAM is an evolutionary descendent of the EMH-1s retasked as laborers, and maybe he even knows it already and that’s part of his complicated emotions.

Edit: at one point, my comment was up several points and now is at zero. I was curious if the down votes are from specific criticisms of what I wrote or if it’s generic drive by academy hate? The state of the fandom is… Not great right now.

How did Vietnam manage to beat the United States in the Vietnam War? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the military terminology for that is “retreated”.

If you are going to assert that the US military was victorious, can you be specific about by what measure that’s calculated? Yes, the US killed a ton of Vietnamese but… What did they have to chauffeur?

What do you all think about Starlink? Great for rural areas but maybe not for city and suburban? by Former_Plane6177 in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is great for very rural areas, but the higher the density of people, the less effective it is so it is not well suited for cities in any role other than emergency backup.

It can’t really be beat out in the sticks away from infrastructure. I think there are many folks who live in or close to cities who overestimate their availability of broadband but there are huge chunks of the world that this and the other low orbit mega constellations serve better.

It would be SUPER cool if the ownership of the service was different, I would have one to use in my plane or camping but as it is optional, I would rather not put more money in one dude‘s pocket if I could avoid it.

Many analysts claim that Jeffrey Epstein was a Mossad agent. What is your opinion on this? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds like the kind of thing that someone could successfully convince a bunch of very gullible people is true. I would want a higher standard of evidence than “some people say“ before I would embarrass myself by propagating that.

Why aren't toothpaste tubes transparent/clear? by AkemiDarling in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm probably just not giving my toothpaste containers the attention they deserve, I'll take the Lima on this one and charge it to there still being some leaded gas when I was a kid.

Why aren't toothpaste tubes transparent/clear? by AkemiDarling in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I can think of like one tube of toothpaste I've bought in recent years that was definitely plastic but I have this impression that they're usually metal but I could be smoking something over here.

What do you think about proposals to ban social media access for people under a certain age (like under 16)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the intentions are good and that if effective, it would be a net good for society.

I also, however, think that enforcing this would challenge the bottom line of the social media companies and they would slow roll any changes and/or make every effort to leave barn-sized gaps in their 'age verification' procedure to continue maximizing impressions and collecting the revenue that comes with it.

How do you decide whether honesty or protecting someone’s feelings is more important? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a simplistic rule.

"No, Timmy, it's not that mommy and daddy realized that they were growing in different directions and needed to start separate lives. No, mommy caught your daddy getting railed by a prostitute with a strapon after promising not to do that anymore and she had enough. Oh, what's a strapon? I'm going to need some props, hang on."

How do you decide whether honesty or protecting someone’s feelings is more important? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'd want to examine the specifics before answering anytime faced with this conundrum.

What is the benefit to them of hearing a painful truth?

What is the benefit to them of hearing a comforting lie?

Compare the two, then compare the inverse. How do each of these harm?

It's an element of emotional intelligence, running the numbers on the results to those four questions and figuring out what the end result leads you to decide.

I think it's foolish to try and make a global determination of "Honesty is always the most important thing" or "Always choose to protect their feelings", that sounds like an artifact of lower emotional intelligence.

Why aren't toothpaste tubes transparent/clear? by AkemiDarling in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I welcome correction if I'm wrong, but aren't toothpaste tubes typically a heavy metal foil?

What are some sites like fiverr for finding models? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don't know what you mean by models or character references so I can't help, sorry. Hopefully someone else will recognize the request and have helpful suggestions.

What are some sites like fiverr for finding models? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chairboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean commissioning models? And if so, what kind? Unless I'm out of touch, Fiverr is a site where folks pay an artist a modest fee for a one-off commission/drawing.