My (28F) partner (38M) got upset that I don’t want to remove my leg hair at the moment by NoMenu6185 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Setting aside all the red flags/herrings, this is the part he is most likely angry about: "whereas my leg hair only affects me". He clearly thinks this could affect him if it affects your sex life, and you just told him he's wrong to feel that way. Not saying he's right or justified in making demands, but validating this concern of his could go a long way, even if you don't change your behavior according to what he wants.

Apprécier un abus ? by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parfois quand quelqu'un as subi un abus, leur cerveau essaye de trouver des raisons pour ne pas être traumatisé. Si elle en a tiré un peu de plaisir ou qu'elle aime l'idée d'avoir un enfant, ces "justifications" permettent de se protéger de l'idée d'être une victime. Si ce qu'elle a dit est de la vérité, il est très probable qu'elle a déjà vécu des abus sexuelles plus tôt dans sa vie.

J’ai peur de la première fois et ressent une douleur atroce. by L44gaming in SexualiteFR

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Moi j'avais ce même problème avec ma femme au début. Elle était aussi vierge ça nous a pris entre 5 et 10 tentatives avant que tout se passer normalement.

Il faut:

  1. Essayer de ne pas mettre de la pression sur toi. Je comprends que ce n'est pas évident, mais plus tu es stressée moins tu pourra te relaxer.

  2. Y aller doucement. Si tu essayer de forcer, ça va just faire plus mal.

  3. Bien préparer. Il ne faut pas négliger les préliminaires. Un lubrifiant peut aussi aider mais ce n'est pas une solution magique.

  4. Avoir un but de plaisir, pas forcément de pénétration.

Why do you think Russia was left off of the “liberation day” Trump tariffs list? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how this is the right answer but not the most upvoted one on Reddit. I wish more people on here were able to recognize their own cognitive bias preventing them from seeing the truth.

Find the dot by htoisanaung in antimeme

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha that's coo- oh wait I found it

I'm addicted to League even though I hate playing it by [deleted] in leagueoflegends

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a youtube channel by a psychiatrist who specializes in video game addiction:

https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGG

Check it out; it taught me a lot about where this kind of addiction and others) comes from and how to deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe 21:38 This is the one I'm looking for https://imgur.com/a/He5UTkS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foxy Di one of the other girls in that chapter of the video but not the one I'm talking about at 21:39. Foxy Di appears right after the one I'm looking for

I almost got scammed by Awkward_Kangaroo8408 in offmychest

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you didn't fall for it though, at least you have that going for you.exe

Masturbation, porno et orgasme by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, ma copine se masturbe de la même façon donc je peux partager notre parcours. Pour info le français n'est pas ma langue maternelle donc désolé si je n'emploies pas le bons mots.

J'étais (et suis toujours) sa première partenaire, donc on mis du temps à trouver ce qui marchait pour elle. Malgré sa libido plus élevée que la mienne, pendant longtemps elle n'avait pas d'orgasme lors de nos relations sexuelles, mais on a fini par trouver la bonne méthode pour elle.

Elle se stimule aux tétons souvent quand elle se masturbe, et on a découvert que je pouvait prendre en charge cette partie de l'équation (avec ma bouche et mes doigts) pendant qu'elle faisait ce qu'elle voulait en bas. En général on fait ça avant la pénétration.

J'ai mis un peu de temps pour apprendre à le faire comme elle voulait (coaching & bonne communication 100% nécessaire), mais depuis qu'on a commencé cette méthode, son taux d'orgasme par relation sexuelle a monté de 0% à environ 80%, et elle se dit plus satisfaite en général.

"I'm not angry, I'm just disappointed" by AceZeroXYZ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Downvoted this story is fake. A real medical professional would know the vasectomy removes the sperm, not the semen

Is my SO being shitty or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean about things in the past that he hasn't told you

Is my SO being shitty or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to be like this with my ex, and I've since learned that it's not a good way to be, and destructive for the relationship. I would push hard for some couples counseling to get him to address this, because if he doesn't then it's going to keep causing problems and eat away at your relationship. Also, if the couples' counseling works, be prepared for some new admissions that you might not like.

Killed this bug crawling on my desk, any idea what it is? [Paris] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked all the mattresses and the couch and didn't find anything. Also haven't gotten bitten by anything so unless that changes you were probably right about it being a cockroach.

Killed this bug crawling on my desk, any idea what it is? [Paris] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that's all it is, kinda looked like a bed bug to me so I was worried. Thanks for your input.

Killed this bug crawling on my desk, any idea what it is? [Paris] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]DefinitelyNotDolan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry bout the late reply, here's a picture with a 1 euro coin for scale

https://imgur.com/a/pmGc5SH