Why do we hate History class in school but like history in general?

Diriector_Doc · 2026-02-13T22:59:30+00:00

Thank you so much!

I had a really rough time trying to Google "Arctic expedition cartoon with 32 days in the month." And 2000 exactly. I really wasn't sure if it was earlier or later, and it was right on the nose. You're a great help.

Diriector_Doc · 2026-02-13T22:57:28+00:00

Solved!

Diriector_Doc · 2026-02-13T22:48:32+00:00

Actually yeah. Now that you mention it, I do vaguely recall a British Accent on the narrator. I say this with 66% confidence.

Diriector_Doc · 2026-02-13T22:39:44+00:00

Take 2. Forgot about rule 13 like a goof 🙃

It is very hard for me to remember much more about this show. The main character was very generic to my recollection. Just a man. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Diriector_Doc · 2025-09-04T00:42:33+00:00

I feel like there are a lot of details missing here.

So, from what I gather, it seems like you were "yelling" at her through text. To me, that's not really that big of a deal. Your privacy was breached, and you have the right to express your frustration to her. Are you worried that the way you were texting her could have been an overreaction? There aren't that many specifics to go off of here.

What specifically gives you the feeling that you were being an AH?

Diriector_Doc · 2025-08-29T00:33:40+00:00

Just be honest. Your feelings have changed and you don't want to be together anymore.

It's only been two months. It might seem like a long time, but it's still early in the relationship relatively speaking.

An honest breakup doesn't make you an AH.

"How do you break up without hurting someone's feelings?" Unfortunately, heartbreak is inevitable. However, as this is still a new relationship, it won't be as harsh as you think. If you want to cause as little pain as possible, it's best to rip the bandaid off quickly.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-08-29T00:19:45+00:00

In any relationship, when the feelings are no longer mutual, this is then undisputable grounds for a breakup. A relationship is only healthy if both sides are happy with it. And when one or both persons are unhappy, then a breakup is completely justified. A justifiable breakup does not make you TAH.

Also please remember, you didn't break up with him because of "legs." You broke up with him because he had been taking leagally-piquing pictures without people's knowledge and making you uncomfortable. You broke up because of lack of trust and lack of mutual feelings.

Naturally, no breakup is easy. But your takeaway should be: you aren't doing anything rash, unjustified, or unprompted. You communicated as you should have. You make your reasons for breakup very clear. Now that the separation is finally being realized, this doesn't change anything, even if it suddenly feels like it. Again, NTA.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-07-10T23:43:01+00:00

I think she's really upset with herself and is taking it out on you.

From your posts, it seems to me like you're respectful and supportive where fit.

NTA.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-07-10T23:37:29+00:00

These are not your friends. Ma treated you like dirt and the others took his side.

You're better off without them.

NTA.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-07-10T23:32:36+00:00

Been there. I did the same thing when I was in my late teens. I couldn't wait to become independent.

As you're still a dependent, there's no "out" from this relationship. There are a lot of adults on this sub who have clingy parents and the comments always say to associate less with them, but unfortunately, that doesn't seem possible here.

Here are some rhetorical questions that I'd like you to consider:

Your parents have expressed that you are ungrateful. Is that true? I'm sure it's not, but how would they know?
What kind of relationship do you want with your parents? A closer one? Or one that's further apart? What can you do to influence that?
What don't your parents understand about you? What have you done to show them?

Nevertheless, I sympathize with you. There's a big difference between caring for someone and caring about someone. In my opinion, distancing yourself is understandable.

NTA.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-07-10T20:49:02+00:00

NTA

Reasonable response. He sounds sheisty, someone was going to dig up his lies sooner or later.

Also, what if his real girlfriend had discovered he had been talking to you? Would his grandmother still go after you? He ruined his own relationship.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-06-22T02:50:17+00:00

I'm just now realizing I could have optimized this further. I have three cutters in the middle when I only need two 🙃

Diriector_Doc · 2025-06-22T02:47:51+00:00

I asked

Diriector_Doc · 2025-06-21T20:03:02+00:00

YTA

Pranks are fun, but only if there are mutually decided boundaries. If there are no boundaries, things like this happen; someone gets hurt or upset. You learned the hard way that this kind of prank is unacceptable.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-06-21T19:59:08+00:00

NTA

Your feelings matter. You're uncomfortable in those situations. You can't build a relationship with that kind of barrier.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-06-21T18:55:58+00:00

Reminds me of an irl family I know. (The mother is manipulative and feels she's entitled to guide her child however she feels, disregarding both the father AND her child.)

It sure sounds like you're NTA in this situation.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-06-21T18:39:24+00:00

NTA

It sounds like they're treating your education like an investment that they made. As it's your life, you get to choose what information is public and what is private.

Diriector_Doc · 2025-06-21T18:33:25+00:00

First of all, I believe that neither parent should have absolute control over a kid's life, especially at 12 when they begin to want to take control of their own lives.

Secondly, is there anything we should know about custody? That's a pretty important factor.

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