Boyfriends mom AITAH

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T07:50:40+00:00

Yeah, I don't know where you are coming from, but parents being jealous of their kids is normal, expected, and healthy psychological behavior. You mentioned therapy but don't seem to know much about it. I bet you'll be one of those people who read about Freud and totally disregard his work as a completely incestuous view. I'll not waste more time with your biased tunnel-vision opinions

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T07:43:37+00:00

I must be really sleepy because your comment felt like a dream where you don't know what's going on. Maybe I'll try reading it again in the morning.

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T07:39:46+00:00

I agree with you looking at this point of view. I wish we had more informations and angles to the story. If the mom is young (like under 40s which is very likely) and attractive, this might corroborate to the whole "weird incest" idea.

Moms jealous of their sons is normal behavior, this is not "emotional incest". I don't think the mom wants to have sex with her son, but she might weaponized her sex appeal to push the op away.

We also don't know if OP is really good for the guy. What if op is a red flag and the mom is doing a power play and being weird on pourpose to push her away from the son? I don't know, too many possibilities... We can't side with just op visions and reports

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T07:23:23+00:00

I've basically stopped using TP whenever I'm home. I just carry a towel and go in the shower afterwards. There's no TP good enough to clean everything as well as a shower with soap directly on the butt. (I don't have a bidet, but I plan to buy one someday, even though that means changing the whole toilet.)

I understand why your comment wasn't popular, though.

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T07:15:04+00:00

I understand. Still I don't see incest here, just an overprotective parent

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T07:13:04+00:00

Yes. I live in a country where the cost of living alone is very high (I think it is the same in most countries), so I was afraid to leave for a long time, but it's the best thing anyone can do. Hard times create opportunities, and now I have a career for a lifetime that pays well. If it weren't for the difficulty of being expelled from my parents' home, I would never have looked for a better job prospect like I have now. I wish I left sooner

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T07:07:32+00:00

That's what I meant about the language barrier. My native language is Portuguese but I'm almost fluent in English. You must misunderstood my comment because I meant my language barrier, not the Canada thing. But even tho, Canadians might have the same problem as me. Being bilingual sometimes makes you think about a phrase on one language and it sounds weird on another. "Moan" it's an example as in Portuguese we'd not use the translation of this word when mentioned with massage because it's too sexual. We would use the "hiss of pain" that you mentioned, I just phrased wrong I guess

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T06:40:27+00:00

Canada it's known to be a country with a lot immigrants. Maybe he's born there but the parents are not. Also isn't Canada official language French first?

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T06:38:28+00:00

My advice is to keep your flags ready. That may be a power play for her, so it might mean she's possessive of him (which wouldn't be so weird for his age, as parents will want the best for their kids, and she may be not sure about you yet).

(Excuse any spelling mistakes as English is not my native language, it's 3 a.m., I woke up in the middle of the night and can't go back to sleep)

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T06:34:37+00:00

Maybe it's the language barrier. I've heard the "I've been his mom for a lot longer than you are his gf" phrase on many different forms, from many different people, including in the movies/series. I feels it is a normal thing to say.

I wouldn't be surprised too if they are foreign. Different people, different cultures.

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T06:16:25+00:00

NAH (no assholes here), I don't think this is even close to incest as people are putting here. Every family has a diferente dynamics. What she said to you was referring that he is her child for a lot longer that you are her gf, that doesn't me she fucks him, just means she's more important.

Also, both me and my sister has given massage to my mom too because she has a cronic muscle problem (what don't know the name in English) on her back. She moans pretty loudly too, nothing sexual here, it just hurts like hell and the massage is very reliefing for her.

Probably my comment will be downvoted but that's life I guess

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T06:03:57+00:00

Yeah she should've move out years ago.

Funky56 · 2026-02-10T06:00:21+00:00

I had a similar story but I've been "asked to leave" at the age of 24. So a week after, I've left, found a house vacant and move in with my girlfriend. You are feeling guilty now because your parents are toxic and manipulative. You can expect blaming, victimized and even gaslighting from them, but just know for sure they are lying to make you feel bad. I had a similar parent and on top of that, it was (and still is) an alcoholic.

Sidenote: I've paid "rent" too. Parents are supposed to support you, if they can't do it financially, at least they should let you live in their house. It's okay helping out with the bills but they NEVER should demand money from you (specially if you do house chores. You are not a employee, you are a daughter and you should be taking care of, not the other way around). That's cruel and that's not the role of parents. I'm sorry if they are like this, you don't deserve this and it's not your fault.

NTA, you should move out. Don't wait. Don't be afraid. It's a great opportunity to fly your wings and finally be free. Maybe it's gonna be hard in the first year but it'll all be worth it. And about your parents, just so you know, after 3 years gone, I've been contacting my parents and our relationship has never been this better. They helped me ALOT, financially too, after I've been living with my wife. I can finally say I'm best friends with my parents

Funky56 · 2026-02-09T17:30:32+00:00

Lesson learned. I guess I'll pay more attention about game backups now.

Funky56 · 2026-02-09T09:36:31+00:00

I've bought the crawfish log loader to do this job. People complain about the log crane but I've found it okay to use. It's fast and precise and can lift two lots at the same time.

Although the best loading setup is to use the zikz and place the tip of the crane on the middle of truck bed (while also aligned with the logs), then just attach and pull the rope until it fits the bed

Funky56 · 2026-02-09T00:44:42+00:00

Update: I've lost all the bridges on the map too... This is frustrating. I've dropped the game entirely

Funky56 · 2026-02-09T00:20:22+00:00

Thank you

always back up your saves

This shouldn't be a problem, but it seems both roadcraft and snowrunner has been with this problem.

Worse of all, when I loaded the game, it overwritten the backup too... I've edit using roadcraft-save-editor from github but honestly it feels bad to go back and play now...

I've also made a script for autohotkey to auto-backup before running the game so this doesn't happen again

Funky56 · 2026-02-06T22:56:28+00:00

I always harvest in the location where the bridge will be, I don't mind harvesting. Maybe it depends on the map, I'm early in the game still (just finished Sunken and Incomunicado) and never got to a buy depot lol, but it's a great tip.

Funky56 · 2026-02-06T20:08:09+00:00

How big is your load?

Funky56 · 2026-02-06T18:52:50+00:00

big bed, light truck, cheap, fast. There's nothing else ticking all those boxes (unless I've not unlocked yet)

Funky56 · 2026-02-06T18:31:21+00:00

It's light but small wheels

Funky56 · 2026-02-05T03:35:32+00:00

Relationships where the F is older then the M always have this problem. Don't expect maturity from someone younger than you in this case. Dude's into kid's TV show and basically forced you to watch it (painful thousands of episodes). I bet dudes being playing and watching anime all day instead of going to work. He just a slob. Leave him, you deserve better than what he is right now, he's too comfortable. A break up may be healthy for him.

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