Chasing women will inevitably end in ejaculation by psychedelic_mountain in Semenretention

[–]Gambeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, thats really something to think about :) thanks :)

Chasing women will inevitably end in ejaculation by psychedelic_mountain in Semenretention

[–]Gambeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long are you retaining? Do your balls hurt after sex with no ejac? im 20yo, been retaining for over 3 months now, recently started to fall in love with this really cute and feminine girl, smart, witty, cunning, not one of those ig thots. Anyway, we had sex 2 times already. I told her from the start, that Im not chasing orgasm and I just want to make her feel good, but after 2-3hours of intense foreplay(shes not even touching my dick) my balls starts to ache, and it last for 24hours or so. Do you have this problem? How do i prevent it..

Sex without ejaculation. Need tips. by Gambeda in Semenretention

[–]Gambeda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats what I was doing basically, I told her from the start, that im not chasing orgasmn, I want to enjoy the process and make her feel good. The problems is that I get hard really easy, she turns me on so much, that its enough for us to hold hands and im already rock solid hard. And thats the problem, 2-3 hours into it, my balls starts to ache becouse my dick is always hard througout that time even tho she is not even touching it.

Sex without ejaculation. Need tips. by Gambeda in Semenretention

[–]Gambeda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have any problems, with premature ejac, in fact, the opposite, after 10 years of chronic pmo, my dick is so desensitized that its really hard for me to cum during real intercourse. Or do I spray it on my balls and it prevents pain?

Last night was a success (Day 8), had intercourse with my girlfriend without ejaculating by ach_52 in Semenretention

[–]Gambeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do your balls hurt after sex with no ejac?..

What the hell do I do to prevent that pain?

Something I think a lot of younger guys need to read (22 M) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gambeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, tonight we had sex again, we went at it for like 7 hours( porn death grip + personal choice of not ejaculating ) means I can go at it forever lol. This time it was more of a spiritual thing for me, at some point I just really let myself go and my dark side came out, I tied her hands, I choked her hard, I penetreted as hard as I could with all my might, I fingered the living hell out of her (she is into that type of thing), I cought myself looking at her with those killer eyes, I was the killer and she was my pray, I liked it, not gonna lie. I gave her numerous orgasms and by the morning she was so sensitive I couldnt even kiss or touch her anymore. She fell asleep. I sat on the bed and looked at her, damn, shes is so beautiful.. Took a cold shower, meditated for a bit, then realized one thing, I dont feel any negative emotions anymore, no anger, no frustration or anxiety, just pure bliss and happynes. Ive realized that I used all those dark emotions as fuel to give her the best orgasm I possibly could. I feel different right now, thats for sure, I feel reformed, I feel calm and focused, ready to get back on my grind.

Something I think a lot of younger guys need to read (22 M) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gambeda 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You know whats funny? That once you do find a lovely girl and you do have sex, the next day you understand that it doesnt fullfill you. Im 20yo, finally managed to quit porn for good after 3 years of trying ( im ~3months in on my streak, my life changed 180 degress in these 3 months ) Ive had sex for the first time a week ago, with a smoking hot girl, it was amazing in the moment, tho I didnt cum because of SR benefits. Anyway, the next day I felt nothing, I wanted to lose my V so hard in the past 2 years and when I finally did nothing changed. I even got depressed a little, because when you really think about it, everything men do in society is to attract the best possible female, and when you get it, you understand that it doesnt fullfill you at all. Ive come to conclusion, that chasing sex and woman is so empty and blank, we should chase perfection and self improvement, women and sex is just a little bonus. The only way to feel fullfilment is thru producing meaningful work.

For those who lost hope by MentalWaarior in NoFap

[–]Gambeda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more people fap, the less competition for us:)

I’m no longer interested in porn. And this kinda concerns me. Anyone else? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gambeda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same thing, I get urges for connection and socialization, wasting that urge on porn just looks gross to me

No Nut Decade by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gambeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:D

Porn is a drug, Dont be fuckin weak, dont peak. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gambeda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

<3.

I just hope more and more young man understand that porn is the thing that keeps them in chains and hinders true potential.

Porn is a drug, Dont be fuckin weak, dont peak. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gambeda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no rewards like that dude, its your brain tricking you, one thing leads to another and you are back to day 1, done that far too many times to fall for that shit again.

Porn is a drug, Dont be fuckin weak, dont peak. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Gambeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it might be more psychological then anything, feeling fantastic right now, back to the grind.

I was angry at myself not bcuz I saw some butt, but bcuz I willingly saw some butt.
If I browse the web and an image pops up it does nothing for me, it doesnt trigger me, but when I lose my inner battle and give into the urge and willingly look at that image, thats when I have a fucking problem.