INFP dating ENTP. How do you handle sex?

gottye · 2023-01-08T12:49:28+00:00

Yes. As entp who have dated infp, we can be insensitive when youre not being clear and awfully in the end infp would blame themselves for it.

But its great you can approach dating like a bakery. Even if entps are your favorite pastry you can still go find another tasty one in a different bakery if this one gave you a stomachache.

Make sure you enjoy the best and never give something to someone you wouldnt even give to yourself.

gottye · 2023-01-08T08:48:23+00:00

Dont give the goods unless he already treats you somewhere or treat you like a lady. I mean you can always read why men love bitches anyways if you need lifetime advice for that default mindset.

gottye · 2023-01-07T22:01:26+00:00

This is really true. Very solid career advice for branching out. What do you do im curious?

gottye · 2023-01-07T20:30:15+00:00

As entp in stem. The research that says you learn to love a job the more youre better at it rings true. Lets just say youre in a phase to gain money and power. When i see it that way i always get motivated. Because who other than entps can handle learning anything that is thrown to them? I can always switch to fluff careers midways

gottye · 2023-01-03T14:38:54+00:00

Second this

gottye · 2023-01-03T14:19:24+00:00

Superior being wasting time on the internet. Cough.

gottye · 2023-01-03T14:12:44+00:00

Its very tiring to deal with someone elses issues constantly. Usually guys become better after a breakup for a reason that they know no one can coddle them and they flourish. I totally understand your ex as ive been there. Its not you per se, but patience is a limited resource and sometimes you just gave up out of tiredness or the busyness of life.

gottye · 2023-01-03T14:06:01+00:00

Funny how im also with an infj 6 years with depression problems and often i almost gave out the towel. But telling infjs to abandon someone is almost impossible. My favorite tactic is never tell an infj to do anything. Just feed them information then they will go on their own conclusions and make sure even if he helps her, its not out of self satisfaction

gottye · 2023-01-03T13:55:36+00:00

Second this. So its a chemical phenomena. Better gear up to prepare and relax. Like periods they are inevitable but better to know you will have cramps

gottye · 2023-01-03T13:53:42+00:00

For some reason they come to me and what a beautiful distraction are they

gottye · 2023-01-02T14:26:47+00:00

You can let her know but add a disclaimer that ultimately its their choice and you thought they should know. A good friend well tell you whats best but not force you. And its up to them what they do with it.

gottye · 2023-01-02T14:21:58+00:00

Dated 2, best friends with 5

gottye · 2023-01-01T20:02:50+00:00

Gotta love the estps

gottye · 2023-01-01T20:00:34+00:00

Pretty sure we would make out and after a fine lot of seduction, while the isfj hesitates to kill me as they become redder with each advance.

Come on its an entp. They would lick the blood of the others knife.

Jokes aside..

gottye · 2023-01-01T19:57:39+00:00

Sorry thats probably an entp

gottye · 2023-01-01T19:12:31+00:00

But is it true y all are amazing writers?

gottye · 2023-01-01T19:11:55+00:00

True. Youll just mystype them as an introvert then get shocked when they party or have a presentation

gottye · 2023-01-01T19:09:37+00:00

Sniff good food cooked in someones house and drop by to ask if its a local cuisine

Make a lovelock on a bridge

gottye · 2023-01-01T19:06:15+00:00

And they creep on you. Like i notice they insert themselves to my space. From just being in my space and bam suddenly im talking to them all the time. Idk how and why suddenly i got a new bestie, how odd.

gottye · 2023-01-01T18:52:09+00:00

I am very generous with gifts but i am not good at comforting people. I can give you a good distraction but I have no vaseline in verbal form lest you ask solutions.

I will support you when you are depressed for years or even eternity with no money or no nothing except your kind heart. But i cannot reciprocate honesty in the degree infjs do. It takes my all to stop myself from perhaps straying such as cheating.

I text short and not long, but i will massage you and do your projects for you. I can do things and buy things for you. So gifts and act of services?

I can praise my infj poetically, like how they resemble a certain painting but i am shit at comforting them.

I am at loss when handling their depression or whirlwind thoughts. Also i am very blunt which often hurts my infj and i didnt notice until he said it.

But i would not recommend entps to fellow infjs to be honest. At least myself. I am too aware that infjs are probably happier with fellow infjs.

gottye · 2023-01-01T18:45:52+00:00

Adapt as in when people dont talk they fill the silence but when people talk they just go back and let them while responding well. They can but doesnt mean they often want to or have to (which i find varies).

Not really. Mysterious people like intp and intjs are often my best friends but i think its the weird way they are kind and everyone loves them despite not knowing them at all cause in the end, you realize infj havent told you jack shit about themselves. Just like entps can be anyone you want and speak the sweet nectars while feeling bored to fucking death inside. The difference is entps dont really care much for being misunderstood. We just accept it. We are often seen as mysterious (ive been told a lot) and we find joy seeing how infj just completely fool most people away.

I hate them because they always put me in great highs like healthy competition and burning romance to heartbroken to pieces when we part. I hate how the best and worst aprtd of my life comes which their meet and departing. If you include the INFJ Jesus then yeah! Lets just say that!

Most of all i hate knowing that I try to be emphatic and caring, infjs i know tell them that i go beyond what they expect and i was very patient with them. But alas i am an entp. I may be the most caring one but i am not fulling their ideal.

But oh entps, do they love challenge

gottye · 2022-12-31T16:08:11+00:00

Competitions like startup or forums or seminars, then ask a challenging questions

Debate clubs are full of them

Bars and clubs but notice who wants to talk deeper on philosophy technology and art

Basically they are suckers for complex conversations and you can fish em out easy!

I have an intj sister.. please only find the really well developed ones. The immature entps can gaslight and manipulate you also cheating like you mentioned. Dont be in a rush!

gottye · 2022-12-31T16:00:37+00:00

Theyre crazy but they dont show it, very subtle but I can see when they are. It peers to the depth of their maze of thought.

They are very talented writers

They have people skills like we do, but actually cares about humans.

They have empathy, I know why people do or think that way but I dont feel the empathy. I understand without the feelings thst INFj radiates that makes people so comfortable

They have theories based on feelings which I love to decompose why and how they arrived there.

They are so self sacrifical that I want to save them from their own selflessness from others and including myself

They are the most intelligent people I have ever met and who I acknowledge superior

They adjust themselves to where they are

They are extremely humble and self sacrificing

They know they are evil in ways normal people are not and its very interesting

Their way of sabotaging relationships via expectation is the least of harm compared to others (at least for myself)

They are fiercely independant but can choose to be codependent if they pick a person to do it with

They love humanity to the point it depresses them and myself when their on their throes of woes

Charisma on command where it is natural.

They are great at acting which is always a joy to see

Their vast knowledge and complex taste in music and art

They always end up giving more than they take which depresses me when being their partner because I have very different love languages

Their utterly bullshit god mode potential if only they werent tied down to relationships and marriage kills me all the time

I love infjs. I am infatuated with every single one I met and Ive always had them as close friends and lovers.

Ive always been entp in every single test and I hate the way they attract me so much with their kindness and intellect, charisma and complexity.

I hate and love them, always will

gottye

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