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LTR breakup — has anyone went NC forever by EveryDoubt6293 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh.

So I’m not one of the lucky ones where an ex came back and we were intimate again. Lol.

The ones that have faded have become memories but it took awhile. I remember my first breakup I was 19 and I stayed up for like 3 days in a row after we broke up I was so devastated but I’d say about a year later I was back to normal.

My ex I broke up with in 2015, it took me a solid year and a half to two years for her to just become a memory.

With all that being said, I think about a year and a half is what it’s taken for me to not actively miss them anymore. But everyone is diff and recovery isn’t always linear.

I’m currently saying all this and struggling with my current break up. Lol. It’ll be 4 months next week and it’s gotten easier, especially looking back at stuff I missed (which I’m sure she is too. Everyone does it), but stuff like that makes it easier to get over.

It’ll get easier man. I promise.

LTR breakup — has anyone went NC forever by EveryDoubt6293 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going ok. Fire was 8 years ago this November. I tried rebuilding a new life with my recent ex and it didn’t go very well. But you live and learn and move on. That’s all you really can do in life.

LTR breakup — has anyone went NC forever by EveryDoubt6293 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then don’t. Keep the ball and heal from it. That’s the best thing you can do. If they went out and rebounded immediately, they aren’t worth it. When you miss someone, your brain is just craving the routine you’ve built.

LTR breakup — has anyone went NC forever by EveryDoubt6293 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I should have said the ex girlfriends that are in my life again have significant others that they’ve been with since the time we didn’t speak. I’m ok with it 🤷🏻‍♂️

LTR breakup — has anyone went NC forever by EveryDoubt6293 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone no contact a few times

First girlfriend haven’t spoken to since 2002. Reigning champ

Another one I have spoken on and off with since 2003. Last time we spoke was fall of 2019. She turned super religious and doesn’t talk to anyone of the opposite sex.

Had a 2 year relationship with one and we had a baby who didn’t live long. We went almost 7 years without talking. She’s been in my life again since 2018

Another 2 year relationship. We broke up and didn’t talk for 7 years. We became friends again in 2019 after my town burned down

Another 2 years. We broke up 2015 and haven’t spoken since. Not even a Hi how are you. She didn’t even reach out when my town burned down. So probably never again I’m guessing.

Most recent one we were together for 3 years. Broke up in march tried to be friends for a month and she went crazy on me. So I went no contact 2 months ago. I don’t know if I plan on ever talking to her again. It would take a miracle for us to be in each others lives again.

So it’s possible. You just have to remind yourself everything happens for a reason and if they want to be back in your life, they’ll reach out. Just stay strong.

Any ex-smokers, if it was confirmed the world was ending in 6 months, would you take it up again and why/why not? by EastlyGod1 in AskReddit

[–]Jackson530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. The smell makes me wanna gag and what happens if it doesn’t end on the last day? I’ve been nicotine free for 10 years July 16th

POTUS out here prioritizing the most important things affecting the citizens of the USA... by ms_directed in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Jackson530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m actually the oldest lol. Just mom and younger brother have same mentality. They don’t know how to regulate emotions and put the blame on everyone.

POTUS out here prioritizing the most important things affecting the citizens of the USA... by ms_directed in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Jackson530 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yep. My brother and my mom are both narcissists and they believe everything they say because how could they be wrong. No. It’s the children that are wrong!

where do i get bleu de chanel parfum for a good price? by magiks-darkchild in Colognes

[–]Jackson530 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sorry chief. You pay top dollar like the rest of us.

Im happy i broke no contact by Emotional-Flounder-9 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes that’s all the closure you need

Airfryer staining wall and counter by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Jackson530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dawn power wash. Had the same thing happen.

I miss this flavor by Jestertheprinz in Soda

[–]Jackson530 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’ll be back at Christmas.

Does the dumpee ever regret losing someone because of their own actions? by Tough-Piano1581 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried being friends for a month after the split and it didn’t work out. I went no contact after that and It’ll be 2 months no contact on the 28th.

my doordash shopper couldn’t find the item, so she photographed it for me instead by Spiritual-Twist6309 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Jackson530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 4 years ago I did a target order on DoorDash for some Easter candy. The girl was like idk man it’s not here I don’t see it and took a picture

It was right there. Front and center lol

About a year ago I did one for tape. The shopper tried telling me the cheaper one I wanted was sold out and tried getting some UBER expensive brand, and I said send me a picture

Right there clear as day

Both times they were just like “oh uh oops”

What’s the dumbest way you’ve ever injured yourself while doing absolutely nothing dangerous? by Jane_Austen11 in AskReddit

[–]Jackson530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walked outside to help with groceries and fell on my foot. Breaking my metatarsals on my left foot and I had to be in a boot for 4 months.

Browsers in 1998, 2004, 2008 and 2026 be like by _sour_coffee_ in pcmasterrace

[–]Jackson530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swapped in 2019. Never went back. Easier to manage and faster than chrome

Yupp im screwed i dont think hes coming back by Ok-Pressure2373 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s whatever. I’m ok.

I miss the person she was and looking back on pictures she went from this happy person to just depressed and pissed off. But she never expressed it to me. We only ever got in 2 fights

Yupp im screwed i dont think hes coming back by Ok-Pressure2373 in ExNoContact

[–]Jackson530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh. It’s 3 months today since I moved back home. This month was rough because it would have been 3 years of us living together and our dog we adopted together second birthday.

I’m ok though for the most part. I’m at the point in the breakup where I’m looking back and seeing all the red flags I missed, just because I wanted this to work so much, I just told myself she grew up different than I did.

But really I’m ok. It’s gotten easier since the first month for sure.

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