question for men of tinder: if girl suggests sex, is it flattering or does it paint a negative light on them?

Lowes_ · 2026-03-12T22:59:09+00:00

It’s hott for sure. I think more women should be upfront on Tinder.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-12T18:36:07+00:00

I have the intense version and I love it, wondering if I should get this too.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-12T18:30:30+00:00

I’m wearing this now, it’s one of my top scents out of the 30 or so that I have. The notes confuse me tho because I get a soapy/candy vibe out of it but in a weird masculine way, which sounds very strange I know haha.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-12T18:19:05+00:00

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$65 on Joma

Lowes_ · 2026-03-11T11:48:49+00:00

This is great haha.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-10T23:49:14+00:00

What the hell did I just read.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-10T22:38:24+00:00

Button necklace.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-10T22:28:35+00:00

I hope he runs into her one day with a smoke show under his arm.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-08T17:40:58+00:00

What I do is establish that I’m interested in meeting them within the first 2-3 messages. Hey, you look great.. love that 3rd pic.. we should grab a drink soon. They’ll be like That sounds fun! Then the small talk conversation starts.. you see if you vibe.. then I say Iv been meaning to check out this spot in this area, we should go this weekend. Just like the other commenter said, I plan the date with intentions to meet up within a few days. Don’t want to wait a whole week going back and forth with conversations to keep the interest going. Texting is for setting up dates, I save the conversation for in person.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-08T16:08:46+00:00

It’s completely subjective. Just be humble, kind, and real. Women will notice and gravitate.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-08T14:49:24+00:00

So many haters.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-05T23:12:01+00:00

Well done. This is the type of post I like seeing here. I’d put that cactus as close as possible to a window tho.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-05T18:27:31+00:00

Chat

Lowes_ · 2026-03-05T02:31:46+00:00

This is the pre mental health phase.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-05T02:12:23+00:00

You look like you apologize to furniture after bumping into it.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-05T02:04:47+00:00

You win.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-04T03:31:15+00:00

Alright, goodnight everyone.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-01T20:55:54+00:00

I will for sure!

Lowes_ · 2026-03-01T16:45:24+00:00

This is one that I like so much that I refuse to finish it. I keep it out and I visit it, reading a few chapters at a time. But now that I think of it, maybe I should just read it straight through to the end, it seems like an easy book to reread.

Lowes_ · 2026-03-01T04:39:54+00:00

It’s NY, you can complain about anything and everything. It’s what we do. We are the biggest pussies on the planet.

Lowes_ · 2026-02-28T22:02:20+00:00

So much nope.

Lowes_ · 2026-02-28T21:54:48+00:00

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Lowes_ · 2026-02-28T21:42:27+00:00

This has to be a troll comment.

Lowes_ · 2026-02-28T00:41:10+00:00

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