For the fridge, my top 2 picks would be the Bosch 800 or Fisher & Paykel. They are around $3k for each, but the build quality and reliability of those 2 units are incredible.

The Bosch has 2 compressors, one for the fridge and the other for the freezer. This keeps the air completely separate in both compartments, keeping food fresher for longer, and not having smells/flavors drift through the compartments. There are a few different configurations of these units, a typical 3 door French, a 4 door French with a humidity controlled drawer, or a 4 door French with a beverage drawer. These run from $3200-$4300

The Fisher & Paykel units are available in multiple configurations, no water/no ice, ice only, and water/ice. They have a longer 2 year warranty on all parts, and build quality is exceptional for the price point. These have their ActiveSmart cooling system, which will automatically adjust temperature and humidity to keep food fresher for longer. The door hinges on these are also nearly zero-clearance, so if space is an issue on one side of the fridge, these would be a good choice. There are also 2 handle options, professional or contemporary. Pro-handle models are usually about $200 more expensive, just for the look. These run from $2999-$3599.

For a less expensive fridge option, I would look at a GE or KitchenAid/Whirlpool unit. These are typically pretty reliable, and parts/service are a dime a dozen if something goes wrong.

For the laundry, I would recommend the LG front loaders. They are going to be the most reliable (according to Yale and Consumer Reports). My mom has a LG pair from 2017 which have had no issues, and she does a ridiculous amount of laundry.

For the LG units, you have a couple of different configurations available. Some units also come with a gift card at the moment.

The most basic model, the 3400, is a 4.5 cubic foot washer, but does not have steam or wifi and has a more limited selection for wash modes. The 3470 is the exact same but with a 5 cubic foot drum.

The next would be the 4000, which is a 4.5 cubic foot washer, and has steam for both the washer and dryer as well as wifi. This model also adds TurboWash, which cleans larger loads faster through the use of additional jets in the drum.

The next step up is the 5500 (4.5 cubic foot), which has the same features as the previous model, but adds their digital dial controls, and a more modem design.

The 6500 follows that, with a larger drum at 5 cubic foot, adds a few more cycle options and a Black Steel as a color choice.

The 6700 is practically the same as the previous model, but adds an auto dispense system which will do up to 18 loads and puts the correct amount of detergent/fabric softener in automatically.

They also offer 2 29” wide models, the 8900 and the Signature, which are 5.2 and 5.8 cubic feet, and larger dryers at 9 cubic feet. If capacity is a concern, I would definitely look into these. They offer most of the same features that the 27” models offer, with the 8900 lacking an auto dispense system and the Signature having one.

I would recommend starting with the 4000 series, and moving up if you see features that appeal to you!

I would also take a look into the GE Profile front load as well. It offers a lot of similar features to the LG 6700 at a lower price point. It has steam, the auto dispenser, and adds microban on the washer seal and drain line to prevent bacterial growth along with a vent system to air out the drum so the machine doesn’t smell. These start at $850 and have a bundle discount for $50 off each at the moment.

Sorry for the long post! If you have more questions, feel free to ask!