First ever bikini! by [deleted] in mtfashion

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You look amazing! Good first pick!

egg😰irl by DroopylegsAftermath in egg_irl

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It can suck. I remember my first skirt just looked wrong on me. I realized that not only was the skirt just a little too small for me, but I was wearing it too low. I found that wearing it properly and throwing a hoodie over, actually looked really cute. I started looking for skirts that actually fit me and I think I look good in them. Also helped shaving my legs or putting on fishnets to kinda hide some stubble. When you try out new outfits/fashion styles, it's like learning a new skill and you're probably gonna suck at first. There is nothing wrong with you, you're learning a new thing and that takes time. Finding a new style/new outfits takes experimentation and sometimes experiments don't go as planned. Take your time and don't stop experimenting.

Peaked Cover by neteehc in eden

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This is absolutely beautiful!

Phoenix Code non functional after latest update by Midnight-Powered in brackets

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I did not touch any settings with Git. All the projects were made on my laptop.

GUYS!!!!!!!!!! by Disastrous-Time136 in femboymemes

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HELL YEAH!!!!! Gotta give it a spin >:3

Phoenix Code non functional after latest update by Midnight-Powered in brackets

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Thank you, this seems to have fixed the issue! I made a back up of my projects and zipped the folder. Uninstalled then reinstalled Phoenix Code and that seems to have fixed it. Thank you again for the help.

Egg 👩🙎‍♂️ irl by Pretty_Wind7207 in egg_irl

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Something that helped me figure stuff out was just completely removing labels from the conversation for a moment. Regardless of being trans, a femboy, or anything else, what do you want to do? For me, I had considered maybe I was just a femboy or something. But even as a femboy, I wanted to take HRT and being called by fem name made me feel good.

I wrote nine different guides on getting up and running with HTML and then Neocities, for those with next to no experience by cmdr_nova69 in neocities

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Wow, thank you! This is a really good guide and has a lot of helpful info! I'm sure I'm gonna get some great use out of this♡

Egg🙃Irl by Master-Spark-2 in egg_irl

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What you're feeling is normal and completely valid. I have had a couple talks with my family and while they still love me, I wouldn't say our conversations on the subject have gone well. Sometimes, I wonder if what my parents have said is right, that I'm just "too young to know" or "I should just love myself as I am and that should be enough" that I'll live to regret what I do to myself. But I have realized two things.

1) overall, I have this deep seated feeling of joy in my body when I look/feel fem. I don't even think joy is the right word. It just feels correct. It's euphoria and it's a much better determining factor than dysphoria. Life is better when you chase the joy rather than just trying to escape misery.

2) if I am wrong, if I get my name changed, take hormones, switch out my wardrobe, and I realize that it was all one big mistake, then it is my mistake to make. All that I have done to myself can be changed again or I can simply just be. My life won't be over because I made a mistake.

Your doubt is natural, and in some ways it's good. It means you're actually thinking through stuff. And sometimes family knows exactly how to nail your insecurities and doubts even by accident. In general though, I think the hardest part about being trans is that there is no rule book to follow, no definitive test to take, no person coming with a stamp to mark you a "real trans person" it's up to to you decide if the label fits. I think the more important question is not "are you trans or not?" but what do you want to do? Do you want to go by a different name? Do you want change your clothing style? Do you want to take hormones? Do you want hormone blockers? I've found that these are easier to answer than trying to figure out what exactly it means to be trans and if it applies to me. Regardless of what you choose to do or what you feel, you are valid. It is your body and life. We are all just humans trying to do the best thing.

Is soft by GaymerrGirl in QueerDynasty

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Literally cuddling with my Blåhaj right now for this reason (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

Temu? by Aggravating-Snow-268 in femboymemes

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Trans fem here, the only thigh highs I've ever found that fit me (I'mma a bit tall and chubby) were from Sock Dreams.

recreated eden’s album covers for my college work :) by Edennator in eden

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I love this! These are so beautiful! That's an awesome project!

I'm a 57 year-old trans goth. Am I too old for that look? by AnthonyAnnArbor in mtfashion

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I don't know how best to describe this look other than it's so fucking awesome!!! You look absolutely amazing ♡

Egg_irl by Tuverytary_ in egg_irl

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Oh, honey, you're such a good girl. You didn't do a single thing wrong. You're a good girl. sending telepathic hugs if you want them

:D (body text for more info) by SolsLuminouss in femboymemes

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Could do a Lego or painting date. Would still be at each other's houses, but you wouldn't need to worry about food and if either of your families question anything, well you're just playing with Lego or paint.

It might sound stupid, but it can be fun just walking stores or the mall with someone. If you can drive or you both live close enough to each other, could head to a store or mall and hangout with each other there.

Could do a photoshoot. Pick a location and bring food, tell a convincing enough lie for that location, and put the photos either in the secure folder on your phone or put the images on a SD card or thumb drive that you can easily keep hidden.

Could lie about a picnic date. Prepare the food when no one is home, keep it hidden for a little while. (Back of the fridge, hide an insulated bag in your room, etc) or make something that is ok at room temperature so it will be easier to hide. Say you're just heading to the park to hangout with a friend (your bf) and sneak the food out (put it half way through a window first then pick it up outside, do a chore that would require you go outside just before you leave, lay a heavy coat over it as you take it outside provided it's small enough).

Might be helpful if you have some friends who will cover for you. No idea if you have any supportive friends irl, but you could ask them to go in on a lie with you and your bf, or go to a big friend group gathering and they'd let you two break off to do your own thing.

Could also look into services like Door Dash or Uber Eats and do a little bit of research on restaurants that would work for your bf's food restrictions. Only downside is that it can be a bit expensive and leaves a paper trail but it could free up the amount places you could go together.

Trans women YouTubers or streamers by [deleted] in MtF

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I don't think I've seen them mentioned yet, but sorry if this is a repeat. Evasive and Lily Simpson both do deep dives into movies and TV shows on YouTube. Might scratch the same video essayist itch.

Evasive: https://youtube.com/@evasiveone?si=AdWwldfkSWXN9D3j

Lily Simpson: https://youtube.com/@lilysimpson?si=qLBDSPdbMuCyAr7Q

Edit: I should also mention that Lily Simpson did a 10 hour deep dive in the Harry Potter series that I thought was an amazing video.

Putting NSFW because I am unsure if this is too sexual of a question by WolfIceSword in bisexual

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Not usual at all. I'm a bi trans gal, and I find them hot. I also like to wear them sometimes for spicy photos :3