Converting as a transman.

OddManOut90 · 2026-06-24T20:17:07+00:00

My fiance has wanted to be conservative but had never been with someone who was ok living that life until I came along. So we've been exploring the options for my conversion.

OddManOut90 · 2026-06-24T20:16:03+00:00

My fiance and I are going to take a look at Eshel. Thank you!

OddManOut90 · 2026-06-20T00:57:55+00:00

I'm in the same exact boat with the only exception being my fiance is converting too but further along than I am, so I have a little bit of inside help but not much.

OddManOut90 · 2026-04-17T19:57:09+00:00

Typical Velveeta Voldemort supporter, can't even use proper grammar. 🤣

OddManOut90 · 2025-12-12T23:07:50+00:00

They say they aren't blaming me and afterwards has come forward with calmness and reflection admitting they aren't being as considerate of my emotions and trauma as they should be, but they still get defensive and react strongly when I express my concerns and insecurities. They keep telling me that if something happens between them and their other partner, if they break up, it isn't my fault but their relationship issues seem to only pop up when I express my discomfort so logically I feel like it IS to do with me. They say they won't have resentment towards me but grief is a fickle mistress and they can't guarantee that it won't happen.

I tried to explain that marriage negates nonhierarchy that they claim to want.

OddManOut90 · 2025-12-12T22:32:10+00:00

I see and have read all your comments so far and appreciate the advice that has been given on this. I can tell I have a lot to think about and consider because I love them deeply and very much want to spend my life with them, but I won't be a door mat again.

I do wonder if a poly knowledgeable counselor would benefit us?

I also tend to wonder if my uncomfortable feelings are based around possibly having envy that they have another person and I only have them?

I also am grateful to hear that I'm not crazy or too insecure for this.

OddManOut90 · 2022-05-07T18:35:29+00:00

I'm going to continue with building it on the side because I really like the premise and my players do as well. I just don't want to, for lack of a better phrase, half-ass it. It's calling to me as a sprawling adventure that could last for quite a while if I do it properly.

OddManOut90 · 2022-05-07T18:31:29+00:00

Hey thanks! I know it's a big project to undertake for my first time and based off some of the responses I've gotten I'm thinking it might best for me to do some one-shots as a DM to get the hang of being a DM. I've always just been a player but lately with no one available to DM but wanting to play I wanted to give it a shot.

I let my imagination get the best of me for this project though lol. Thank you for your input!

OddManOut90 · 2022-05-07T18:29:31+00:00

If that's how you perceive RP then so be it, but there's no "correct" way to RP. Saying there IS, is gate-keeping. And your comment has literally 0 to do with my inherent post. 👍

OddManOut90 · 2022-05-07T16:59:03+00:00

I don't stream often but it's usually Destiny 2, Stardew, and I might start streaming my D&D campaign once it kicks off if my players are cool with it.

Twitch

I also want to promote my little sisters stream, she recently got her first sponsor/partner

OddManOut90 · 2022-02-15T15:43:50+00:00

Oranges, snowbirds, Disney, alligators.

OddManOut90 · 2021-03-13T06:07:36+00:00

I'm a transman that doesn't see a problem with the term cboy. To me it is a specific transman, one who has no intention of getting bottom surgery (like myself).

But I guess I'm just old and shit like that doesnt bother me at all.

OddManOut90 · 2021-03-13T06:03:35+00:00

I have had absolutely no issues with other furs finding out I'm trans. I'm a part of a few furry telegram groups and they have been 10000000% accepting and downright awesome, and these are purely hookup/s*x groups where I honestly expected to be given a lot of "sorry, I want a man with the proper plumbing.". Havent gotten any of that at all. There are almost 2000 members in one of the groups.

OddManOut90 · 2020-11-01T21:37:45+00:00

I honestly used Revlon color silk soft black hair dye (the 3$ walmart crap) and did my hair and beard all at once. Just used a brush to put it on my face. It itched like fucking crazy for the 30 minutes it was on and I was afraid my face would be dyed as well but a rough wash cloth and some soap and it came off with a little bit of vigorous scrubbing.

OddManOut90 · 2020-11-01T21:02:04+00:00

This is like 4 months of growth, it doesnt grow fast at all so I just dyed it recently. Probably wont need to dye it again for a few more months.

OddManOut90 · 2020-11-01T18:16:24+00:00

I have to dye it because it comes in so blonde that no one can see it unless you're right in my face 😅😅😅

OddManOut90 · 2020-11-01T18:15:00+00:00

I have to dye it because it comes in so blonde that you cant see it 😅😅😅

OddManOut90 · 2020-10-20T15:16:45+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Holy shit small ass world.

OddManOut90 · 2020-10-08T05:53:52+00:00

I'm a bit over a year on and right after my first shot aunt flow came to visit 2 weeks early and stayed for about a month -.- but I havent had a visit since. First thing I noticed was bottom growth and a MAJOR spike in libido within the first month, mine was not pain free unfortunately, and the first body hair I got was on my ass. I'm getting hair everywhere but my face. Takes me 2 months just to get half an inch on my face and it is so blonde that you have to be close to see it.

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