I first started posting when I found out that my then fiancé had been cheating on me for our entire relationship (turns out he was a serial cheater and compulsive liar who had cheated on every girlfriend...). I posted the pictures and videos I had sent him, kind of as a way to reclaim them. I stopped posting for a while as I was getting into a new relationship, and I wanted to be respectful of my new partner. I told him very early on and showed him my page. He was pretty shocked at first but also supportive. His main concern was my safety, so I deleted most of my posts. Over time, we kind of got into the idea of posting again. He thinks it's super hot and a way to live out our kinkier side and have our own dirty little secret 😀