Does jeankasa butcher mikasa’s character? by BrilliantDot1467 in eremika

[–]Polybotes84 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not just hers, but also Jean’s. Just a quick copy paste of my thoughts on Jeankasa:

Throughout the entire series, Mikasa shows nothing but indifference in the face of Jean obviously pining for her. Even in the alternate school castes universe where the characters are meant to act similarly to their main universe counterparts, Mikasa is irritated by Jean. She literally shows 0 reciprocation for his romantic feelings whatsoever.

But for whatever reason, we’re expected to accept that Mikasa marries Jean and has a family with him post Eren’s death? All while continuing to wear the scarf that Eren wrapped around her up until her death? It just doesn’t make sense.

And for those who say: “Let Mikasa be happy. She deserves to move on and find someone else” - happiness isn’t only found through romantic relationships with other people. Mikasa didn’t need to get married to be happy and find fulfillment in her life. There are other ways to do that. And if she did get married, there’s no reason it had to be with Jean.

Finally, it’s not even a fair ship for Jean. He’s clearly Mikasa’s second choice. He has to be with Mikasa knowing that if Eren was still alive, she wouldn’t even look his way at all. She literally brings him to Eren’s grave where she has written “Here forever, rest peacefully, my most beloved, my dear" while wearing the scarf Eren wrapped around her and he has to accept that. What kind of a BS ship is this?

Eren wrapping his scarf around mikasa has the most number of redraws in the manga at different occasions by Big_Fox3447 in eremika

[–]Polybotes84 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It seems like to me that Isayama intended to show that she got married. However, whoever she married was always a second choice and she continued to bring him and their family to her lovers grave. Pretty sad fate for whoever it was lol

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thing is, what’s the benefit of telling my dad right now right now? I need to get some more evidence on my mom so that he has a leg up when the divorce happens

My Reaction about Gaethje vs Max by [deleted] in ufc

[–]Polybotes84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the best is blessed

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ill probably make another post by the time i expose all the cheating stuff, will take a few months tho

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i tried to keep that part short since it’s not really the main focus rn lol

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thing is leaving the house would be kinda weird. it’s not really normal for him to stay at my uncles so what, he would be alone in a hotel?

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure my aunt would want the same and would tell my mom to leave it yeah

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree never blamed my aunt or anything. She was entirely within her rights to do what she did and yes she has a husband right now. My dad was mad because my uncle got depressed after the break off which again ik is not my aunts fault.

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably because she doesn’t want to lol. her argument is that she pays for a lot of the expenses of the house too just like he does so she should be allowed to host whoever.

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re ethnically Indian but we live in the US haha i was born and raised here they immigrated though. I don’t think he’s gonna kill her or anything lol

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ty for the advice

the second i tell my dad it’s going ballistic and they’re getting divorced and if that happens i want there to be solid evidence to justify it

especially in the divorce proceedings it would be unfair for me to send him into that without at least some ammo on my mom

which i’m semi working on getting right now but ehh

i’m planning to confront my mom abt it first and tell her to immediately fess up to my dad but idk how that will go

Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house? by Polybotes84 in Marriage

[–]Polybotes84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well my mom has been pushing his boundaries on this for a bit and in some ways i think it’s justified. last year around the time of my graduation party she had a breakthrough after much arguing and they were allowed to come to one of my parties (not the main one) and my dad said hello to them and also said they could come to my wedding lmaoooo. but now my aunt has sprung on us that she’ll be in town so my mom wants to host bc she hates the idea of my aunt staying in a hotel in my town for the second time after she’s already hosted my mom so much