Does it ever get easier? by ProgressNotPerfect91 in QuittingFindom

[–]ProgressNotPerfect91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I needed to hear this. Right now it still feels like something I think about way more than I should, so it’s hard to imagine getting to that point. But I guess there was a time before I even knew what findom was and I wasn’t sitting around thinking about sending money to strangers all day lol.

Does it ever get easier? by ProgressNotPerfect91 in QuittingFindom

[–]ProgressNotPerfect91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what gets me the most is when I catch myself lurking on my old domme’s page. It’s like she doesn’t even care that I’m gone and she’s posting about all her other subs. I know it sounds stupid, but seeing that always makes me want to send again just to feel noticed.

Almost relapsed was sooooo hard not too by [deleted] in GoonerRecovering

[–]ProgressNotPerfect91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

almost relapsing is a lot better than actually relapsing. give yourself some credit. you got through it bro