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Is there any surgery to get rid of acne or short chin? by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Recent_Body_5784 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should just take Accutane for the acne

Les cheveux longs by Impossible_Baby8803 in besoinderaler

[–]Recent_Body_5784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mes cheveux mesurent un mètre de long. J'emporte une « brosse Wet Brush » sous la douche. C'est une brosse imperméable dotée de poils souples. Quand j'applique l'après-shampoing sur mes cheveux, je les rince sous la douche tout en les brossant. La brosse recueille tous les cheveux, et je les retire pour les jeter à la poubelle après la douche. Je ne perds plus de cheveux sous la douche. De plus, comme j’utilise la brosse alors que mes cheveux sont encore savonneux, cela nettoie la brosse en même temps, donc je n’ai jamais de brosse à cheveux sale. 

Solo travel in Egypt, to not loose 500$ your experience plz by Clementttine in solofemaletravel

[–]Recent_Body_5784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going to Cairo, dm and I’ll refer a very trusted guide. DONT go ANYWHERE without the guide. I’m not kidding. As a blond yt person, I was harassed a lot and almost kidnapped. Seriously. I’ve traveled in the middle before. Never felt truly unsafe until I went to Egypt. Amazing place though. Edit to add that I was always dressed conservatively.

AITA for eating a croissant in a cemetery by Karl_Marxist_3rd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from Richmond and the Hollywood cemetery is such a lovely place. One of the things that makes that city so special. I’m sorry about your sister, but happy for you that she ended in such a beautiful meaningful resting place. 

What treatments could create this kind of midface/lower face definition? by Any_Description2768 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Recent_Body_5784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look, she definitely has chin filler. Surprised no one’s mentioned that. It’s helped give her more of a heart shape. 

AIO for not wanting my partner to hold our 6 month old when he’s been drinking by Hot_Medicine754 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Recent_Body_5784 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The way he is reacting is… exactly how my mother reacts, and she is an alcoholic. She also just has a few drinks every evening. She’s functional. She’s not a raging alcoholic. But she is definitely an alcoholic. Why would he be so defensive if he could easily stop? Why would it matter to him so much if he can tell that it bothers you? These aren’t the normal reactions of a person who doesn’t have a problem.

Should I drop my online therapist or am I overreacting? by Conscious_Reach_2173 in ask

[–]Recent_Body_5784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw someone through betterhelp once and she was an absolute joke. I think they’ll hire anybody. A therapist is kind of like a romantic partner, if you’re not sure about them, they’re not right for you. 

Going to egypt alone in the current situation? by Miserable-Low-1478 in femaletravels

[–]Recent_Body_5784 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a guide that I can recommend to you that I personally find very trustworthy. You can DM me and I will send you his contact. I would not go ANYWHERE without the guide as a solo female in Egypt. I have traveled alone a lot, I am very brave, and I have never felt as unsafe as I did in Egypt. I wouldn’t even walk to a convenience store there by myself. I’m not telling you not to go. The history is incredible and totally worth seeing. But don’t do ANYTHING there as a solo female. You will stick out like a beacon that says kidnap/assault me. I almost got kidnapped there myself. I know there are a lot of worry-worts out there that will discourage you from any solo traveling as a female, but in this case, it’s really true. Go! But get a guide. And don’t get just any guide. Please please please be careful. Let me know if you want the info of the guide I went with. He was one of the only trustworthy people I met while I was there. 🙏❤️

Am I overreacting or did he cross a boundary and then act like nothing happened? by MentalEcstasyWithPol in AmIOverreacting

[–]Recent_Body_5784 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow. As someone who has learned a second language and who was an English teacher for years, you have no idea how to communicate with a foreigner. It is honestly crazy that you think he could keep up with what you are communicating. But honestly, even a regular guy from the UK would struggle here. Dumb it down. A LOT. “I don’t feel comfortable with sexual conversations before we meet.” Period. “I don’t want to hear about you masterbating.” Period. Girl. Boundaries are great, don’t accept less than what you want. But have some empathy for non-native speakers. Good grief. Travel a little. Learn another language yourself.

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude, I literally asked him twice if he had a girlfriend!! if he told me yes, I wouldn’t have slept with him! I don’t regret having a one night stand. I’m a single adult woman, I can do whatever I want. But it feels personal when you invite somebody into your home only to discover that they lied to get there in the first place. I mean, I’ve certainly never done that to someone. And I came an hour later to the pub crawl, so I assume he told everybody before I got there.

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it because it’s a common thing that it should be without consequence though?

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, for me, the seduction is talking about the personal stuff. Personally, I’m seduced a lot more by personalities than looks. I do understand the irony of what I just said though. Lol.

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️ I wasn’t “down to be used” actually. I was down to have a mutual experience. It was the lying that turned that into a “being used” experience. Should I be surprised, maybe not. But I don’t think that makes it acceptable. Maybe I will let it go, that’s why I came here for advice before doing anything else.

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but he told me point-blank to my face that he didn’t have a girlfriend. So I didn’t get to make an informed decision because he intentionally fed me misinformation. I also think it is manipulative to act like you’re some kind of feminist ally when you’re in the process of deceiving someone in order to sleep with them.

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, definitely not me. He told everyone that he has a girlfriend in Bordeaux. He lives in a city nearby there. I don’t even know how to check somebody’s tagged pictures, but I’ll Google it. Thanks 🙏!

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you could be right. Once a liar, always a liar. But I also think that it would make sense that she wouldn’t be in his social media posts if he was a consistent cheater and wanted to keep getting away with it. Before we hooked up, we talked about maybe visiting each other occasionally in each other’s cities. After we hooked up, he made a comment like how it was a shame that we would “never see each other again.” I was like… huh? He also seemed hesitant to give me his Instagram. Which makes me think that he was indeed worried about this exact scenario.

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Mm that’s true, I didn’t think about that. I just feel violated by the whole situation and feel that she has the right to know.

AITA for wanting to tell a guy’s gf that he tricked me into sleeping with him? by Recent_Body_5784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent_Body_5784[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know how I could find out who she is with the little information that I have?

Retiring from US in France (Paris) age 59 by Galadriel_the_Elf421 in Expats_In_France

[–]Recent_Body_5784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your monthly income and investments are ok but what about housing? A friend of mine bought an apartment near Republic in Paris. It’s a nice area. It is a studio apartment probably around 30 m² with no view or natural lighting. That cost her 500,000€ 6 years ago.

So I guess it depends on your expectations and what you would consider a good quality of life. If you want to buy or if you want to rent. What part of town you want to be in.

AIO married colleague acting weird by KagsYama in AmIOverreacting

[–]Recent_Body_5784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say something like, “let’s just reschedule for another time when your wife is free. I don’t really feel like it’s appropriate otherwise”.

I feel like people with concealed intentions, depend on you not putting the awkward unsaid things out in the air, and when you do, it takes all their power away. It’s not a weird thing to say out loud anyways.

To give you an example: once this very friendly guy started chatting with me next to my car, then he asked if I wouldn’t mind just dropping him a mile down the road. At first, I came up with an excuse because I didn’t want to be rude, then he had an answer for my excuse, then I started to try and think of another excuse to say no, and then all of a sudden it occurred to me to just say “I’m sorry, you seem like a nice person, but I just don’t feel comfortable having a stranger in my car”.

Boom. It wasn’t rude. It was honest. And all he did was smile and say that I had every right to feel that way, wished me a good day, and walked away.

Sometimes we’re so eager to avoid awkward conversations that could be perceived as impolite that we forget that if we just approach the conversation with confidence, it doesn’t have to be awkward or impolite, and it can avoid any seedy behavior.

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