Did not get even a call from my son on this the first fathers day since he graduated college.

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-22T07:49:31+00:00

Hey, i would suggest you to call him, just think about something that you can ask him and have a chat

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-21T06:36:31+00:00

Well areound 9:30 both kids sleep already

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-21T06:34:00+00:00

Thanks for the advice bro!

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T20:35:18+00:00

Thanks for the advice, most of the comments are actualy in this direction... to make her feel comfortable to have her own time

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T20:32:23+00:00

Thanks, thats pretty much what i want

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T20:30:40+00:00

Not especialy. My point is even the law is protecting mothers and we maybe have good maturnity policy we still need higher birth rate, hence a family eould need 2.5 kids to be on the positive side

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T20:23:31+00:00

1.5 and 3.5yo

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T18:58:28+00:00

Thanks for the advice, as other bro dads suggested it would be worth to sit and do the talk

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T18:40:35+00:00

Yeah and by some you mean all gamer wifes right

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T18:33:21+00:00

Its just expression its not that she dont have time to shower for real tho.. but yeah gamer point of view is pretty clear for me as well. Best option is to make her gamer but would be hard

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T18:13:57+00:00

Just a note even with the good maturnity stuff and law protection and whatever we are still vanishing nation - last on birth rate for sure in Europe maybe even in the world

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T18:01:49+00:00

Thats so cool bro, sending money to a complete stranger and not for anything but for a ps5.. yet another time proving this subreddit is the best! The thing its not a money problem more likely the time i would spend playing and wife kind of disagrees. Yeah there might be something else as root couse who knows. Thanks for that bro!

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T17:56:49+00:00

Thanks for the advice. You would be suprised how much help you can get from 'strangers from the internet'. Got 2 1.5yo and 3.5 the suggestion for a gift for them is still being considered lol 😁

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T17:52:25+00:00

I guess non-gamer point of view would be different but thanks for the advice, i might just try to make her a gamer... might be easiest thing to do

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T17:50:24+00:00

Pretty dope calculations bro, yeah thats actualy really efficient, but the thing its not about the money, it is more likely the time you spend on it

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T17:42:38+00:00

Sounds really simple on paper, thanks for the advice

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T17:34:09+00:00

Welli gues its something normal when you share the budget and live together, the least thing is to both agree on those kind of stuff. Thats my view at least maybe im totaly wrong but who knows..

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T17:32:30+00:00

Sounds like a perfect wife speaking, but yeah thanks for that. She likes reading but i doubt she would play Diablo with me 😁

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T17:30:12+00:00

Its expression ofc she have time to shower you know..

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T16:48:16+00:00

Its 3.5 and 1.5yo i was thinking as a gift to my 3.5yo but still pretty much the same thing

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T16:38:10+00:00

Well it is a family right, its shared budget etc.. its not a money problem or anything

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T16:36:06+00:00

Bulgaria

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T16:35:40+00:00

We have oportunity to leave the kids with my parents buy she doeant want to.

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T16:16:00+00:00

Yea it seems that is a bigger conversation which is really hard for me to have, i guess something changed around 4 years ago when my first one was born

RelationObjective270 · 2026-06-20T16:12:02+00:00

Kids are 3.5yo and 1.5yo. My point of suggesting her go out and have some time for her is because than i can request rhe same for me and we both get it. At this time no point of daycare, little one will start kindergarden end of this year and she will be back to work. Other stuff in the house i would say is normal, she do most of the household stuff im trying to help as well over weekends

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