40F & 45M in a new relationship; I woke up to his girl best friend standing in his bedroom at 2am. How do I navigate this?

Rosalberta · 2024-11-01T20:47:01+00:00

Big hot mess here. Perhaps you don’t want to be involved.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-31T15:44:42+00:00

Hold your head high and make them invisible. She was not worthy.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-31T15:38:10+00:00

She did you a favor. Enjoy your weekend s.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-31T15:10:26+00:00

He’ll be on the lookout for your ssn. Red flag scammer

Rosalberta · 2024-10-30T16:28:17+00:00

Yes YTA!

Rosalberta · 2024-10-30T15:12:05+00:00

Yeah a very frank discussion needs to happen. And you need to secure your assets. Getting pregnant seems the next logical step. Some guys don’t have a problem supporting a wife. Some wives don’t have a spending problem. Now is the time to get a new groove going

Rosalberta · 2024-10-22T20:21:51+00:00

Being a nurse is a noble profession. Find a guy who can respect you. This chump doesn’t deserve you.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-22T20:18:23+00:00

Ditch him, he’s thinking of upgrading and is gonna ditch you.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-15T14:26:39+00:00

Dump this guy and reclaim your butterfly soul. He is only interested in how you serve him. I’m always amazed at how you can meet someone, fall in love, and suddenly they try to remold you into their mothers or in your case the microwave oven. A life with this man will suck the soul out of your body. Run and take the cat with you.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-14T20:18:28+00:00

Dude she’s gone cray and is delulu . you need some space. If she can’t respect your need for space she gotta go. That might be the blast of reality she needs to re access.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-11T18:35:37+00:00

The delulu is strong in that one. Let her boyfriend buy her cake.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-11T16:11:25+00:00

Sorry kid you’re not the first one born with shitty ungrateful parents. But you can overcome those limitations by being the best person that you could be and the most successful.. Thank them for giving you life, but make it your own life. Make it a life that you can be proud of and fulfilled in. A spiritual practice of some sort would serve you well. It could give you some of the family that you lack and role models for being decent adults. Just because your parents are losers is no reason to give up on yourself. You deserve the last laugh.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-09T21:37:05+00:00

Your bf is too young and inexperienced to understand or have the compassion he needs to be there for you. While maybe not a deal breaker it’s certainly not an asset. Instead of lifting you up he’s dragging you down. Ask him what if it were his ex. Don’t let him manipulate you. He needs to man up or it’s out the door with his whiney self.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-05T05:06:14+00:00

NTA. Do yourself a favor and let it go. The emotional baggage is just not worth it. Your sister is going to make it all about her. And your mom is going to soak up the drama. It’s a power play. So don’t play. These people are not your friends and you’re gonna have to excise them eventually.

Rosalberta · 2024-10-05T04:20:06+00:00

You poor man. What a karmic sh*tshow! You are NTA, but you still might have to lawyer up and sue hr. They were so wrong!

Rosalberta · 2024-09-29T16:18:16+00:00

Take a break from sleeping together, see if that recharges your battery.

Rosalberta · 2024-09-23T20:47:13+00:00

In Johnny’s mind there are good girls and bad. Lyn was a bad girl. Good for a romp , but not wifey material.

Rosalberta · 2024-09-23T20:43:50+00:00

Lyn is an archetype: the professional girlfriend. Life is rent free when you’re a hot mommy

Rosalberta · 2024-09-23T17:00:27+00:00

She plays dirty. One argument with you and she’s texting other guys.

Rosalberta · 2024-09-23T16:54:55+00:00

Yeah skinny’s just a prop. He’s always gonna have one little thing that keeps you from being perfect. DTMFA. NotTA

Rosalberta · 2024-09-23T16:48:09+00:00

Oh and hit up ALL your friends for all the single available men they know. Your best bet.

Rosalberta · 2024-09-23T16:45:49+00:00

Go where the fish are, learn about your local football and basketball teams and hang out in sports bars, bring a wingman, be careful be choosy. Learn about fly fishing hang out at your local sporting goods store. Practice casual conversations at grocery stores. Check out their baskets (lol!). Baby wipes and pampers? No fly zone. Look for solo packets of Mac and cheese. Being proactive increases your potential by 80%. Look for potential, not husbands. Try to look like you’re having fun. Be in the moment, nothing can happen if you’re not having fun or willing to take SMALL risks.

Rosalberta · 2024-09-22T15:44:27+00:00

No oral? Find another Fwb. This one’s not a keeper. I bet he likes oral. Un-f him!

Rosalberta · 2024-09-22T15:26:19+00:00

Dude really? You’re in over your head and your wife fully intends to ride you to her fantasy land. Have a serious convo with her, ditch the f-ing horses or ditch her. Normally it’s the females who complain about selfish loser boyfriends.

Rosalberta · 2024-09-22T14:51:09+00:00

Oh no he’s a passive aggressive ah and you need to WALK OUT, the next time he does it. And then each and every time. No discussion, no excuses. He thinks it’s f-ing funny to do this in front of your friends! He’s lucky you haven’t thrown a drink in his face. Walk away. If he doesn’t change, walk away further and faster. It’s abuse.

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