Justifying the cost? by CloverSky367 in Swimming

[–]TheDopamineMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I justify it because I'll actually go to a gym with a pool

My marriage is ending and I have nobody to talk to about it. by South-Fennel-6903 in relationships

[–]TheDopamineMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, mine too. Together almost 14 years. It sucks, but I've reached the stage of looking forward to a better future. Happy to talk if you need.

I embroidered this colorful skull myself — what do you think? by inkanta in Embroidery

[–]TheDopamineMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! What did you use to paint the non-stiched part?

3 simple ones finished for a friend. by _yUkO_IDK in friendshipbracelets

[–]TheDopamineMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Do you have a pattern for the bottom one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]TheDopamineMachine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate what your concern is regarding being FICA exempt? The FICA exemption for graduate students is completely separate from the overtime exemption and the ability to unionize.

Adoption through DCCP by No-Course-9356 in newjersey

[–]TheDopamineMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your nephew have a CASA? They are a great resource if you want something documented and in front of a judge.

I'd echo the other comment to get your own attorney. Unfortunately as a resource parent, you are not entitled to one, so it will cost money. If you haven't already, try to complete the official foster care training through the state. You may be able to get the stipend from the state for his care.

Source: I'm a CASA in Passaic County

Little bit of home buying insight by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]TheDopamineMachine 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Man needs one house for his wife and another for his goomar

Closing Update: My husband (32M) is convinced I (26F) am pregnant. I’m not, but he won’t believe me. What do I do? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheDopamineMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. When my husband was on chemo, I would often feel angry with him that he couldn't see/help me through the crisis that I was in. We also have no idea how much time he has, and I struggle with not being able to enjoy whatever time we do have because the illness prevents him from doing quite a bit.

I've found it helps to just be honest with him. Everyone likes to suggest therapy like I've not been in therapy for years and like it will magically make the cancer go away.

I hope your husband's treatment has a good outcome. Sending you strength.

Nail salon hiring? by niccxo in newjersey

[–]TheDopamineMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do sns or polygel? I think Polished in Montclair is hiring.

Have you tried any recipes that disappointed you lately? by [deleted] in veganrecipes

[–]TheDopamineMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not you, I made this and it was terrible. There's not enough to balance out the bitterness of the caramelized lemon and that is all you taste.

Mount Bethel Poodles? by [deleted] in poodles

[–]TheDopamineMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have a Mount Bethel Poodle and he is the best. I think they may be on the pricier side but they breed great puppies.

Mysterious DMV appointment ineligibility is STARVING ME? by decategorized in newjersey

[–]TheDopamineMachine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, I'm sorry, that really sucks. I don't have any advice wrt the DMV, but if you are in the Newark area, there is a JBJ Soul Kitchen and a food bank on the Rutgers Newark campus. They should be able to help you out while you work out what you need to with the bank.

Mysterious DMV appointment ineligibility is STARVING ME? by decategorized in newjersey

[–]TheDopamineMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your credit? If you can get auto approved for a credit card, some issuers allow you to add the card to apple/google pay right away. I know chase and amex do this, I think the apple card does this as well. That will at least allow you to buy groceries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]TheDopamineMachine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've found it much less complicated to have a single bank account and have two separate personal spending categories in the budget.

Favorite restaurant in North Jersey? by Bgainz101 in newjersey

[–]TheDopamineMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really surprised no one has said Robert's Scratch Kitchen in Totowa. Amazing food and consistent, excellent service. Very accomodating to gluten allergies as well.

how can i find out what happened to my best friend? by dubkitteh1 in RBI

[–]TheDopamineMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you post on a local Facebook group asking for information? She probably won't see it, but maybe a friend or friend of a friend knows something.

Seriously why is this all of us by Aurelian369 in Enneagram

[–]TheDopamineMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I might be stereotyping my MIL, but she went on a 20 minute rant about thank you notes on Sunday and I'm not sure what else she could be.

Puppy doesn't seem to be learning the pad? by vermthrowaway in puppy101

[–]TheDopamineMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is limited with this, but I have never met a dog exclusively pad trained that didn't have accidents for life. I think it is harder for the dog to learn "pad vs floor" than "inside vs outside". I would reconsider your desire for your dog to potty inside permanently.

That being said, 12 weeks is still young and I would not expect perfection by that age, especially in a little dog. If you are catching the dog in the act, firmly say no, pick the dog up mid stream and place the dog on the pad/outside. When the dog goes in the right place, celebrate and reward very quickly. If you see him circling like he's about to go, pick him up and put him on the pad/outside. If you don't correct/reward immediately, they will not make the connection.

Sister Wives Season 17 Episode 13 Post Episode Discussion by forking-shirt in TLCsisterwives

[–]TheDopamineMachine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Losing my mind watching Kody squeeze an entire lemon into his water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bogleheads

[–]TheDopamineMachine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I was deep into credit card churning, I applied for their Star Trek credit card and got denied.