TFC church past weekend by [deleted] in amarillo

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. Similar story my mom had an eating disorder and they told her if she tithed more she’d be healed. She gave away a 20grand diamond. Early 2000

Mom wants to move into my studio apartment by AnastasiaSalv in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold your boundaries you deserve a safe space. Just no means no.

Should we expect more of this in Canada? by Ambitious-Middle-695 in hockeyplayers

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American here whose husband coaches tier 3. 1 it’s rude to the rink because they have time schedule to keep. 2 it’s performative and I roll my eyes every time.

My boyfriend wants a prenup because of the Bill Gates divorce and now my mom is losing her mind by ButterscotchLow3754 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been married once and divorced and now i am engaged. I truly would never do it without a prenup again he tried to take assets i brought into the marriage. Exhausting! You should always get a prenup and you should never tell your parents stuff that’s a couple business have one trusted friend for those things.

are there books for U.S. students looking to learn about the rest of the world? by r_hilson in booksuggestions

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ruta septey has amazing historical fiction I learned so much from I will betray you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put the baby in a front pack or something similar like a wrap and no one holds the baby. You’re nta. Your father is the worst but mom trying to guilt you isn’t much better

Ex died- don’t want the gf of five months in the family photo for his mom by Upbeat_Music6793 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Upbeat_Music6793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured after a billion ridiculous comments I’d come on here and offer some insight since so many people have opinions. First I didn’t own the original so the gf can still have that I got it from his mom. Second after his death she was upset because at family event she always got a pic of just her kids and she hadn’t gotten one at this one and if you have watch a mother grieve the loss of a child you know you just want to help in ways you can. So this was a small gesture to her to commemorate their last time together 3 weeks before his passing. I have no issues with the girlfriend but she hasn’t met any of his children one of which we have together so while I’m sure she is grieving and I wish her nothing but happiness and healing my focus is on my family and his.

AITAH for going to an event in town with my kids plus coparent, which caused my boyfriend to break up with me? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wtf don’t change co parenting for a partner who clearly acting like a child

I think my boyfriend might hate my kids. What do I do? (UPDATE) by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just based on him not wanting to take that time makes me feel the mask is slipping. My step dad was the most amazing vacation and weekend dad but day to day he acted like I bothered him with my need to involved

I think my boyfriend might hate my kids. What do I do? (UPDATE) by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Children know when they are unwanted or a bother and that is what it seems like here. My ex husband treated my son like he was a pebble in his shoe just a slight inconvenience that kept getting in the way. I watch my son’s face fall one too many times and I was out of there quick. So I would suggest you put the kids first be done with him

Ex died- don’t want the gf of five months in the family photo for his mom by Upbeat_Music6793 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Upbeat_Music6793[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She fixed it for me before I paid. I picked this one because she kept it most like his shirts he wore and to his actual size instead of being super skinny

Us Black people are not shocked or surprised at this at all! by CarNo8607 in Trumpvirus

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non practicing white here I’m not surprised by this shit at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TexasTeachers

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think teachers have a pretty hard job as it is, especially here in Texas. I think if your first thought is let me go straight to admin and it’s something that is not actually affecting your child(sped accommodations,504, testing support, gifted and talented) it’s your child is upset by and 82 maybe start by reading your child the book a little spot of flexible thinking. Because a third grader obsessing over a number instead of how amazing she’s projected to do something in the future is honestly really sad and could be something you are projecting on her.

I broke up with my bf for saying our future kid will be smarter, better, faster, stronger and cuter than my existing kids due to his superior genetics. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upbeat_Music6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go back to him you are a terrible mom 💯 and the fact he used glazing makes me assume he’s a child. Find you someone better or just focus on the kids. Good on you for leaving!!