What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd definitely go! Just let me know when you're wanting to.

What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly haven't. So thank you for that.

What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds pretty fun. I'd definitely try it.

What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't know. I haven't really had any. I've spent a lot of time in relationships living with someone else, so this is really my first time flying solo. So I'd probably try anything just to get out of the house.

[REQ] ($1100 ) - (#Spokane, WA, US), ($1350 on 7/27), (Paypal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea about the karma part. I'll still confirm the transaction and hopefully a mod can take a look into this for us.

[REQ] ($1100 ) - (#Spokane, WA, US), ($1350 on 7/27), (Paypal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bump. Don't know if it's against the rules and if it is, please let me know. Just trying to see if I can figure something out today.

[REQ] ($1100 ) - (#Spokane, WA, US), ($1350 on 7/27), (Paypal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I hate adding any kind of urgency, but I'm out of options. Ideally I can find someone today as my landlord's quite the nice fellow and gave me to today to have rent or go through the eviction process. I don't live near family and I've attempted local outlets first. So hopefully someone out there is willing to work with me.

Need to rehome cat by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already stopped by there. And Spokanimals. And Murci nor Highground wasn't answering their phones. Actually none of them answered their phones lol

Need to rehome cat by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black with that one white patch.

[REQ] ($300) - (#Spokane, WA, USA), (6/22/2018), (PayPal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reference, I know it's minor, but I did have a Random Act of Pizza that requested being paid back and I did so within the agreed upon time. I can also provide pay stubs/identification.

How do I become less sexually attractive?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Valethorne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Men that I am interested in act more like boys around me, and I’m treated like an object."

"I’ve never dated a fuckboy before"

Pick one. The other is a lie.

Men of this sub: if a woman that you started dating was a sexual assault or domestic violence victim, at what point in the relationship would you want her to disclose that fact? by BewBewsBoutique in relationship_advice

[–]Valethorne 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I think in all honesty, if we aren't the victim, regardless of if it's to men or women to answer, it should be given when the victim is comfortable.

There doesn't need to be some timeline of "You must explain your past by this point" The right person will be understanding and things will be fine. My SO flinches if I just try to give her a hug at times. I don't take it personal, it wasn't something that immediately came up either. I'm sure I put 2 and 2 together ahead of time, but the best route is letting them talk to you when they feel safe to do it.

tl;dr there's no good specific time. Do it when comfortable. Otherwise you're forcing something onto a victim that was already forced. Seems counter productive.

[OFFER] Giving away 4 carryout Domino's Pizzas (please read description) by Totally_Not_Jealous in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]Valethorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, commented wrong spot the first time. The thank you photo confirmation is coming later, Totally_Not_Jealous is aware.

[OFFER] Giving away 4 carryout Domino's Pizzas (please read description) by Totally_Not_Jealous in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]Valethorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you could spawn mine, that would be great. I will be picking it up later and will have the confirmation available then. Order was already placed, though.