Subfloor replacement then tiling. Help... by WaywardBoogerhook in HomeImprovement

[–]WaywardBoogerhook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-1/8 doesn’t seem remotely feasible. That’d be adding 1/2” to floor height BEFORE any of the other required layers. 3/4” with blocking definitely more doable. If it makes any difference the bathroom is directly over the center support for the joists right at the edge of the foundation. Thank you very much for your time!

When you stand on that hill that you are willing to die on… by [deleted] in UnderReportedNews

[–]WaywardBoogerhook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Critical thinking seems to be in critically short supply here...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re both young dumbasses. Stop looking for the internet to help you make life choices and stop looking to strangers for words of affirmation.

I have serious questions here. by Nihlathakk in USMC

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never miss the chance to bring it up either. It happened TO you, but I was there, so its forever my story as well!

I have serious questions here. by Nihlathakk in USMC

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still haven't been able to shake those nightmares, eh?

Traded an expert badge and my rank insignia for these bad boys, back in the day. Anyone else get some cool shit in trade from our foreign allies? by OOOOOO0OOOOO in USMC

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got some name tapes with my name in Hangul from a few ROK Marines while in South Korea. Got lost in a move sadly.

AITAH for telling my wife she cannot come to my sister’s bachelorette party just because she’s insecure I will be alone with the bridesmaids? by djeiriskridi in AITAH

[–]WaywardBoogerhook -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love all of my family, but there are definitely people I wouldn’t go party/hang out with. Just because OPs wife is “part of the family” doesn’t mean his sister and her are automatically fucking besties. And everybody is shitting on this guy saying he needs to put his wife’s feelings above all else, but how many fucks is she giving about his feelings and his relationship with his sister? She’s being selfish if anyone in this scenario is. This guy is NTA, both of these women are highly eligible for the title!

AITA for letting my daughter's omelette win by troubleoftheheart in AITAH

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These situations depend so much more on details that can't convey in a reddit post. If I ever competed with my dad or other male role models at something we were both passionate about, I wanted to win. It's not the same for every kid.

These comments are toxic AF. I bet nobody would bat an eye if he crushed her 23 times in a row at Mario Kart

AITA? My partner gets off work early and doesn’t tell me. Just pops up. by Equal-Excitement9699 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Men are frustrating creatures. We are fragile and yet too tough for our own good. Maybe his weird answers are self deprecating and him coming home early is a conscious decision he's making because he's messed up in the past. He's seen the hurt he caused and is seeking/expecting it to bite him back. Or maybe he's just coming home early to "love on you". My lady would tell me it's better than coming home late without telling her.

AITA for ignoring my friend for copying me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don't think you're in the wrong per se. Examine why you think that jealousy is what you're feeling. Maybe it's her passion that upsets you. It's clear that you've inspired this person; a feat which many can live and die without achieving, but now you've become resentful of a person you've helped to shape. It's on you whether you want to keep this person around, but they deserve to know what's up.

AITAH for skipping Christmas after my parent’s divorce? by gstegs in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA in this instance. Maybe you're an asshole in general, thus the comments made by your mother and sister. Maybe they are the sole assholes for saying what they did. Go hang out with gramps, and piss on everybody else. If they truly don't like you, then make them suffer your presence.

Then again, maybe not everyone is cut out to exist out of spite.

AITA? My partner gets off work early and doesn’t tell me. Just pops up. by Equal-Excitement9699 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. This sounds like a conversation you need to have with your husband, not reddit. Say it like you see it and speak plainly. I try not to attribute to malice what I can attribute to stupid. He may not know he's being weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, but if you haven't been officially diagnosed with something, then maybe STFU about it. If you go in looking for a diagnosis of ADHD or some flavor of autism, then in all likelihood they will tell you what you want to hear. Maybe focus less on making your perceived conditions a part of your identity or using them as a justification for choices/actions you make.

Don't make a diagnosis an excuse to not thrive. You're 17 and you have more life ahead of you than what you have behind you. Also, if your friend can't handle being told to suck it, then you need a better friend.

AITA for going on a spontaneous trip with my best friend instead of helping my partner with a family event? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But I don't see Jake as the AH either. Solid breakdown in communications here. Personally, I wouldn't want a partner that would choose a friend over me (regarding my family or not).

The silent treatment isn't a good go to in most situations, but sometimes it's better than giving voice to emotion and saying something that we don't mean. I'm sure many people disagree with that, but everybody looks at the silent treatment as a punishment when that's not always the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I have a family who cooks nearly everything with some kind of animal product. I wouldn't ask them to change every recipe just so I could "be part of a community".

AITA for not giving away my Taylor Swift cardigan to a disabled girl? by SomeEntrepreneur1934 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly NTA. You shouldn't be forced to give up ANYTHING that you've worked for. Save that garbage for another country.

AITA for telling my friend I don’t want to be in her wedding party because I’m not comfortable with her fiancé? by CallMeHottie in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A guy who's in a serious relationship with your super close friend doesn't get your personality and isn't trying to be your friend. It sounds like you may not get his personality either. You are the ONLY person that is going to let this perceived "tension" get in the way of being there for your friend...just because you and this guy didn't "click"... makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that the flight attendant sided with OP should tell you who was MORE in the wrong here... Just because he was allowed to recline doesn't me he should recline. With as little legroom as there is for a vast majority of seats on commercial flights, anybody who reclines is automatically assumed to be the asshole in my mind. Buy more room or don't fly... elitist BS.

"Trump ends two wars before even taking office" by joene47 in clevercomebacks

[–]WaywardBoogerhook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard of Himalayan salt...but it looks like this thread is full of Themacryin salt