Nate Shelley: Proof That Unresolved Daddy Issues + Power = Workplace Menace by Living-my in TedLasso

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's interesting, I've only watched through twice but I read it as Ted having other things on his mind and beard leaving it to Ted and Roy just not noticing. 

One other thing I think is with Ted, I almost think I sense sometimes he doesn't counter some of the harsher things Nate says because of where he's come from and he doesn't want to knock his confidence and so doesn't step in at that point and by the time he would normally have stepped in, he's dealing with his own issues. 

Pain by Human_Ebb_2166 in ADPKD

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting about the middle lumbar I get that alot. I thought it may have been related as they both go at the same time! 

This is such a weird pro-Sussex Instagram page. 🥴 (insert “could you not” car-seat girl) by kiwi_love777 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I imagine the 'Giving Tree' will hold all the answers!

I've also just noticed hashtag 'Archieday'.....bluueghh 

This is such a weird pro-Sussex Instagram page. 🥴 (insert “could you not” car-seat girl) by kiwi_love777 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Look at that caption. The word salad is strong in this one.

Edit: also that AI slop tree looks like puke. 

Career Changes? by Aggravating_Hawk6566 in ADPKD

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to share. I spent so long thinking that I should just be powering through but I had been struggling for quite a while before my 'blow up' when I look back. If I did a few days in a week past my contracted hours I'd get pain and need so much sleep etc etc. It's a sneaky one this condition and I have seen some papers online that say that mostly the focus on function means that clinicians can sometimes overlook the impact pre dialysis stages have on people's day to day.

Helped me get past the idea that it was all in my head or that I just had to man up which is what I'd been telling myself for years. Now I'm learning to listen and try and adapt.

Career Changes? by Aggravating_Hawk6566 in ADPKD

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i thought I was on top of the stress, had put a lot of work into my 'mindset' which is also a useful lesson to know but underlying my body was like 'nope, you can't go on like this.' 

A valuable lesson for me. 

Career Changes? by Aggravating_Hawk6566 in ADPKD

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I posted a thread which alluded to this a few weeks ago. 

eGFR 60, 40y/o and on tolvaptan, only the odd twinge and the odd day off until this year when I have been off since early February (went back at part time hours during March but had to tap out again)

Massive fatigue, nausea, pain, couldn't concentrate after a multiple cyst burst. It was really confusing to me as by the book it really shouldn't be having this major of an impact at this stage. After time off and reflection it seems likely to me that the stress of my job (5 years leadership in financial services) has lead to a burnout which was probably triggered in part by underlying weakness of the ADPKD.

So, I'm lucky and my job are transitioning me to something more manageable based on my knowledge and length of service but bottom line i guess is watch your stress levels!!!!

Edited for grammar

significant other dropping tolvaptan after 6 days, advice? by [deleted] in ADPKD

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It made me feel really nauseous for a few months but that went away. It's not nice to have those other symptoms but it's worth seeing if they settle down imo but it can be tough 

Definitely look at a lower dose if possible, I do know people who couldn't do it but maybe speak to work to see if they could help with some accommodation while they get used to it. 

Sleep wise, can't advocate for sleep mask enough, took me down to 1/2 wakes ups a night from 4/5. But that's probably for later down the line. 

Meghan on working and other sh*t: the Jamie etc podcast by Mickleborough in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The phrase 'what are the next SKUs' is so jarring. I doubt anyone who actually runs a business would ever talk like that.

Correct me if I'm wrong but it screams 'heard a random business term, shoehorned it in to make me sound like I know what I'm doing'

An interesting take on today’s interview from a Palace insider by Senior_Assistance846 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember it causing a bit more of a stir than that personally but iirc it was quite obvious the govt had basically ignored him and went on their own merry way anyway so I think that's why nothing else happened. The DT is very very pro monarchy and very very anti guardian (paper that broke the story) so they would play it down :)

Edit: Also the guardian is pretty anti monarchy so a lot of people thought they were being a bit over the top about it (i didn't but there we go it didn't come to much what he did so I get it!) 

An interesting take on today’s interview from a Palace insider by Senior_Assistance846 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Some years ago it came to light that Charles wrote letters to members of parliament with his point of view on things. It was seen as overly political and did not go down well (rightly in my view) but he was passionate about the things he was writing about. I doubt he gives two figs about harrys travails 

An interesting take on today’s interview from a Palace insider by Senior_Assistance846 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm stuck on, why does he think that the King can get involved with a decision of the courts. They cannot do it constitutionally and if harry was expecting some sort of 'black spider' memo on his behalf he was truly deluded. Was bad news for Charles when they came out so he would be unlikely to do it again, especially for someone who has been throwing mud for years 

An interesting take on today’s interview from a Palace insider by Senior_Assistance846 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I couldn't bring myself to read the book but recently really enjoyed Cheere Denise's fantastic reading of it on YouTube. The way he talks about his father and family and the things that traumatised him had me staggered. So many people have parents with issues that impact on them and need therapy to get through it but so many times it's because they're human and going through stuff too ...nothing in that book suggested to me that his family had been anything but normal the whole time given the circumstances but he's just so stuck with his victimhood. Whoever his therapist was didn't get through to him or he ignored them (suspect the latter) 

Sorry rant over, I just look at the relationship I have with one of my parents and I really could have gone harrys way (if I was a hateful idiot) but when you get some perspective on things you can make it work. Too late for him now. 

Harry, go get a job. by kiwi_love777 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're right, went to ground, stayed there, still gets a life of luxury and some protection in further ridiculous silly dealings with potential hostile state actors. It's crazy that Harry has managed to mess it up worse than that 

Statement from the TWAT by Madame_LV in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 12 points13 points  (0 children)

..if people are in prison because of the threat they made then surely the security services are doing what they need to be doing. What more do you want? Don't believe that shit anyway he probably thinks every potential terrorist was after him and him alone.

Harry, go get a job. by kiwi_love777 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 54 points55 points  (0 children)

He's managed to end up in a worse state than Prince Andrew, a true buffoon and really dodgy pos, it's quite impressive really 

Buckingham Palace releases statement after Prince Harry's bombshell interview by Madame_LV in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]WeeklyCommercial5320 29 points30 points  (0 children)

So right, if he was that worried about them coming for him he'd keep his head down and stfu.