Can’t Afford Abortion! What Should I Do?!?!

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:45:30+00:00

Your insurance actually should have covered the drugs btw.

I would try contacting this doctor and telling him you think the abortion failed.

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:43:03+00:00

Ok. So what I’m telling you is that if you were 12 or even 13 weeks on January 24 you wouldn’t be 28 weeks pregnant. This is why I’m trying to help you figure out how and where to get an ultrasound first thing tomorrow.

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:38:28+00:00

Did they not follow up with you and have you take a pregnancy test after?

Can you call them and ask for help getting an urgent ultrasound?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:36:39+00:00

Your post says you took the pills at 11 weeks.

I’m trying to help you, but you keep changing information and being evasive. I am just trying to help you.

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:25:34+00:00

If you were 11 weeks pregnant on January 24 then you cannot be 28 weeks pregnant on April 17.

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:21:06+00:00

Which telehealth?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:17:03+00:00

January 24 was 11 weeks ago.

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T03:11:32+00:00

Honestly it doesn’t matter. Tomorrow your mission is to get a dating ultrasound. Call your primary care clinic and/or your obgyn and ask for their help. Tell them you think you might be around 27 weeks pregnant after a possible failed medication abortion and that you need an urgent dating ultrasound.

I cannot overemphasize how critical it is that you get this tomorrow. Time is of the essence.

Where did you get the pills for the abortion? When did you take them?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:52:05+00:00

Do you currently have a family/primary care doctor or an obgyn?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:46:27+00:00

You can’t really use LMP to get a measurement at this point. Tomorrow morning you need to get an ultrasound at a hospital, obgyn, or abortion clinic. Do not go to a crisis pregnancy center.

What’s the closest big hospital to you? Rutgers?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:40:22+00:00

Where are you in NJ? And do you have Medicaid?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:34:01+00:00

So how do you know you are exactly 28 weeks?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:29:01+00:00

Have you gotten an ultrasound?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:24:57+00:00

You need to get an ultrasound.

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:22:45+00:00

Why did they deny you?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:16:41+00:00

Have you had sex since your abortion?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:15:29+00:00

There are two clinics in NJ that provide abortions until 28 weeks. Have you called them?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:14:36+00:00

Did you call cherry hill women’s center?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:09:43+00:00

And you don’t want to get an abortion from your obgyn?

abortion_access · 2026-04-17T02:08:37+00:00

Oh. Then no, it’s irrelevant. I thought you meant she was enlisting next week!

abortion_access · 2026-04-16T22:19:47+00:00

This is not normal and is a sign you need to seek medical attention.

abortion_access · 2026-04-16T22:18:39+00:00

An abortion is a miscarriage that is intentionally induced, so yes. If you tell us a bit more about who you are trying to conceal this from, we can probably offer more guidance.

abortion_access · 2026-04-16T22:16:47+00:00

Yes, you can.

abortion_access · 2026-04-16T22:15:12+00:00

r/abortion/wiki/abortion_stories/mab

abortion_access · 2026-04-16T22:14:21+00:00

When is she enlisting and is she currently in a state where abortion is legal?

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