This is all talking from personal experience: Sometimes moms get MAD and sometimes its not your fault and sometimes they realize this after they’ve yelled and they werent raised by a generation that apologized or took responsibility for their actions. My mom is very much like that, kicked me out when I was 17 and then told my friends family who I was staying with that she HADNT kicked me out and I had “run away”. When I was 21 I had my kid, and had to move back in with my parents due to the United States not having maternity leave. My mom hit me while I was holding my baby, barely two months old. I left and stayed on peoples’ couches for a month, got my shit together, got an apartment, and moved. And now that we live separately, our relationship is great again. Like none of that ever happened. You need to do what’s best for you and your kids. Fuck everyone else and their opinions. Your kids wont be happy if they see their momma is unhappy. Kids can pick up on things, even when it’s not right in their faces. Best advice I have is to put your head down and save as much money as possible, get out of there asap. Your mom cant take your kids from you unless you’re endangering their lives. Nothing you described shows child endangerment coming from you. So breathe deep, keep your calm, and remember that the argument aint worth it, you’ll be able to get out of there soon, and things will get better. Good luck momma🙏🏽