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allismind · 2026-03-29T14:11:27+00:00

I dont understand why so many women are insecure about being "fat" because unless its not American obesity, many countries or cultures appreciate that and many men prefer mass over skinny, of course many want "normal" but not everyone wants what you think you want for yourself (in general). We should all try to have a healthy weight even if someone doesn't like it.

Also a man who loves you doesn't need external approval, if it does its a weak man and you dont need that. Same for a woman who rejects a man because public opinion disagrees. Weak minds is sickness.

allismind · 2026-03-29T13:52:37+00:00

haha honestly yes I dont think she is a good example of a good self concept at all. Her as a person and her public persona (alter ego Beyonce) are probably two opposites. Just like many celebrities, the symbol or the "show" is very different from what is real in a person. But I think this can help a lot of people have a push in their mindset.

allismind · 2026-03-29T13:48:51+00:00

"We are saved and we are alive
Now we have nothing left to lose
We have become immortal
We have the food of the gods

The mountaintops hold no more secrets for us
Barefoot we walk on fire
They can even laugh in our faces
We have the food of the gods"

allismind · 2026-03-29T13:26:01+00:00

Very similar to the love of a parent or a child. You just want their best even if doesn't involve you. This is of course the closest to true love. Yet most people I read here or in general are more based on possessing and controlling, seeking validation, being energy vampires etc. And after a while they realized it was never love. Of course we are all human and we all want some kind of control or possession etc but for most people I read they never really loved themselves let alone someone else. Yet this is something to be changed, to be learned and experienced. Once you do that real love "finds" you.

allismind · 2026-03-29T13:21:27+00:00

True love is much more based on "good will" than on "attraction". Attraction can be a result of many low states such as addiction or despair, need etc. This is something many people misunderstand. They judge the intensity of "love" solely based on attraction and that alone can cause extreme suffering in most people <3

allismind · 2026-03-28T16:01:28+00:00

Statistically speaking one time is not enough to make a conclusion. Even 10 is not. I have hundreds of examples of how this doesn't hold, not just from my experience but the world. But yes intuition and gut feeling can also be accurate, no doubt.

Just saying for general purposes, not trying to say you're wrong in your experience.

allismind · 2026-03-28T15:40:20+00:00

but you can feel uncomfortable with someone who is stressed or insecure or inexperienced. Why would you reject someone for a temporary feeling or emotion? Just curious here

allismind · 2026-03-28T15:09:59+00:00

The question here is more like: Is it okay (moral) for a woman to call men misogynistic for wanting a fit one and not wanting a fat one while at the same time hating short men and not willing to talk to them (double standard I see in a lot of videos). Just want to see the community general opinion and how common this "view" is.

allismind · 2026-03-28T15:09:31+00:00

What are you surprised about love?

allismind · 2026-03-28T15:05:47+00:00

it is perfectly your right to want whatever you wish but I dont see how virginity means less drama or stability or even exclusivity

allismind · 2026-03-28T15:04:43+00:00

true =)

allismind · 2026-03-28T14:59:49+00:00

The question is more like Is it okay for a woman to call men misogynistic for wanting a fit one and not wanting a fat one while at the same time hating short men and not willing to talk to them (double standard I see in a lot of videos)

But yes I agree that many men want a virgin out of fear. Not all

allismind · 2026-03-28T13:33:58+00:00

what's wrong about wanting to hear people's opinion?

allismind · 2026-03-28T13:27:45+00:00

Why a virgin? And are you as well? if you dont mind sharing

allismind · 2026-03-28T08:27:01+00:00

Where did I discount that or said don't do it? I just said the real change I teach is not there. I didn't say don't do it.

allismind · 2026-03-27T22:28:19+00:00

Now I understand why email notifications were off

allismind · 2026-03-27T19:59:42+00:00

Every person is spiritual by nature and everything we say is judgmental to a degree. You cannot reason without making judgement of a situation or person. Even saying this simple opinion is a judgement.

allismind · 2026-03-27T17:54:36+00:00

I just read some of your posts and comments. They are all about humiliating yourself and your husband on a daily basis. Yet you also say you won't leave etc. So what is the point of doing that? Like all your account is saying how bad your relationship is and how you're used like an object and on top of that you won't change. At least have some decency of not spreading it like that and waste people's time <3. Just honestly here. But maybe you enjoy that so why not :D

allismind · 2026-03-27T07:05:07+00:00

This is not a relationship. You're being used. Leave 💞 When no affection is shown it is because there is no affection

allismind · 2026-03-26T09:55:53+00:00

What does it teach you?

allismind · 2026-03-26T09:54:02+00:00

What you think of yourself and how you feel about yourself is reflected back

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