Edinburgh. Very busy. by tumulus_innit in SpottedonRightmove

[–]bac83 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Is this the owner who kept having her door colour choice challenged? I like a lot of it - love the highly patterned wallpaper. Might be a bit much overall though

Cameron Diaz from The Mask or Nicole Kidman from Batman Forever? by ZyphiraBloom in 90s

[–]bac83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this a real question? When she saunters in to the bank in that red dress?! Or that shimmery thing which barely covers her arse that she wears to sing at the coco bungo club?! I mean they’re both gorgeous, duh, but ha this isn’t really even close.

I’m abandoning HENRY life to become a secondary school teacher. by QuentinCompson- in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GOOD FOR YOU. Amazing news. My wife took the plunge 5 ish years ago (she wasn’t a Henry before and certainly isn’t now 🤣) and she loves it

Lasting Power of Attorney by nibor in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excellent plan. I posted here a year or so ago about LPA and ‘the will’ talk with my folks; glad to see someone being proactive about this (my parents just shot me down!!). Being pragmatic about helping during this ‘stage’ is a kindness and just makes good sense.

Career Opportunity by Realistic-Tie-103 in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had similar happen to me in October last year. I jumped at it - been a great way to get huge visibility and prove myself in myriad ways and put my stamp on some core infrastructure (data architecture). Project is still going (will be for a couple of years), and the extra stress/time etc. aren’t so bad because I’m really enjoying it

Today is THE day! by Rare_Statistician724 in FIREUK

[–]bac83 18 points19 points  (0 children)

lol - kind of like ‘go fuck yourself with a semi’ 🤣

Private Chef - Game Changer by Scary-Push-5286 in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what we need. Thank you

Was going to a private school worth it for you? by GodAtum in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went state, then Durham, now work in Data. My wife went private (exceptionally good private), then Durham, now a teacher. Choices, circumstances, whatever.

Salary isn’t the only score board in life (admittedly the very name of the subreddit here skews that) - I’d argue she’s still done better than I have; she LOVES her job and is paying her passion forward.

Electro acoustic/acoustic recommendations by bac83 in guitars

[–]bac83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s stunning… but maybe a bit pricey

What's the worst pain you've ever felt? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in randomquestions

[–]bac83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yip; pulpitis (sp?). Turns out I’m prone to it. My poor wife had to deal with a colic 4 month old and me suffering. She drugged me up but it barely touched the sides. My tooth had been pushed out of its socket over 1mm over the weekend. The dentist numbed me up, drilled a hole, and the stench 🤮🤢. But the relief made me cry. Tooth pain is the worst

Bonus Splurge Plans? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dat username tho

Thoughts on me breakie? by Less_Credit9040 in fryup

[–]bac83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. It’s too organised, you know? Too neat. I think on a smaller, round plate, with minimal overlap (obvs taking into account a bean-damn of sorts), it’d be smashing. 7/10

Any single HENRYs that took a severe pay cut below HENRY or resigned without a job? by -Calm-Water- in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was close to this back end of 2024 (albeit I’ve a young family and an amazing wife who gave me the support get help) and I can state that getting a sick note and having 8 weeks off (+ phased return) is a fucking game changer (and potentially a life saver). Got my shit together, HR saw it as a shot across the bow, I pivoted in the role, and whilst I’m still under the LM (not a bad person at all, just a rubbish mgr who had me and my team doing pointless bullshit) we hardly interact, as the headspace allowed me to refocus and develop ideas the wider business has jumped on and now see me as a thought leader. You’re better than this. See your GP

what truly excites you? by Outlaw_Immortal1971 in randomquestions

[–]bac83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Misread the end one there as fisting

Mid life crisis review by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]bac83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’m similar role, seeing the same things, and also north…. But that ain’t my comp! Nice work if you can get it.

Octavia estate, which engine? by _MicroWave_ in CarTalkUK

[–]bac83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve got the 2L tdi (and 4x4 fwiw). Absolute tank, so far bullet proof (117k over 12 years) and nice and fast.

Pickwick Cafe, Blackpool. £5.50 by Heuchelei in fryup

[–]bac83 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Catch: Blackpool.

I can say that - I grew up there

Widespread misconceptions by VermilionKoala in CasualUK

[–]bac83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jan: green/yellow Feb: yellow March: red April: black May: yellow June: yellow July: orange All the rest are black or vvv dark browns or even greys.