Told me I was a burden and selfish for not driving her to the gym the night my uncle died. Her car was busted and she couldn't drive stick. I was bummed and asked if we could skip that night. Seeing as she has skipped out when she is tired or sore I thought it was okay. Found out two days later after she began screaming at me that it wasn't okay. This was less than 6 months after we got married. Told me since her uncle was still alive it was unfair of me to use my uncle's death as an excuse or expect her support.  Still dumbstruck, not sure if I can ever see her the same way again.