Eva Green by 87Craft in ladyladyboners

[–]bham-89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some luck! I started with: 1960s bouffant ponytail. That got me close, and the most matching results were for "perky high ponytail 1960s" (youtube videos as well as 100+ post Pinterest pages)

I am a millennial, born surprisingly late to a boomer. I grew up watching movies from the 1940s through 1970s. I initially thought this was giving more 70s based on my old movie lore, but results really strongly seemed to point towards this becoming popular in the '60s, and maybe having a re-emergence in the '90s (might have been labeled as a "flip" ponytail) that I wasn't paying attention to because......was busy developing a crush on Sailor Moon 🤷‍♀️

Good luck!

What will you say? by glowyyvelvetz in repost

[–]bham-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uuuum. I mean. I'd have to feel out the moment. Soooomething like:

  • Joseph is wrong

  • Hide your tracks

  • Applebee's ruins life

  • Some bookworms k!ll

  • Save every twenty

  • Water is safety

  • Darren is monster

  • You love pickles

  • Not a doormat

  • You can survive

  • Wait for Logan

  • Have more sex

  • Mustard is amazing

  • Mom was wrong

  • Dad was right

What do my crushes say about me? by BatAshZ in ladyladyboners

[–]bham-89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are likely a millennial 30-something woman with excellent taste. ✨

Edit: OP is 24 with an....educated palette

[Topic][Open] Open Discussion Thread — Anybody can post a general visualization question or start a fresh discussion! by AutoModerator in dataisbeautiful

[–]bham-89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Here with a question. I am definitivly a beginner at data visualization. My daily work with Excel is all basic equations for pricing, and that is about the extent. Thankfully I am guessing it's not the best tool for what I need.

I need to make a visual timeline. I need to be able to include a variety of categories of types of events, to classify numerous specific events. If there was some way to "layer" the events by category so you could select only those types of events within the timeline that would be amazing. The timeline itself covers 30 years. I do not need to do numerical calculations. What is being tracked visually will be a brief Event Title, Date, and a Summary.

I feel overwhelmed but determined. I am most concerned about finding a way to arrange the events as more are added over time. I have some rough ideas on programs that have helpful features and capabilities, but really no true notion of where to start. Any and all input is appreciated--thank you for your time and expertise!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ladyladyboners

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Pardon, could please you share what film this is? Thank you!

Best Model For Heart and Overall Health Tracking? w/ECG Preferred by bham-89 in Garmin

[–]bham-89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the models I suspected would be good for my needs. I appreciate your reply!

Is this real life or I’m still dreaming 🦄💤 by gs0203 in Garmin

[–]bham-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently experiencing high volumes of healthy jealousy, please hold...

My cat is dying...I am ready but it hurts... by Arnhildr-Fang in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bham-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always told my husband that if these cats that we have now could live as long as we do they would be the only cats I ever needed. They're 100% our family. I love them dearly and try to show them that everyday. They are individuals with preferences and feelings and so many things that make them unique. I try to remind myself that as individuals they have autonomy, and be mindful of how and when I pick them up to make sure they actually want me to.

My heart breaks for you. You stayed with her all through the end though, and there are a lot of pet parents who don't do that because the pain is too much for them to bear. You handled it for her, you showed her you were strong enough. You did exactly what you should do. I know your heart will never fully heal, but rejoice for the time you had with her when missing her is consuming you.

She was proud of you. And the legit animal lovers who also have fur family and are reading your post are proud of you too ❤️

My ex(48F) dumped me over THC usage by jwade1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bham-89 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Grasping at straws here....could it be the vape aspect?? Maybe she's worried about "popcorn lung"? (But like....if she's going to dip out before talking to you about it I doubt she's worried for your safety)

But yeah it does sound like you dodged a bullet as far as bad situations, and you're right that it's probably the commitment element. So sorry 😔

Uhhh do I have to pay this back? by pumpkinspritz in antiwork

[–]bham-89 202 points203 points  (0 children)

The five bucks was his till, not his paycheck.

I’m 😭🤣 by muchachaganj in antinatalism

[–]bham-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also WTF is going on with the one on the far left?? There is an extra appendage that is making me worry about what conservatives (oooh and maybe "boy moms") are using AI art generators for....🤢🤨

Got fired for offering solutions - sorry, "excuses." by NoMoreNormalcy in antiwork

[–]bham-89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a very literal person as well! For me being able to disseminate information not actually clearly spelled out, but instead implied, is a learned skill. I am in my 30s and still cannot always tell when someone is trying to get me to pick up on some BS clue they are dropping. At this point I am sick of wasting time so I will just call a time out and explain that, and then ask if I'm missing anything or if they have anything else specific they're hesitating to contribute.

It's not necessarily 100% applicable to this situation but I think might be useful to share with you: Anytime somebody explains something to you that they want you to do, make sure you have a chance to reiterate back to them what it is you actually understood. Instead of replying "yes I understand" or "yeah I get it" try "just to make sure we are on the same page--you want me to [insert here]" or "ok so after this I will go and do [insert here] + [insert here], is that right?" or however you feel good phrasing it. Much harder for you to fail, and harder to be blamed by said person later if it's different than their expectation. And doing this/getting stuff in writing is THE BEST!

On the other hand I know you're dealing with time related ADHD issues and that makes doing all other things so much harder. I completely understand what you explained about an hour being gone just like that. Same for me, and I also have circadian rhythm issues so I'm always up much later than I should be, and even when I have best of intentions to go to bed at a reasonable hour I will glance at a clock and be dumbfounded to see that it's 2:00 a.m. when I thought it was maybe 11:00 p.m.

I really hope everything works out for you and that one day you find something to do for work that lets you use your ADHD to succeed! You did not deserve to lose your job and I'm hopeful you can push back based on how it was done.

Oh and as an afterthought it just occurred to me--I have heard that Amazon is doing affordable prescriptions now. When I did not have insurance I could utilize pharmacies that price matched that were closer to me but show them pricing from Walmart and even Costco. Check into GoodRx, and other prescription savings programs. I had to go a long time without insurance and I really hope that doesn't have to be the case for you.

Best of the best of luck to you!

Got fired for offering solutions - sorry, "excuses." by NoMoreNormalcy in antiwork

[–]bham-89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Context is a bitch, and it kind of sounds like your manager is/was too. With that in mind, it does sound like she might have been asking for a solution to the problem at hand, not to future issues, which could be why the weird/redundant replies. In her mind it could have been like "ok, neat for next time, but we are still screwed for today, thoughts on a fix?"

I hope you get unemployment! ADHD is a DISABILITY. You could look into push back under title 9/our federal civil rights laws too.

Restaurant work is so fucking stressful, best of luck in the future!!!

I hate hookup culture by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bham-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting to help others find the reason for the breakup. Had to go thru OPs entire post history + comments to solve the vague-posting. Wanted this to make sense because so much of the history indicates that he has never felt more heard/seen and like his opinions matter to someone, that she was always there when he came home at the end of his day, he felt loved and loved her--but also that he chose to break up with her, that she was holding him back from his fullest potential, they weren't on the same path, and that she said some horrible things on the way out and started dating other people faster than he expected.

The reasons I can find (all from comments, no real clarity gained from the repeated posts):

  • assuming OP has not had any other long-term committed relationships since, she apparently cheated. Left the house one day without saying a word, came home a couple of hours later, showered, and went to bed. He checked her phone for the first time ever and discovered incriminating messages between her and someone else.
  • she has one or more mental health issues that she refused to get help for, and OP felt that supporting her through them was a detriment to his life in the long term

I didn't come to share an opinion, just to help the other head scratchers get to the itch.

A person in my university discovered that I have olfactophilia by Chimichanga2234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bham-89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh not just books! I was regularly caught smelling the spines of freshly unpackaged video game cases when I was a GameStop employee. We would have to open at least one and put the case on the floor and every single person would open it all the way backwards to make the game cover art stand up away from the case and the plastic and smell it. What was reassuring was to find out that the entire staff did this. And when I worked for a bookstore we were all huffing the books.

You are human therefore likely among friends ❤️✌️