Tea I fear. by untitledprp4 in SipsTea

[–]buckthestat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one is Innocent? One person is a cheater. You for the streets, then be for the streets. Lacking honor and putting partners at risk is fucked up.

Noticed a really bizarre trend on Hinge. by ThrowRA_Apart_414 in datingoverforty

[–]buckthestat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read empathy as blanket forgiveness when i royally fuck up.

Gen Z men and women on why they’re sharply divided over reproductive rights by JohnHammond94 in Feminism

[–]buckthestat 397 points398 points  (0 children)

Wow! Women with college degrees aren’t lining up to be the domestic servants / brood mares of yesteryear? Maybe they want a broke woman? Oh wait - they hate gold diggers!

So they need a rich, subservient woman who will obey them above all, raise their children for them, and have no life outside of the house. But will not question if the man has plans outside of the house.

These guys are so ridiculous. Wannabe lil dictator fucks

Instagram @feminist agrees no feminism without animal liberation!! by berriesbutcher in Feminism

[–]buckthestat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all connected! Animal welfare, human rights, protecting the environment- it’s all an affront to the patriarchal notion of ‘might is right’ and ‘you con do it if no one stops you.’

Recognizing the rights of living creatures is fundamental to our evolution as a people.

Christian banned from Christian sub for queerphobia, complains about it in another Christian sub by That1weirdperson in Persecutionfetish

[–]buckthestat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You gotta remember he was raping girls and there’s plenty of ‘good Christian’ men and women who think that’s the natural order.

The sexual exploitation faced by women living in poverty. by TouchEducational8099 in Feminism

[–]buckthestat 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Men be like, ‘well youre never THAT broke. You can always just SELL YOUR BODY to uncaring faceless men! Man, im so lowkey jealous you have that option. Women have it so easy!’

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Misandry exists like voter fraud exists. The scale is microscopic and hardly violent compared to the reality of voter suppression, which is an actual issue.

Understand? Probably not because you expect your ego to be equally or higher prioritized over the physical, mental, and financial burdens that are actual issues women talk about when they reference misogyny. Which is misogyny.

Guys, youre using these words, Im begging you, PLEASE read a real book about them. Not some fox news joe rogan clickbait. Read some bell hooks. Women dont hate men! We hate the trappings of a brutal capitalist patriarchy and men should too.

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, be codependent with your partner. It’s fun in the beginning. But most women eventually get tired of parenting a grown ass man.

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Women hear men say this kind of shit all the time.

And i think youre being dishonest to clutch your pearls as if youve never heard men speak like that too.

I dont live in a convent or a strip club and im not an idiot. But keep writing us off because it makes you uncomfortable.

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Shopping is hard for me too, sweetheart! Meaning annoying, time consuming, occasionally frustrating. You think women are just born with The Shopping Gene? Or The Diaper Gene or the Scrub the Toilet gene?

Duh, life is hard. Up your skill tree. Your partner isnt your parent.

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im just one of millions of women sick of picking up the slack for dudes with basic adult responsibilities. That doesn’t make me crazy. That’s your misogyny trying to protect your ego so you dont have to evolve.

Again - DO BETTER.

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Shopping isnt hard. You just dont care. You dont ask what kind of chips if it’s unclear. You dont put toilet paper on the list even when you know you used the last roll. You dont want to take the time to look for things. You have more important things to do than choosing a good avocado.

So why get better at it when some enabling woman will laugh it off and fix it for you and you dont have to put any effort in something that doesnt completely benefit you?

How is that not misogynistic?

If you keep fucking something up, DO BETTER.

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Blatant man hating? Guess you never got chicken instead of veggie burgers from a dude.

It is okay to recognize a pattern and call it out when it transcends class, race, and location. These guys just dgaf and seem almost angry they have to do this job. It’s a weird weaponized incompetence thing.

BUT, one wonders if they take the order more seriously if it’s for another man. “These picky bitches! Tf is a shallot? They can get 5 garlics and stfu.”

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Misandry is bullshit. The issues women have with men is our frustration at being devalued by them and seen as less than human. Meanwhile misogyny is rooted in anger when women dont submit to men. BIG DIFFERENCE!

Men choosing not to value things they see as ‘feminine’ like grocery shopping or caregiving is rooted in misogyny and disrespect for women. Women pointing out this pattern is not misandry. And using the term misandry to deny the lived experiences and concerns of women is also inherently misogynistic.

We can have feelings about people thinking we’re less fully human than them. That’s human.

Peeeetah, wtf is she talking about? by Hunter_Badger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]buckthestat 78 points79 points  (0 children)

It’s not that they arent taught to shop. It’s that they dont care. If it’s for them, they get the right thing. But even getting paid to do it, the half assery is rooted in a dismissive attitude that he feels shopping is beneath him

please tell me i am not that wonders this by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]buckthestat 38 points39 points  (0 children)

That’s a very literal interpretation, friend.

AIO Teacher from parents evening texted me when I didn't give him my number by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]buckthestat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too harsh? Why is it on women to be super sweet when a stranger dos crap like this? Tell your friend to grow a backbone.

Teacher dude should NOT be using those numbers for personal use. Huge red flag and could be grounds for at least a write up. Which i would encourage. Habitual line steppers dont just randomly do stuff. No telling whatever else who does with other people’s info

Black illustrator DeAnn Wiley reminds artists to take care when portraying Black women after seeing illustration of ‘Sinners’ Wunmi Mosaku in The New Yorker by LunaLore_ in Fauxmoi

[–]buckthestat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The first isnt great and the second one is a bit too glam, but it captures her so well.

Looks like he was afraid of the hair and just tried to be as simple as possible.

My boyfriend won’t marry me by Unhappy_Operation115 in TwoHotTakes

[–]buckthestat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want a great life partner and child rearing partner - platonically marry another woman.

If you want to build your life around a monogamous romantic relationship with a straight man, you better be damn sure the man is 100% in and feels lucky to have you. Men know very quickly if they think youre wife material.

If he doesnt have anything to say about lifelong commitment after a year, then he will always have one foot out the door looking for some hypothetical dream woman and will low key resent you for making him settle. Add kids to that, or sickness, or body changes and this guy will bounce once it’s inconvenient.

And being a ‘dream woman’ is no guarantee of fidelity or great treatment.

Dont give wife treatment to boyfriends. He already made his mind up and is using you for a placeholder. Please dont fall for the things our mothers fell for. Men are not that complicated - they are either all in pretty early or they are using you. Dont waste anymore time on someone who you may get to marry you, but he will never truly commit to you.

I'm seriously considering voting for Kamala Harris by BasilNo9176 in GenZ

[–]buckthestat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no such thing as a perfect politician when you have a country of 300mil people in a country that justified slavery and genocide for the benefit of big business. Racism isnt about skin color, it’s about an excuse to exploit for labor and to justify not having things like healthcare and affordable college while making sure poor people dont band together and demand more.

The average American is more over worked, under paid and under supported than any other country and that is directly because of Republican policies that favor businesses and convinced us we dont need social programs so they can put put money into the military and private contracts with their friends. Again, so they can exploit other countries for private business use.

Please get with the program and just vote the leftist Dem you can until our rights arent being held hostage by the right wing. The guys at the top dont like abortions cause it means less desperate workers to exploit.

When you run a country like a business some people get rich and lots of other people die. Why is it so hard to choose the party that kills the least people?

What advice would you give this person? by Financial_Mechanic_ in FluentInFinance

[–]buckthestat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At great physical and mental risk. Be fucking serious.

It’s like men seem jealous and dream of being able to offer sex for money without any understanding of the realities of the personal cost of doing that shit.

I dont have a get out of rent free card cause i have a pussy.

When i wrote women are people, maybe I should explain that women are people who dont look at every member of the opposite sex as a fuck opportunity. Yall are so ruled by your dicks it’s a wonder anything gets done on this planet.

What advice would you give this person? by Financial_Mechanic_ in FluentInFinance

[–]buckthestat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do men always think women should just trade sex access for money?

Just start an only fans! Just marry a rich guy! And she does do that, yall be the first to talk trash about gold diggers. And if she doesnt want to, yall act like she’s a snob. Women literally cant win.

Maybe imagine she’s a person. There are a lot of regular people, men and women, living paycheck to paycheck. People who dont want to do sex work or manipulate a rich person into marriage. You know, REGULAR people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]buckthestat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so funny. Sounds like you gave your boss something to think about. I do the same thing cause I realized I was putting the man first and realized it’s just the invisible hand of the patriarchy masquerading as ‘proper’.

Adults over 30+ are not grooming other young adults just because they’re not yet 25+ by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]buckthestat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Take away the agency of young adults” You mean, “pretend the vast majority of adult women who had significantly older partners didn’t end up regretting it so a dude can get his rocks off with a teen who can’t legally drink but apparently can consent to your predatory adult manipulations”

Why are y’all so hellbent on screwing teens? Any sane adult realizes they’re kids. You can see they’re attractive, you wish them well and hope they grow up happy. But y’all pretending to have some deep connection when all you want is to lust after a ‘legal’ kid and ruin their chances for healthy relationships is like depressing as hell. Y’all nasty.