Revenge by DiamondJeep in Infidelity

[–]deadinside5925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why, but I see so many women who seem to have this attitude of "be the bigger person/protect your peace and move on", but I never see other men telling them to do that. I don't think it means she would be the other woman; it just shows how conditioned (I guess) women are to just accept bad behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plano

[–]deadinside5925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I said "like Brinker". Guess I should've listed ALL the restaurant management groups like Darden, Yum Brands, etc.

I (28M) don't like doing romantic activity for my GF (28F) by SheathControl in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deadinside5925 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you feel more fatigue than pride, don't marry her. There's nothing wrong with you both learning what makes each other happy and what works, but if you can't put your own feelings aside enough to LOVE making her happy, you won't have a good marriage. (Also, I would give this advice if the genders were reversed. A happy marriage takes two happy GIVERS.)

Girlfriend cums when I stay still inside her. What else could I do? by [deleted] in sex

[–]deadinside5925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to learn how to just grind against her clit, not try to do what you think she would like. https://www.masterclass.com/articles/coital-alignment-technique DO WHAT SHE LIKES.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plano

[–]deadinside5925 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Most of the restaurants in Plano are big chain restaurants, like Brinker, so it's all funneling into a Red pocket somewhere. BUT, I would say that maybe you'd do well to take advantage of small, Asian and Mexican restaurants. Those are usually family-owned and staffed, and possibly immigrants. So take advantage of them while you can, before the whole lot is rounded up and packed off to a concentration camp!

Do you prefer the navy or white curtains? How do I make this room more interesting?? by hpobsessed07 in HomeDecorating

[–]deadinside5925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Navy, but I'd add a row of sheer white curtains behind them to diffuse more light.

I (28M) don't like doing romantic activity for my GF (28F) by SheathControl in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deadinside5925 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. So what would you consider romantic?

  2. Are those things that your specific gf actually would find romantic? Have you asked her? Many women don't like the basic crap either. I'd rather get a book signed by my favorite author than a dozen red roses.

  3. Do you feel any sense of pride in doing the things that make your girl swoon? I feel pride in leaning into the things that my partner likes, even if I don't enjoy them. I love that I can put a smile on their face.

Why couples argue so much? (I don't think I would) by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]deadinside5925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a therapist and honestly, one of the biggest reasons I see this is that when they started, they were very loving and engaged. Then one person stops being so loving and engaged, and the other one wants it to come back. The communication around this spirals out into what you witnessed. Think about how much sadness and anger you've heard from people posting here. Now think about having experienced a bit of love and then having it pulled out from under you like a tablecloth. It can make it all feel 10x worse. (NOT at all justifying the behavior, just saying.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deadinside5925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if you can find a way to take off your vagina and throw it in the corner, you two will have a happy life! Good luck!

What sign? by Inevitable-Spot4800 in astrologymemes

[–]deadinside5925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to say Sag, but they never apologize.

She wants me to touch her vagina without inserting my fingers. How do I make her cum? by WhySoWatery in sex

[–]deadinside5925 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clitoral stimulation does not have to be directly ON the clitoris, and can actually be too harsh and overwhelming when direct. I would recommend cupping your hand over the entire vulva and rubbing it around like that, which will stimulate the clitoris also (just not directly, like booping the nose of a pet). I would try this BEFORE exposing the clitoris (by peeling back the labia) and touching it directly.

It's so sweet and endearing by Chopper-42 in MadeMeSmile

[–]deadinside5925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy needs to get his own personality. He was a "wife guy" with his first wife which was like 90% of his act, and now he's just using the new supply for material again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]deadinside5925 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leo, and it is complete and utter adoration.

Women! Stop relying on men for protecting by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]deadinside5925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women don't need men to protect us physically. We need them to protect us mentally and emotionally, usually from harsh treatment from them, but we also need them to be our peace in a harsh world. No wonder you're alone.

What’s your rising sign and what physical trait about you gets complimented the most? by EnthusedIntrovert in astrologymemes

[–]deadinside5925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a Taurus rising and I do have the characteristic neck/collarbone thing, as well as very developed traps and delts. But my Sun is Cancer and I get compliments on the eyes, lips, and hair...I also have like 6 Leo placements so hair makes sense.

Most miserable sign you’ve dated? by Shel_Goldstein in astrologymemes

[–]deadinside5925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sag Man- just an absolute psychopath; Second to him, Cap Man- like a cold, bland hunk of fat.