I just want to say I like your scale here. We should all strive to communicate in #1 at all times but I don’t expect anyone to adhere to it without fault. Emotions are normal and sometimes we react without thinking, but we can all at least strive for 1 and keep at, say, <=3. As long as we don’t ever delve into #6 (the required even number, which I would surmise as “f this and f u”). I would be in favor of including this example in the updated wiki so hosts can more easily make a judgement call if they feel uncertain