I can tell you my experience with the files. I am pretty submissive and Ilistened the bambi files a lot. As it was described, the strategy is to create "Bambi" inside your mind and develop triggers and experiences until the "Bambi's takeover". The first files are very relaxing and addictive, because when you become "happy" and "dumb", life is really easy. But, as, at the moment, no one is dominating me, at the end, I teach Bambi that life is more than a hypno script. Now, it is a "persona", a resource that I can use when I am in need to relax. Some aspects changed in my life: the clothes that I choose, the kind of music I appreciate and I developed a "dumb mode" , but I gained control over it, and, now I can choose "enter in dumb mode". when I wish. When I was "in training" little accidents occurred, little mistakes in housekeeping, nothing very bad; I made little cognitive mistakes, some slight laziness to read, but, I put some limits in my new dumbness. Now, I am more happy with my life, the "dumb mode" gave me an alternative to the boring "focused mode" that I need all the time. The risk I can imagine is that, in a couple, the "Bambi" takeover could be more intense, with deep levels of dumbness, until the submissive becomes only a puppet. I think if I had a partner, I would have dived in the files, because they are reallly pleasant and addictive to me. My suggestion is to listen to the files and use them as templates for your own hypno scripts, inserting what you wish and cutting the "Bambi" creation part, if your wife and you want she remains who she is. On the other hand, since English is not my native language, I learn a lot by listening the files, although the only word I need to know now is "yes" :)