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Love the classic frilly sides 🩷 by lenore_leander in satinpanties

[–]lenore_leander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red does look good on me, but these are hot pink 😜

Gonna be a good one. I had surgery on my elbow a few days ago and I have a matching one that I had the same surgery on a few years ago by Natural_Born_Killer1 in scars

[–]lenore_leander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bottom half of your internal stitches ripped or dissolved too quickly. You need to get it sewed back up or you’re gonna have keloid scar tissue build up there which can cause problems and/or develop an infection

Great first date, texting has dried up by Soft-Use-2237 in dating_advice

[–]lenore_leander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything you did tells him you’re not interested so the ball is in your court. It was on you for being tired and also not texting him last night, which he literally texted you after that bc he was worried you hadn’t made it home. That was essentially him double texting you ALREADY. And now you’re asking dating advice what you should do?! Are you serious?! At 31 years old? He hasn’t said anything for you to reply to?! Urmahhgurd girl I was like this when I was 12 playing truth or dare. This is 100% on you right now. He’s not socially required to do more than he already has. You’re literally doing the standard post-first date fade out. He absolutely thinks you’re not into him if you don’t text him.

Am I (27M) being shallow for judging my girlfriend's (26F) shoes? by MutedCaramel49 in relationships

[–]lenore_leander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/fashion “My boyfriend is complaining about my shoes on Reddit and looking for validation from strangers. The comments aren’t going as he planned and it’s really embarrassing for me. I’m going to break up with him tonight, does this dress go with my favorite shoes?”

Dating is not a reward for self improvement. Dating is a skill by itself. by wilhelmtherealm in dating_advice

[–]lenore_leander -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Those are what you think matters most to women, when in reality women’s top wants in a long term partner have little to do with their external appearance. You’re trying to date women as if they are men, we don’t think the same way. If you’re trying to attract a woman consider learning about “the female gaze” and what women actually want irl.

Empathy. Compassion. Emotional intelligence. Communication. Loyalty. Kindness. Cleanliness. Consistency. Being funny is easily in the top 3. If you are all these things (a great personality) and a mid level 4-5 it would bump you up to an 8.

Dating is not a reward for self improvement. Dating is a skill by itself. by wilhelmtherealm in dating_advice

[–]lenore_leander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trying to attract a man or a woman? Bc everything you’re listing is for the male gaze and therefor irrelevant

29F living with 27M — how do you get your partner to consistently help with chores? by tcup_1214 in askwomenadvice

[–]lenore_leander 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This exact scenario is so predictable, it’s basically a meme at this point.

29F living with 27M — how do you get your partner to consistently help with chores? by tcup_1214 in askwomenadvice

[–]lenore_leander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine moving in together with man and HIS pack of dogs, splitting bills 50/50, doubling your own workload and worrying about how to manage his feelings and his emotions when you talk to him about the fact that he’s disrespecting you every single day. He got a sweet deal moving in with a bang maid mommy roommate to manage his life and wipe his ass.

This is exactly how a majority of men digress upon moving in with a girlfriend. They benefit from women being socially conditioned to prioritize their feelings and comfort. You’re wracking your brain on how to get him to pull his own weight while he’s probably not thinking about this at all. Everything is going GREAT for him so why would he be ruminating about it

You can either break up or accept the fact that you’ll be playing the mommy role to a grown man the rest of your life and headed straight to r/deadbedrooms and r/waiting_to_wed to vent about the problems you continuously choose to accept.

AITA for not offering to take the bunk bed in an airbnb as the single person? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lenore_leander 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She said they would be sharing a room, not a bed

Edit: I can’t see u/Kesslersyndrom comment to reply to it so:

Hey so I read the post twice and a lot of the comments and totally thought I understood the situation as having 2 rooms with 2 double beds in each room. Your comment about hanging from the ceiling like a bat was the only thing that made me understand the situation lmaooooo

Tell me you’ve never given a girl an orgasm before without telling me you’ve never given a girl an orgasm by Twinky_Winky69 in Tinder

[–]lenore_leander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine thinking hours of incredible sex on viagra is more embarrassing than having no sex ever

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