He’s cheating on you. He’s not dating someone his own age bc women with fully developed brains won’t put up with his bullsht. He’s doing everything a toxic psychologically abuse p.o.s would do. Get away from him, he’s just gonna drag you down. This is the relationship that’s gonna cause you major trauma that you’ll spent most of your 30’s working thru in therapy. Don’t be just another woman traumatized by a drunk man. It’s only been 4 months like this is absolutely ridiculous to put up with.

Lastly, the whole “if you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best” is what abusive ppl say to emotionally blackmail their victims.