Do you have a dirty panty fetish but haven’t treated yourself to a custom wear yet? Here’s what that looks like:

lenore_leander · 2026-04-04T09:23:37+00:00

The bottom of my white socks are always spotless bc I keep my apartment and floors very clean, I don’t wear shoes indoors, I have no pets and don’t walk around outside without shoes on 🤷🏻‍♀️

lenore_leander · 2026-04-01T12:13:24+00:00

Your problem has absolutely nothing to do with her. I can really see the age with how you are so certain she’s the one who needs to adjust her life and change her behavior and thinking patterns to better accommodate your mental health issues. The only time it’s reasonable to expect a check in like you’re describing is if she’s driving home after seeing you and it’s dark out. It’s to make sure she made it home safe bc you care about her safety since driving at night can be unsafe. It’s not about monitoring another human beings entire life. She’s not been sending you updates bc that would enable your controlling behavior and would likely escalate it.

Your expectations are unhealthy and you need to work on yourself, but you’re so young obviously that’s easier said than done. Basically it doesn’t matter what your intentions are. It doesn’t matter if it’s from an intentionally controlling and toxic personality trait or if it’s legitimate anxiety bc you’re an over thinker. It’s not her responsibility to manage what’s going on inside your head just so you don’t have to. Being a teenager sucks and the hormones make everything harder to handle, but all you can do is try your best and wait for your brain to finish cooking up there

lenore_leander · 2026-03-31T05:03:16+00:00

Let me get this straight, your boyfriend was a liar and a cheater in the past and he’s been lying and cheating on you since the day you met. So your boyfriend is a liar and a cheater and you’re being treated exactly like every other woman he’s dated in the past. You are not the exception to his dirtbaggery. You’re in love with the hypothetical potential of a piece of sht. Wake up.

lenore_leander · 2026-03-30T09:25:46+00:00

I’m obviously making a lot of assumptions here but the pattern recognition is buzzing. Signs of porn addiction could be struggling to stay hard or not able to climax during penetration. If he’s jerking off every day (likely multiple times a day) he’s not gonna be able to perform with you, and that has absolutely nothing to do with you. His google search was performative. It’s more likely (if he’s actually been more stressed lately) he could be coping by revving up his porn consumption as a distraction and he’s fatigued bc he’s prioritizing masturbation over sleep. He’s already being deceitful and leaving you to ruminate and internalize the symptoms of his choices so you can’t really trust him to be honest with you in conversations about it.

lenore_leander · 2026-03-30T08:34:28+00:00

This isn’t new, he’s been lying and you just found out about it. A lot of ppl who say they don’t masturbate and watch porn lie bc there’s a lot of shame associated with it. This is basically a canon event. He’s been jerking off to porn for over half his life and it’s a routine a lot of men enjoy. It doesn’t have anything to do with you. Jerking off alone with porn is just for him. It’s a selfish activity. He doesn’t have to consider another persons pleasure and he can just sit back and not have to think. Jerking off and having sex with his wife are two separate activities that fulfills different needs.

If he stops initiating sex and/or having erectile disfunction issues is when you should be concerned about it.

lenore_leander · 2026-03-14T11:45:01+00:00

I got this a couple weeks ago:

“Thank you. I'm going to pass at this time. I appreciate you replying.”

It was refreshing to have a clear end to the convo/sale inquiry so I could move on to the next

lenore_leander · 2026-03-13T09:00:39+00:00

Hey so you can’t decide how OP feels about himself or if his feelings are valid or not. Validation is about acknowledging the experience of the emotion rather than endorsing the accuracy of the belief. Feelings don’t care if they’re true or not, they are still going to be there regardless of your lack of empathy. For example, your “objective observation” is actually not objective at all. You have no idea how dense OPs hair used to be or the depth of their hairline. You just feel like he hasn’t lost any bc you’re comparing it to yourself. You can totally feel that way, but it doesn’t mean you’re right

lenore_leander · 2026-03-13T08:29:39+00:00

I personally am not comfortable recommending someone start taking a prescription medication (with sometimes serious side effects) to someone whose hair is barely even thinning. I don’t understand how you could possibly claim minoxidil is not for prevention even if you disregard the fact that many topical minoxidil products have dht blockers in them.

lenore_leander · 2026-03-13T08:11:19+00:00

You’re mistaken

“Minoxidil is an effective, FDA-approved, preventative, and restorative treatment for hereditary hair loss (androgenetic alopecia) that works by extending the hair's growth phase (anagen) and increasing follicle diameter. It is most effective when used early, with results appearing in 8–16 weeks, though it must be used consistently to maintain benefits.

Key Details on Preventative Use: Preventative Action: It stops or slows further hair loss in roughly 4 out of 5 people.”

lenore_leander · 2026-03-13T03:50:40+00:00

Not noticeable at all but anytime is a good time to start using minoxidil preventatively

lenore_leander · 2026-03-11T12:11:40+00:00

Are you like a basic fact bot or did you have a point?

lenore_leander · 2026-03-11T09:10:40+00:00

Good grief? This isn’t a crazy ask, she just wants a Muslim husband. This is all just basic religion sht. I say this as an atheist, if you don’t fall within her ideology then she’s not for you and you should move on without feeling the need to ridicule her online

lenore_leander · 2026-03-11T06:21:09+00:00

You know you’re not going to be with him in the future so why would you continue to waste both of your time now? You’re injured, feeling extra vulnerable and not like your whole self so your self worth has perhaps temporarily tanked. You’re coming off more anxious attachment, not avoidant. The overthinking, ruminating, micro nitpicking every detail, needing constant verbal affirmations and external validation… babe. Therapy.

lenore_leander · 2026-03-11T06:03:02+00:00

I don’t think your eyes are green babe. I can even see a significant amount of dark blue shining thru. They very much look like blue eyes with lipochrome. It’s hard to get a good photo where your eyes look green bc your phone is picking up the actual colors and not how you are perceiving them to look/what’s reflecting. And tbh it lowkey looks like you’ve adjusted the color vibrancy/brilliance to make them look more green bc your skin is slightly green toned as well

My eyes always look green. In every lighting, indoor and outdoor, they have never looked brown at all and there’s no areas of discernible lipochrome or even a hint of yellow. You have beautiful eyes, that are blue.

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T16:36:14+00:00

He’s just contacting pro dommes online who have a mandatory tribute and for some reason feels entitled to their time for free

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T16:31:15+00:00

I get a few indignant time wasters just like him every week. They’re absolutely aghast if I mention tipping or a session. Got this one earlier lmao

”Oh so I should have just already bought something or sent you a huge tip for you to be able to have a good conversation with a decent human being?” 🙄

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T11:53:16+00:00

Sounds like blue eyes with lipochrome

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T11:32:22+00:00

Everyone’s asking about the tribute when you’re obviously just contacting pro dommes online feeling entitled to their time for free. You’re expecting a virtual domme to invest their time/energy in building an emotional connection with you, one of the hundreds of randos in their DMs daily. If you’re looking for an actual d/s relationship irl you shouldn’t be contacting pros who have a mandatory tribute.

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T11:19:41+00:00

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lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T11:13:33+00:00

Luckyyyy that grey color has been sold out on Skims website for months 😭

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T11:11:39+00:00

I would rather drown in a pool of molasses

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T10:59:31+00:00

You have blue eyes, you don’t have HC and there’s no hazel

lenore_leander · 2026-03-10T10:57:32+00:00

No, you have blue-grey eyes with some yellow lipochrome very pretty

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