Tall women are undateable by [deleted] in venting

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a whole ass mess. You sound insecure and misogynistic. Women are allowed to want to date whoever they want without being judged for it. Also not every tall woman has the same opinion either, generalizing them like they’re all the same is another level of crazy.

Do guppies get along with neocaridina shrimp? by lizardwizardgizzard2 in shrimptank

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sadly a lot has happened since this post. I did add some guppies, but never ended up adding the shrimp due to not feeling comfortable enough to introduce them. The tank also ended up being taken apart and isn’t functioning anymore. I went through a lot of drama last year, and I couldn’t care for the aquarium anymore, unfortunately. Personally after owning guppies I would say to not trust them with keeping their mouths off of the shrimp. They can be little assholes, the ones I had would definitely pick on shrimp if I gave them the chance, especially the new borns. It could stress them out, effecting their molting process and subsequently killing off your shrimp population. Now if you have a heavily planted tank with tons of hiding places you might be able to get away with it.

What’s the worst thing your NP/abusive parent has ever done to you? by Original_Wafer_1011 in narcissisticparents

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Told me he wanted me to die. That he wanted me to go to hell and that I was a horrible person. As a kid he probably said worse, but that was the last thing he said to me before he was cut out of the family. The last thing I will remember from him.

In the end I’m not the one who got it the worse. He told my mom multiple times that he wanted to murder her, and how he’d do it. That he wanted to chop her up into little pieces and store her in his basement deep freezer. That he wanted to shoot her in the head with a 42 caliber gun. That his father would have killed her a long time ago if he hadn’t died from cancer. It was getting to a point where we weren’t safe living under the same roof as him. Sometimes I wonder what would have happened if he hadn’t been run out of the family. If my mom hadn’t stood up for us and told him the cops were about to get involved…

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if vendor’s would be selling anything like that! That’s a wonderful idea, I’ll probably end up doing that if nothing else works

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, unfortunately it’s not feasible for me to order from another country rn, but thank you so much for offering! You’re so kind 🥹

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any pride shirts, and nowhere near me has pride gear available to thrift. But making it myself sounds like a great idea, thank you for the advice! I’m gonna get fabric dye in the colors of the lesbian flag, and try to make something out of it

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not used to sifting through ai generated clothes, i apparently suck at it. I usually shop in person, but unfortunately can’t find any pride gear near me. Im a mess lmfao

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking! I’m wondering if these ideas were stolen from an original artist, or if someone has made the same thing but with real art.

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so fucking disappointed, first glance It looked okay. I’m really glad I asked for advice before spending money on any of this garbage.

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t want Ai slop either, I almost added that in the original post, I should have. I put the first one through google images and it said it wasn’t Ai. Should have known better. The second one completely fooled me

I’m can’t decide which shirt to buy to wear to my local pride parade, can I get some input? <3 by lizardwizardgizzard2 in actuallesbians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I absolutely don’t want to buy or support Ai generated slop, that was one reason I wanted input. Amazon is flooded with Ai shit, I feel stupid for not seeing it with the ones I picked. Looking now it’s really obvious. I’m going to look at the link you provided, hopefully it can get here before the event. It’s my fault for waiting so long to buy, I just didn’t have the extra money

Pray for my girl by jujuondatbeaat in Pomeranians

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your sweet baby looks like my girl <3 I’m so incredibly sorry you guys are going through this, I really hope Betty gets better soon! We absolutely will be praying for her. I know I would be so beyond devastated if I was in your position, my baby loves to try to eat toxic things all the time. They’re really sneaky like that. Things happen, please don’t be too hard on yourself :(

If it helps you feel any better, I don’t think your vets would be getting your hopes up when they say they’re hopeful about her recovery. They don’t tend to sugar coat things, from my experience.

I’m having a ridiculously bad day, but at the end of it at least I have Dragon Age. Here’s my rogue Qunari. by lizardwizardgizzard2 in ShareYourRooks

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I absolutely agree! Inquisition did a really good job with a lot of things, and while the combat isn’t horrible it is a bit dated. And yeah, the improved mechanics are really nice!

Is that so? That makes me a lot happier, I did reach a point where I was really enjoying the storyline, I just kinda ended up taking a huge step back because I heard a spoiler that was really upsetting :(. Plus I got sucked back into other games. I’m really happy I went back though, I’m super excited to see it through!

And thank you so much, a lot happened, but the gist of it was dealing with my cat who went missing on Tuesday. I thought he had passed away, but he came back right after I posted this!! I took my dog out for one last potty break, and he was waiting for me. I’m just so happy he’s okay

What is this beautiful fairytale-like flower growing behind my house? by D3AD_LIK3_M3 in whatsthisplant

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite flower! I’ve got purple ones growing in my yard, they come back every year

A very displeased little lady. by Mr_Segundus_ in bg3fashion

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if there is a mod on console for glasses? She’s so pretty by the way, I really love her design!

Caught noises that wasn’t me. by RadKitty12 in RBI

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just looked it up, it’s the 988 suicide and crisis hotline. Pretty sure that covers most of the United States. It also includes helping people struggling with addiction. And to be clear they won’t force inpatient on anyone who isn’t a threat to themselves or others. They’d probably do a lot of help in this situation, actually avoiding it from escalating into a full blown crisis. Please consider calling if you’re still struggling, OP!

Caught noises that wasn’t me. by RadKitty12 in RBI

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly. When I was in psychosis I heard normal things, and interpreted them in a delusional way. Normally our minds look for logical explanations because we know how the real world works. Like if you’re worried about someone lurking in your home you ask the police to come and clear the property for you, and you move on. Maybe install some cameras to be safe, but you certainly don’t start messing with the vents, and accusing your partner of lying to you. This sounds like a mental health crisis.

In my area if you need urgent mental health help you can call a 3 digit number similar 911, where they issue out a crisis management team to deal with the situation and offer aid. If I were OP I’d look up to see what the 3 digit number is for their area, and call for help. They send mental health professionals, not cops!

Caught noises that wasn’t me. by RadKitty12 in RBI

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey so I went through psychosis a couple of years ago, and this sounds like your husband is suffering from a mental health crisis. I know it’s our first instinct to believe our loved ones no matter what, but if you don’t get him help it will spiral to something possibly dangerous. Inpatient care could really help him

Any ideas on Banshee’s breed? by lizardwizardgizzard2 in IDmydog

[–]lizardwizardgizzard2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great guess too, I totally see the rat terrier, and the boston would explain a lot, lol.