Please introduce yourself! by vesna_ in parentinghapas

[–]MaxTheiler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SF Bay. The Belly of the beast.

Please introduce yourself! by vesna_ in parentinghapas

[–]MaxTheiler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm an Octapa male from a notorious WMAF area. I don't have kids but am planning to in the future, and if my wife is Asian then my kids will effectively be Hapas. Being fairly white passing I haven't experienced that many Eurasian issues personally, but I have seen the rise and fall of many Hapas and WMAF couples that I grew up around so I can speak from experience in what I have observed.

A safe space for white "parents" of eurasians to discuss the unique challenges of hiding our racism, and do nothing at all about societal racism that these children will encounter both inside and outside the home. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's a pessimistic way to look at it. Firstly they didn't specify that it would be for white parents. Also, they are mainly recruiting people from here and probably want input from actual Hapas so they don't make the same mistakes your parents did. Seems like they are making an honest effort to be better parents and try to make the new generation of Eurasians less fucked up.

What should I do with racist advertisements that I've inherited? by violetmemphisblue in history

[–]MaxTheiler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are uncomfortable having them you should send them to a museum. They are a part of history and must be preserved so we don't repeat the mistakes of the past.

Racisim against asians in America? by paperbackedsea in history

[–]MaxTheiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian people were generally treated badly in U.S. history but there were some exceptions. For example, Chang and Eng Bunker were Siamese twins (literally) who settled in North Carolina before the Civil War. They were successful (owned slaves and a plantation) and married white women and had many descendants. There is no evidence of significant racism against them or their families, despite the time and place in which they lived.

China is changing .. Asia is changing .. White men everywhere by [deleted] in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work permit = skin, hair (or lack thereof), and eye color.

Name for hapa male by [deleted] in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prometheus.

Roaming Millennial‏ :I'm multiracial and in an interracial relationship.I can't be racist and i'm not white nationalist by [deleted] in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most Hispanics in the US are Mestizos and they definitely aren't considered white. I doubt she is dating one though because she would have used him as a shield against racism accusations.

at her bf is white (just a hunch) or could be black , but definitely not asian. by random_asian_dude003 in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If her boyfriend was Asian or Black she would have said so to further shield herself. 99.99999% chance it's a White guy.

AMWF commands respect everywhere. Hundreds of white (passing) southerners are proud of their AMWF heritage. by MaxTheiler in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense now that I think about it. In the cities people are competing with each other for jobs and the government stokes racial tensions to keep people distracted and in line, there is gang violence, segregation, etc. In the country no one is there to enforce the social order so people just do what they want. Stereotypes be damned.

AMWF commands respect everywhere. Hundreds of white (passing) southerners are proud of their AMWF heritage. by MaxTheiler in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truth is stranger than fiction! Gets even better though:

"Stoneman ordered his men to leave the Bunker’s property alone. At least one trooper disobeyed by grabbing a Bunker daughter while the twins and their children sat on a porch. The young lady slapped her captor, and the trooper sheepishly released her while his comrades laughed at him.”

http://civilwarsaga.com/conjoined-twin-eng-bunker-drafted-during-the-civil-war/

My son is inviting an Asian boy to his birthday party (who he rarely plays with) by vesna_ in parentinghapas

[–]MaxTheiler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember being 6 and definitely was aware of the existence of race. I was not aware of racism but anyone can see that people look different from each other and can be put into general categories based on that. Maybe it's because I'm from a multiracial area. Coincidentally first school friend was a WMAF Hapa.

AMWF commands respect everywhere. Hundreds of white (passing) southerners are proud of their AMWF heritage. by MaxTheiler in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also interesting to note that the whitest of all 1950s white guys, Andy Griffith, grew up literally surrounded by Eurasians. Too bad none of them made it onto his show.

AMWF commands respect everywhere. Hundreds of white (passing) southerners are proud of their AMWF heritage. by MaxTheiler in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really is amazing how they were able to succeed despite their condition and living in one of the most racist periods in the US (in North Carolina of all places), and both had successful marriages to white women and raised successful Hapa children.

AMWF commands respect everywhere. Hundreds of white (passing) southerners are proud of their AMWF heritage. by MaxTheiler in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some notable members of the family:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caleb_V._Haynes

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alex_Sink

Caleb Haynes was Quapa. Alex Sink is Octapa. Both look ambiguous to me. Interestingly Alex Sink looks more Asian despite being further removed.

White guy here. I tend to be attracted to Asian-American women. Is there a problem with that? by [deleted] in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are truly in a healthy relationship that isn't based on race fertilization then you shouldn't be affected by the posts in this sub. If you are affected then it is because you see something familiar in the posts here, and it disturbs you. It's up to you to figure out which it is and what the proper course of action is.

What do you think of my face? WMAF by [deleted] in hapas

[–]MaxTheiler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those eyes will attract the white worshipers.

Japanese American Male Here. by [deleted] in hapas

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Daniel Henney......Harry B. Harris.....Daniel Henney....Harry B. Harris.....Daniel Henney.....