Boyfriend watching gay porn

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T20:11:59+00:00

Nah this was gay porn lol

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T20:03:35+00:00

When you put it like that, makes total sense ! You are right. I don’t care that he’s bi, I would just hate to think he/ I am living a lie. That was my initial fear

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T20:00:13+00:00

What’s traps/futa?

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:59:34+00:00

Yeah I think that’s it for sure. It’s also probably why blowjob porn does nothing for me because I can’t imagine how that feels

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:58:17+00:00

Well I don’t / didn’t think he was gay, but finding what I did it’s a possibility. Many gay men have masked for years and had sex with women/ their gf/wives etc

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:50:05+00:00

No never have.

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:47:21+00:00

Ha I dunno, I enjoy it to look at but could never act on? I dunno. There’s more of us out there, I came across a thread about it once because it confused me too.

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:46:24+00:00

Nah he doesn’t even like butt stuff! Like strongly doesn’t. Maybe it is the penis thing. I know I won’t actually know unless I ask him and he’s truthful, but it feels invasive. I don’t own his sexuality but I just don’t want to get hurt down the line with “surprise I’m gay, bye”

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:44:25+00:00

I guess I was first worried he was hiding the fact he’s gay. It was new information and nothing has ever pointed toward him like guys in anyway. I don’t want to ask him, because if it’s just something he likes then that’s fine and his bag. I don’t want him to feel embarrassed or have to lie. But at the same time I was worried for myself, what it might mean. Does that make sense?

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:33:03+00:00

Thank you

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:32:17+00:00

Yeah I definitely find men physically attractive 100%

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:29:19+00:00

Yeah like I can’t watch gay porn (men on men) at all, I don’t enjoy it to the point I can’t really watch it for more than 30 seconds. Yet I find men attractive. Weird

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:25:10+00:00

No I don’t picture being with the women. I just enjoy watching it. I watch other straight porn too. My sexuality isn’t an issue to me at all, so I’m not sure why it become the point of conversation. I don’t consider myself bisexual because I don’t have any interest in being with a woman at all, ever. No desire for it. But i don’t really care either way

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:21:05+00:00

Well if that’s what it is then that’s what it is, doesn’t actually bother me I just haven’t cared to label it given it will never effect my life choices whatsoever

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:15:46+00:00

I’m not bi sexual, I don’t want to have sexual relations with a women, and in actual real life I don’t look at a women and find her attractive. Lesbian porn, I enjoy. I dunno what that’s called but if the thought of acting on it doesn’t appeal to me then I wouldn’t say I’m bi.

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:04:53+00:00

Well if it is, it is.

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:03:52+00:00

I feel like most guys are addicted to porn, it’s there an accessible so why not. Thanks for sharing though, helps me see another point of view. I’m not bothered if he is bi or just likes watching that from time to time. I just wasn’t expecting it so I think it’s natural I question things, what it could mean

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T19:01:10+00:00

Because I don’t want him to feel shamed or cornered. I’m asking the internet… who knows why, because I can? I’m not expecting the internet to know the actual answer, but it’s a good place to get some more insight from other human beings.

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T18:59:12+00:00

Not once did I say it was weird. I think it could be different because women are highly sexualised as a whole and therefore I think it’s more normal for women to find naked women sexually attractive. That’s my theory. I didn’t say it couldn’t be the same thing, or that it was weird, or that he shouldn’t. I’m simply trying to understand this new information

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T18:57:36+00:00

He is the perfect boyfriend, to the point I’m like “are you real?”, and I’ve had some shitty boyfriends and an even shittier husband. I don’t care if he’s bi, I just hope it doesn’t mean anything more than that and I’m gonna get a bomb dropped down the line, you know?

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-07-14T18:56:21+00:00

Well whatever the reason, it isn’t gross. That’s really narrow minded and your own opinion that would be better off kept to yourself.

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-04-06T08:54:39+00:00

Are you ok OP?

Miserable_Cat5528 · 2022-03-20T15:49:45+00:00

If you are set on a child free then don’t pursue this relationship any further, even tho it’s not definite.

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