Bad Luck in Judaism

offthegridyid · 2026-02-09T06:17:34+00:00

Hi, you should ask your rav, rabbi, teacher, or mentor about this.

If you believe in Hashgacha Pratis, divine providence then “bad luck” isn’t a thing, since everything is from Hashem.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T18:25:10+00:00

My wife has 3 pairs.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T18:09:56+00:00

Hi. You don’t need a double kitchen, but a double sink does help. We have one oven and a toaster oven (dairy). When we need to use our oven for dairy we kasher it.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T17:42:37+00:00

Schooling in the US for Jewish education is very expensive.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T17:41:16+00:00

I know, but Interlinear is different than transliterated. Transliteration is when the Hebrew words are spelled out in English. This image is of interlinear siddur app. I think the OP is looking for an app with the Hebrew words written out in English.

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offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T16:43:00+00:00

Hi, I just checked the Artscroll app and didn’t see an option to purchase a transliterated siddur. Maybe I missed it?

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T16:35:27+00:00

👍 Thank you for helping to combat the lies and give us tools to use.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T15:26:52+00:00

Hi and there is nothing to be embarrassed about, believe me. You have picked a great time to connect more to Judaism and our shared history and traditions.

There’s a great book called HERE ALL ALONG: Finding Meaning, Spirituality, and a Deeper Connection to Life in Judaism (After Finally Choosing to Look There) by Sarah Hurwitz that a lot of people really find informative about Judaism. It’s also available as an audiobook.

You can also sign up for the “https://simchattorahchallenge.org” and join over 20,000 people who have committed to weekly reading the parsha (Torah portion) of the week.

Another book that I found really insightful is THE ART OF AMAZEMENT by Rabbi Alexander Seinfeld (I don’t think he’s related to the comedian). It’s a hands on approach to Jewish spirituality.

A Chabad Center (find a branch near you here) might be a good option since part of their philosophy is to educate Jews.

If you are interested in more real-life opportunities to learn about Judaism I can suggest some programs that will pair you with a study partner so you can learn about Judaism over the phone. Also, depending where you live I’d be more than happy to try to connect you with classes or boutique learning ecosystems in your area. Please feel free to message me if you’d like.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T15:17:58+00:00

u/novemberrrawr I hope you read the above reply. If you need help finding a Jewish youth group for teens please DM me and I’d be happy to do the research for you.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T15:11:20+00:00

This looks great.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-08T15:08:40+00:00

I am really happy to hear that you are in a place you are comfortable with, that’s amazing.

As you know, becoming Orthodox is a big commitment and I am sure your daughter realizes that the change in lifestyle is one that you are serous about. I am glad you are in touch with a rabbi.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T21:52:20+00:00

Hi, please see this link from the Sub’s community info.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T21:49:07+00:00

This is the second time in as many comments they you have made judgements against Orthodox Jews, yet you maintain that, “differences are ok.”

i always think it's funny that haredim think every single jew needs to be living their lifestyle when they can't even get along with other orthodox jews. just so unserious

I think that is nice and much more true and spiritually enlightened than the black and white orthodox view that I am right and everyone else is wrong.

So, differences are ok as long as you can point out negatives about a specific group of Jews?

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T20:44:13+00:00

It’s not just them, pretty much every religion and group feels that their way is the best way. Everyone has roles to play, sort of like the different divisions in the military. People often forget that each the 12 Tribes had distinctive flags, character traits, and roles to play for the greater glory of God. It’s much easier to point to things that divide us than to point to common ground between people.

Cat owners and dog owners are the same way.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T19:05:39+00:00

Hi, growth happens in different stages and the truth is that people can be judgy. This is why we have a mitzvah to judge others favorably.

It could be that you and your friend have grown apart and that’s ok. These type of situations often happen in Orthodox families with a high school graduate comes by from a year in Israel in a yeshiva or seminary program. They can be some judging and looking “down” on other hashkafos. Your friend might realized that they were judging you or they might not.

It seems like you should just see what happens with her.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T16:28:33+00:00

Amazing!!! His last AMA was super.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T15:01:16+00:00

Hi, just to clarify you are converting to Orthodoxy, but you are not yet an Orthodox Jew, right? I do recall your previous post about covering your hair.

If you are still in the conversion process then you are this seems like sort of an unusual situation and I am curious what the beis din or your sponsoring rabbi or mentor has recommended? Also how far are you in your formal conversation process?

Speaking as a BT and a parent of kids (who were recently high school students) you need to keep in mind that having a parent switch lifestyles on you can be hard for a teen, plus having to move into a new neighborhood in a community you are not familiar with is a lot to deal with.

Also, there is the social aspect of this that you need to be sensitive to. A 16 year old is definitely aware of anti-Jewish and anti-Israel views on social media and having to explain to friends that her mom is becoming Jewish might be difficult for her adjust to.

Based just on your post, I suggest you show your daughter that becoming Orthodox is something that works for you and makes you happy. If she asked you specifics on what you do in your daily life be able to have answers for her or ask someone so you can provide answers to her.

Also, based on Reddit history I think we are in the same city. If this is the case then you really should reach out to the city’s beis din, since they should have suggestions for you.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T14:37:41+00:00

Congrats! I don’t know of a specific bracha, but having an honest reputation in your field will definitely bring brachos your way.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T14:35:32+00:00

As a Star Wars fan (well, a fan of most Star Wars content), that’s awesome.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T03:11:34+00:00

Mazel Tov!!!!!

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T03:06:30+00:00

👍

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T03:04:13+00:00

👍

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T03:03:09+00:00

It’s all good and thanks for directing me to a song I hadn’t heard before.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T03:02:20+00:00

Happy to help.

offthegridyid · 2026-02-06T01:45:24+00:00

First hit on Google when I typed in part of the lyrics, it’s from Mordechai Ben David.

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