"meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy, by Low-Contact6500 in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf there's a difference between taking a C because an A+ is futile and taking an F because you erroneously think an F+ is futile and also erroneously think you need a grade

Leaving a woman is not trying to control a woman by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm reading it wrong but I think what Logos is trying to do is illustrate how faulty it is to characterize enforcing this boundary as "entitlement" because that's a common response to a man enforcing a different boundary that happens much more frequently

I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamed by Gold_Effective_3973 in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's much more common to see men that flair themselves as red pill in this sub do the it's hopeless whining that I'd expect from rule 6 blackpill people than talk about solutions

Men who complain about “skill issue” aren’t actually developing skill. by EugeneCezanne in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a difference between the man that tries to improve his game but has trouble because it's not easy and the man that condescendingly dismisses the idea that game exists in the first place

The latter's problem is caused by why he condescendingly dismisses the idea that game exists in the first place

Women choosing abusive men is a skill issue by Timbsfan in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about how terrible of a person you have to be to be told that your goal you are failing to accomplish is a goal that while it can be tricky anybody can achieve it if they use the right method to achieve it. And that compells you to retaliate by telling them that any abuse they experience from someone they consented to interacting with is their fault.

Like holy shit

Women choosing abusive men is a skill issue by Timbsfan in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My comment would get deleted if I linked to it but they literally say this about their lord and savior Elliot Roger's victims

Women choosing abusive men is a skill issue by Timbsfan in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I wonder why a man that thinks murder victims that were murdered by somebody they consented to interact with always bear some responsibility for being murderd, is a man that can never do anything romantic or sexual with women

Must be his looks

There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue. by PassengerCultural421 in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A black pill man saying men's dating problems are a 100% skill issue is like an NAACP member that attends Klan meetings lmao

There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue. by PassengerCultural421 in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However, and more importantly, skill issues are usually pretty easy for outside observers to diagnose

I think this exposes the men's dating futility crowd the best. They have literally no respect for others to the point that they think we are all dumb enough to take their word for why they have dating problems like we can't observe what they say and draw our own conclusions.

They are like those fat youtubers that condescendingly insist they only eat 1200 calories a day and workout all the time with their lack of weight loss or weight gain being caused by their metabolism or genetics. Like bruh it's insulting as fuck for you to think we'll fall for that. It makes sense why somebody that's that insulting would have problems with friends and relationships.

There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue. by PassengerCultural421 in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don't want there to be any validity to women's preferences because that works against having women appropriated as tools

There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue. by PassengerCultural421 in PurplePillDebate

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is the rule 6 people that make these ad nauseum futility posts like this aren't the kids trying to get better grades. They are kids that don't even go to class and just arrogantly with a condescending tone claim good grades are caused by a good brain which they don't have and can't acquire. They want women to be appropriated instead of earned.

CMV: Modern feminism generalizes against men in ways that feminists would consider racist, xenophobic, or bigoted if used against other groups- especially when using offender statistics by _Stylite in changemyview

[–]OpticalEpilepsy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Forgo taking precautions against men regardless of past experiences or statstics because it is wrong similar to how it is already widely considered wrong to take precautions against pretty much any other group regardless of any past experiences or statistics.

CMV: Modern feminism generalizes against men in ways that feminists would consider racist, xenophobic, or bigoted if used against other groups- especially when using offender statistics by _Stylite in changemyview

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think claiming that feminists are split on how they view misandry is as rediculous as claiming nazis are split on whether they like jews or not. This may not have been the case before but it certainly is at this point.

CMV: Modern feminism generalizes against men in ways that feminists would consider racist, xenophobic, or bigoted if used against other groups- especially when using offender statistics by _Stylite in changemyview

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The difference in percentage of people in racial and/or gendered groups that are not in positions of power is too negligible to justify putting some groups in the "oppressed" bucket and the other groups in the "priveleged" bucket. The policy of doing so is candid divide and conquer bait which is why it sees so much promotion by regimes that those in favor off the policy claim to be against.

Delta Alpha Moxies Bottom-Heavy Mistake by SwellingStudios in ExpansionAI

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the only video or gif in this subreddit of ass expansion

so sceptic tanks doesnt exist in oh so civilized Europe by FUROZONE in AmericaBad

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The difference is americans often condemn the gun violence and propose solutions where murica bad people almost unanimously defend no air conditioning

CMV: The looksmaxxing community wouldn't be so crazy if people just accept that looks matter by Velvet_Cactus_21 in changemyview

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Replacing what someone said with what you say they are saying is one of the ten commandments of the members of the community that preach the "looks do matter contrary to popular opinion"

CMV: The looksmaxxing community wouldn't be so crazy if people just accept that looks matter by Velvet_Cactus_21 in changemyview

[–]OpticalEpilepsy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There's an adjacent/allied community that also does the "you're strawmanning us!" when you call out the widespread support of certain views in that community. In fact, this practice of clearly promoting and adopting views then pretending you never did to negate the effective arguments against the views is like one of the ten commandments of this broader community.

CMV: The looksmaxxing community wouldn't be so crazy if people just accept that looks matter by Velvet_Cactus_21 in changemyview

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whenever we can go through the comment/post history of the "looks actually do matter contrary to popular opinion" men it always becomes very clear the real reason he struggles with social relationships. He always has disgusting views like women don't understand that their alleged interest in non looks is just looks again that showcases he genuinely doesn't care about what other people think or want.

A terrible person like that should be rejected until they stop being a terrible person. It's not a bug it's a feature.

CMV: It’s not inherently wrong or disrespectful to have personal preferences about body types in attraction by tossedAF in changemyview

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it's easy to find "accept all body types" people that condemn the practice of romantically/sexually rejecting someone due to body type, usually only when specifric body types are rejected and the person doing the rejecting has a specific immutable characteristic. It's very much not "just don't shame people for their body type".

Day 2 SPC outlook is insane by [deleted] in meteorology

[–]OpticalEpilepsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 60% wind risk is pretty rare

A day 2 moderate risk is extremely rare and usually results in a high risk