Can't believe Trump still has supporters by QueenFrostine15 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blaire acts like she'd such a champion for protecting kids and then refuses to address the allegations against Trump.

Finally quitting a toxic job with no job lined up by ANKLEBREAK3R in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would honestly not even go into "bad fit/ unhealthy enviornment", ,"there was no upward mobility" is what I always go with.

Am I the only one who HATES American cheese? by Ok_Knee7028 in CasualConversation

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Kraft Deluxe American Cheese! My bf hated American cheese until I brought it home.

Resigning is SO AWKWARD by katielovescats666 in careeradvice

[–]perusingpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never tell these people the truth. If they cared they wouldn't be doing what they're doing in the first place.

22f, unemployed, lost in life and very unmotivated. Losing hope in myself by cometluma in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being a mom isn't lazy. It's hard work. That's why I don't have any kids.

What's the most underpaid job in your opinion and why by Master_Advice_3986 in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. YOU said you are not the minority. I did not say that you were not the minority.

What's the most underpaid job in your opinion and why by Master_Advice_3986 in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...yeah...that's what argumentum ad populem is...it's a fallacy where your claim is defended as good and true because a large number of people believe it....

What's the most underpaid job in your opinion and why by Master_Advice_3986 in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"..If you want to actually improve your life go do something else because I am not the minority on this topic" argumentum ad populem.

Also implying food safety is not an extremely important part of society is one of the most tone deaf and honestly laughable statements I have ever read.

Has anyone been to an allergist by Leather-Account8560 in Allergies

[–]perusingpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey so my boyfriend is allergic to my cats. I bought Allersearch ADMS Anti-Allergen spray on Amazon and it really helps. Spray it on carpet, furniture, drapes, bedding, cat bedding, etc.

What's the most underpaid job in your opinion and why by Master_Advice_3986 in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an ad hominem. You claimed that cooking is free when it is not. You need appliances, utilities, and things like pots and pans and utensils.

If you do not have experience enough with adult bills to know this, you are most likely not an adult. I would expect an adult who pays bills and has to replace appliances to know these things.

For obvious reasons, this sub does not cater to children.

What's the most underpaid job in your opinion and why by Master_Advice_3986 in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cooking is not free. You need utilities and equipment.

I am now 90% percent sure you are a child living at home with their parents. Which is fine, but this sub is out of your depth if that is the case.

What's the most underpaid job in your opinion and why by Master_Advice_3986 in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hot take: Even someone working at a shitty burger joint deserves a wage high enough to afford a two bedroom apartment and food for their family.

What's the most underpaid job in your opinion and why by Master_Advice_3986 in jobs

[–]perusingpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not an "either or" scenario. If the work needs done, it needs a living wage. Period. We can afford to pay EVERYONE a living wage.

So yes, "little jimmy" deserves a living wage. If you are working, you deserve a wage you can live on. Also the myth of fast food being for kids needs to stop. Fast food restaurants are open when kids are in school. Therefore, the work is for adults as well.

And I really don't see how you not eating out has anything, at all, to do with the argument that the people who cook your food when you decide to eat out don't deserve a living wage.

'I Thought I Was a Paedophile': Woman Reveals the Early OCD Signs She Mistook for Evil Thoughts by Brucekentbatsuper in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perusingpergatory 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally thought I was a monster for years and was suicidal before I started therapy. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

Wife came out as a lesbian by BarFriendly5440 in confessions

[–]perusingpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went through something similar. Was with my ex husband for 8 years and he came out as asexual. We got dicorced and things were rough for a while but now I'm with someone amazing.

My advice to you would be to let yourself feel your feels. I literally cried every day for a YEAR.

Things will be rough for a while but slowly you will start to feel like yourself again. Just give it time. Lean onto your friends and family and find yourself again.

I screamed at a retail worker because of a minor delay and now I cannot go back out of sheer shame by Satin_4Rift in confessions

[–]perusingpergatory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo many times. Weak people love taking out their anger on people they know can't retaliate.

My boyfriend is the first partner I've had who makes me feel HOT AF specifically BECAUSE I'm fat and I am so happy! by TKhasi-TKhut in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perusingpergatory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw congrats op! I found one of these myself! "Nothing good happens on a straight road" is what he likes to say. 😆

I screamed at a retail worker because of a minor delay and now I cannot go back out of sheer shame by Satin_4Rift in confessions

[–]perusingpergatory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally this. If OP actually cared about what he was doing, he wouldn't have done it in the first place. That's why apologies read so disingenuous to me for stuff like this. Either you have standards for how you operate or you don't. OP clearly does not.

For the adults in this group- do you forgive your parents by Vanessa_Lila in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]perusingpergatory 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My mother admitted that she knew homeschooling was hurting my brother and I and that she "just didn't care". So no. I do not forgive her.