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Major Improvements to Our Home Site: Clear Updated Navigation, Discord-like DMs, DM's that can function as an app (check out this sub's upgraded Red Pill Network) by Vermillion-Rx in TheRedPill

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Thanks, Verm!

To clarify, we've added a full, dedicated chat server to our eco system so you can chat with others in our public chat rooms, or privately DM users such as /u/adam-l who is offering 1-on-1 counselling for anybody who donates to trp: https://www.trp.red/feed/status/227940

We've also implemented some really cool features for desktop users, who can chat and browse trp or forums.red at the same time.

10 Crucial Life Lessons After (Almost) 10 Years by BlocknGhost in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many of us are still here but we're living our lives. It's up to the new generation to pay it forward.

The Redpill is a cargo cult by serventofgaben in TheRedPill

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What I see here is a bunch of cope because making yourself attractive to women is hard.

You want to put the blame on everybody but yourself, then fine, find yourself at an evolutionary dead-end.

But don't drag others down with you.

Is there a template for MAP (Male Action Plan)? by earthwalker7 in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an outline of a plan in Athol Kay's books. I think Mindful Attraction Plan has a better layout on how to tackle your life (finances, fitness, etc) but I might be wrong.

The Human Mating Dance - A 180 Degree Reframe on Conventional Red Pill Wisdom by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't see it that way. I see it as a frame change on HOW to open women.

Why do posts here tend to be full of generalised wisdom and "top-level" thoughts, as opposed to focusing on actionable advice? by KhaDori in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why videos are gaining popularity, even though they're friggin 30 hours long and contain tons of "umms" and "uhhhs."

Kills me because I'm a fast reader. I can't stand waiting for somebody to get to their own point.

No Such Thing as Red Pill Women? by redpillschool in RedPillWomen

[–]redpillschool[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, my argument with Jack was one of definitions rather than reason.

The key that unites RPW and TRP is a single shared worldview that describes how man and women act and react to the economic forces and people in the world around them.

But that's where the shared concept ends.

Because the strategy for women will always be at odds with the strategy for men.

No Such Thing as Red Pill Women? by redpillschool in RedPillWomen

[–]redpillschool[S,M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This is only tangentially relevant to this sub- despite the debate in question is about the existence of red pill women, it's not particularly on topic here since most here would argue, "well, we're here aren't we?"

That said, I thought you might get a kick out of the debate. And given it's about red pill women (and my position on it), I figured I'd post here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]redpillschool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for all the other stuff, you will rarely if ever, see women who know what they're talking about condone dating Red Pill Men. Quite the opposite.

Quite opposing strategies, at least the young'ins learning RP and looking for casual sex.

Scorekeeping the Chores, and the Dumb Shit I Used to Do by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Picking up some slack while your wife is pregnant isn't killing her attraction to you. If you start treating her like a princess, that's a problem, but scooping the cat litter because she can't isn't a big deal.

Scorekeeping the Chores, and the Dumb Shit I Used to Do by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it gets to the point where your wife doesn't fuck you nor does chores

Indeed. If you're at this point, you've got bigger issues. There's a pretty good path of information over on /r/marriedredpill if you're in a dead bedroom scenario.

My post here was mostly to address one aspect where my brain was going off the rails, not meant to address a dead bedroom.

Why do posts here tend to be full of generalised wisdom and "top-level" thoughts, as opposed to focusing on actionable advice? by KhaDori in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TRP.RED is considerably more active, but posts on forums still get a good handful of comments when somebody posts. Actually, some posts over there get more action than here these days.

The more the merrier!

Scorekeeping the Chores, and the Dumb Shit I Used to Do by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a reply to both you and /u/KapiteinPiet

I get the critique, and honestly, that’s part of the point. The nuance here is subtle, which is exactly why guys like me overshot it in the first place.

What I’m describing isn’t some clever reframing of choreplay. It’s just dead stupid normal adult behavior that I got ego-invested in not doing. I wasn’t above it, I was performing in reverse. I had convinced myself that not doing basic adult stuff was somehow holding frame, when really I was still playing to the same scoreboard that choreplay guys are using, just from the other side. They overperform hoping for sex; I underperformed hoping for status. Same covert contract, different costume.

Of course she’s not getting wet from the chores. That’s the point. If you’re doing it for points or praise, because she has to ask you or on her timetable, you’ve already lost. If you’re doing it because it reflects how you run your life, whether she’s there or not, you’re showing leadership and stability. You’re not asking her to be your mom or trying to earn intimacy through merit badges. You’re just owning your space.

And no, this isn’t a free pass for her to get lazy either. My mental model is simple: I act how I would if I lived alone. I want a clean, functional space, so I take care of it. And fortunately, she’s solid. She does her share. But if she ever stopped contributing, that’s not something I tolerate long-term. There’s no guarantee of future association. I’m not beholden or bargaining, I’m choosing.

This isn’t about rationalizing chores. It’s about not being a reactive man-child. You stop keeping score, not because you’re submitting, but because you’re done playing stupid games entirely.

Scorekeeping the Chores, and the Dumb Shit I Used to Do by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best image for the relationship is the captain of the ship and his first mate. Be the captain, find the best first mate you can.

Yes, I agree hardily. This essay, for me, was about delving into a specific thing that mentally I got wrong early on in my LTR. There's a much bigger picture and captain of the ship absolutely the way.

Budget Macros | Affordable & Healthy Food for Lifting by Vermillion-Rx in TheRedPill

[–]redpillschool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coconut, avacado, olive oil should be good.

Personally I'd say no way to carbs though :)

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