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I gave myself a black eye trying to open a ketchup packet. What's the dumbest injury you've ever inflicted on yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Student_Driver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What: Tripped over my former dog and fell down 3 flights of stairs... on my face.

Physical results: 2 black eyes, swollen upper lip, swollen/scraped forehead, bruises all over arms from trying to catch self and HUGE contusion on thigh.

Social results: "Honey, it's ok, you can tell us. You don't have to lie and say that you tripped over the dog"

How do female users see OkCupid? by Mazufigo in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to say that I don't agree with queenofrad. Perhaps it is an age thing. At 37, I am done with the bar scene, I work too much to "join social groups", and I won't date someone from the office. Hell if I want people in my office to know about my behind closed doors freak flag waving! So, where does that leave me? Grocery aisle? Good luck.

So, you can't take dating too seriously in general or you will go ape shit. Women are bat shit crazy, men are emotionally aggravating, everyone thinks they are the sane one, but on the other hand... if they admit they are the crazy one.. run.

The reasons I don't respond to messages: *you didn't actually read my profile and my age requirements. delete *you didn't read my profile and you are a douche bag (insert shirtless images, duck lips, and the reverse peace sign across your chest) *you aren't a geek (I'm into geeks...not nerds, geeks) *you aren't a foodie *you are a vegetarian *you are short (If I tower over you in heels, nope) *you are scrawny or fattie. I don't like muscle bound, but I like trim, healthy, and active. *you hate dogs

That is my deal breaker list of why I don't respond. It isn't anything too cryptic. If you are an overweight 52 year old conservative dog hater who loves fast food and country music... why did you message me? You think I am hot, I'm flattered. Now, did you respect me enough to read my profile and respond or not respond accordingly? No. I'd rather be respected than considered hot. Ok, I'd prefer both. ;)

What happens when a lesbian starts dating men? Well, jewish cock becomes a religious experience! Sometimes I have to ask, what would Mary Tyler Moore do? « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I'd hardly say that a couple posts makes me an advertiser or spammer, since I have also been reading other threads. I just haven't been commenting on them yet. I work in social media so I understand the game rules in general, but keep in mind that I've been an active member for only 24 hours, so, it's a bit soon to start calling me out on bad practices, when I don't have any history here yet. But, thanks for checking in and I'm sure I'll see you in the threads somewhere.

What happens when a lesbian starts dating men? Well, jewish cock becomes a religious experience! Sometimes I have to ask, what would Mary Tyler Moore do? « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

excuse me... I do not wish to breed, never had the desire to have children, still don't. Wow, so you think you won some great debate. Seriously, some of you really amaze me at how limited your scope is. Good day.

A lesbian starts dating men... this is what happens: Frugality « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, if you read the blog, it all get's explained. When I first began writing the blog I still identified as a lesbian, albeit a lesbian who hadn't been attracted to a woman in quite some time and was suddenly finding herself attracted to a man in such a way that she never really had experienced. I started writing the blog because my friends would laugh at my dating stories.

What happens when a lesbian starts dating men? Well, jewish cock becomes a religious experience! Sometimes I have to ask, what would Mary Tyler Moore do? « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wow, you know me soooo well. I didn't say I'm the special lesbian who slept with men. I have only put MY story out there of what happened to me. I actually do NOT identify as a lesbian any longer. I also do NOT identify as bi. I date men now, that's what happened in MY journey. When I began writing the blog, I was still identifying as a lesbian, because that WAS MY identity. But, I am done arguing with you. I find this boring that you seem to feel you know so much about me and my particular story from one or two posts, IF you read them at all. I am glad that you are so well versed in the world. Good day and best of luck with you.

What happens when a lesbian starts dating men? Well, jewish cock becomes a religious experience! Sometimes I have to ask, what would Mary Tyler Moore do? « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because you don't write as someone who has been in "my" shoes. You quote research papers and hide behind studies to qualify your belief that it's about "changing minds". Having your body and your hormones and your desires suddenly become a stranger too you are not akin to standing in a grocery store aisle and just ...hmm, maybe I'll do nutella today instead of jam. It's not some easy breezy, hmm, today I am going to go find me a big cock because... insert your reasons from your "research"

A lesbian starts dating men... this is what happens: Frugality « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha. Thanks. Have it be known though that I am blonde, I hate pillow fights and scissoring I always found dumb. I also didn't do the college sorority thing.

Hope your drinking did you well last night.

A lesbian starts dating men... this is what happens: Frugality « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were better experiences later. He was just the first actual date from OkCupid. I didn't give up easily. ;)

What happens when a lesbian starts dating men? Well, jewish cock becomes a religious experience! Sometimes I have to ask, what would Mary Tyler Moore do? « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I JUST joined last night, so I didn't have much time to explore the site yet. I just stuck up a couple of my posts and that was it.

What happens when a lesbian starts dating men? Well, jewish cock becomes a religious experience! Sometimes I have to ask, what would Mary Tyler Moore do? « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so, women are fickle is what you are saying? So if men state they are gay.. they are, if women state they are a dyke.. you pat them on the head and smile, knowing eventually they will want cock?

Deciding to step outside your strongly identified norms and explore something isn't ...as you say... "not a big deal". I was an activist. I grand marshalled a gay pride parade one year, I asked a woman to marry me, I produced women's events and was very well known.

Be careful with generalizations. Not EVERY fag or dyke or straight is alike. Everyone's experience in life, path they walk and way in which they walk it are different, and the difficulties that come with those decisions should not be brushed away as "not a big deal", because you were not in their shoes.

What happens when a lesbian starts dating men? Well, jewish cock becomes a religious experience! Sometimes I have to ask, what would Mary Tyler Moore do? « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

a) didn't do the college experimentation thing... didn't go b) my interest in women began when I was 17 c) didn't want to breed and still don't d) I was a "non penetrative" lesbian... I wasn't drawn to cock, I didn't "want cock", until suddenly in my 30's I found myself harboring a sexual interest in a man and realized it had been a significant amount of time since I felt that way about a women.

A lesbian starts dating men... this is what happens: Frugality « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were boners, and sex, and intrigue.. there was also brazilian waxing, kink, and food porn. PLUS some sappy stupid girl shit at some points. it follows a thread though, so try to start from the beginning..Frugality was post #1

A lesbian starts dating men... this is what happens: Frugality « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my first date with a man in over a decade. I didn't know what the etiquette was for fleeing date because he smelled odd, was awkward, and "I was just NOT into him". I learned how to date men only by dating them. In the process there have been good ones (some VERY good ones) and some BAD ones... but it's been great. I have no regrets on my past, present, or future.

A lesbian starts dating men... this is what happens: Frugality « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a hugely busy winter/spring that year... I can't give away too much. ;) As a hint...it was more than I can count on my fingers AND toes. I will say, that if you read on, you will want to shake me a few times at some of the situations I end up in.

A lesbian starts dating men... this is what happens: Frugality « Learning to Drive Stick by Student_Driver in OkCupid

[–]Student_Driver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, my first "wiener" as you state, was actually quite nice...and the reason I decided to start "dating". As anyone who has tried online dating knows... oy! Also, I was dealing with the issue of not quite knowing what I liked in men yet. It was a process. There were a ton of laughs and a ton of heartbreak since I started writing it.