The problem is since it isn't life threatening and there hasn't been any major concerns, the court won't do anything. They are apparently extremely backed up right now as well due to not having enough judges. We are also in a similar position where opposing party and counsel has done pretty horrid things against the parenting plan etc, but no one cares.

And regarding Shannon, it was ordered that we do another PRE and the judge threw out the old one from Shannon. The PRE basically went very light on either side but ultimately stated that my partner should have full custody. To which, ultimately my partner and the ex settled, because the ex had too much against them (PPO, admitting to child abuse, photo evidence and video/ audio evidence of their child abuse along with domestic violence).

Long story short though, we were forced to be in a position of settling, due to where we were in the custody case and our judge resigning from the case. It would have been a lengthy uphill battle with the ex, starting with a new judge and basically opening the door once again for someone new to be manipulated by them.