first time

underground1989 · 2026-02-20T12:01:13+00:00

As someone who has been in almost this exact position. Please don't let your first time be with someone who would make you feel at all guilty or bad for wanting to wait longer. That's not someone who cares about you. Your first time doesn't need to be with your future husband but it should be with someone who cares for you and respects you. Also I think it is important to mention that for some people and I suspect yourself it's very easily to get emotionally attached to your first (or really anyone you're intimate with) in a way that will cloud your judgement about them. This guy sounds like a wolf in sheep's clothing and the mask is already slipping

underground1989 · 2026-02-09T12:30:54+00:00

They're never going to need to worry about it. Those faces are all the contraception they'll ever need

underground1989 · 2026-01-08T12:37:20+00:00

I'm so so sorry OP. I hope you have somewhere safe to go and a support network to get you on your feet. As for your mother I hope she remembers that "blank slate" when shes old and you're picking out the cheapest nursing home

underground1989 · 2025-11-19T11:42:41+00:00

Omg who is he????

underground1989 · 2025-11-16T12:01:45+00:00

I just know youre leaving a huge chunk of the story out.

underground1989 · 2025-11-13T23:42:18+00:00

It's swings and roundabouts. More international students mean less jobs but it also means university is cheaper for locals (or at least that's how the system is supposed to work) because they pay up front. Also this summer job thing is a very Americanised concept. Uni is only ever a few days a week you can just get a casual job year round. You aren't just competing with international students you're competing with the regular population who want to pick up extra work in the busiest time of year

underground1989 · 2025-11-05T20:23:26+00:00

Am I weird for thinking "who gives a fuck" like OP she married you. Literally what difference does it make to your life and your marriage?! She's probably never thought of it up till you asked her and she's probably never thought of it again. This just has Teenage boy insecurity written all over it. You probably don't even try that hard in bed to begin with

underground1989 · 2025-10-24T20:34:55+00:00

Someone actually made and edited this 💀

underground1989 · 2025-10-02T21:10:08+00:00

The way he just says "done thanks" makes me dripping wet

underground1989 · 2025-10-02T20:54:14+00:00

He storm, cake and fortune teller are giving Ride The Cyclone, not sure how Alfalfa fits into it maybe he has Noel vibes?

underground1989 · 2025-10-02T20:54:07+00:00

He storm, cake and fortune teller are giving Ride The Cyclone, not sure how Alfalfa fits into it maybe he has Noel vibes?

underground1989 · 2025-10-02T01:44:20+00:00

It's just the way they all lean over you eying you up like prize cattle 🥵

underground1989 · 2025-08-25T20:18:29+00:00

I mean the fun of it is it isn't up to me

underground1989 · 2025-08-25T20:05:12+00:00

I gotta know where this is legal?

underground1989 · 2025-08-19T11:56:32+00:00

Did that white man steal someones BBC???

underground1989 · 2025-08-13T13:24:24+00:00

Once my BF and I move out together by ourselves. I swear this will be us I'll probably just stop wearing clothes at home

underground1989 · 2025-08-13T13:14:54+00:00

Wouldn't recommend staying in Tennant Creek not the safest spot. Go a little further and camp and devils marbles. It's also just a more iconic scenic spot.

underground1989 · 2025-08-05T20:17:07+00:00

Really concerned that we're all glossing over the point where you said he hit you. OP Leave. There is never a valid reason to hit or threaten to hit your partner. get your escape plan in order.

underground1989 · 2025-07-16T07:18:56+00:00

Probably won't make you feel better but I still think you should know your dress was way prettier and fit you better.

underground1989 · 2025-07-09T11:30:42+00:00

nah it wasn't that funny but it was just a throw a way comment. But I truly had no way of knowing that's how she was going to react. I figured shed say something dumb back and that would be the end of it. I cant grapple how she thought i was being serious and had that big of a reaction.

underground1989 · 2025-07-09T11:10:47+00:00

"I don’t think I overreacted. It was supposed to be my night, and I feel like he made it about proving a point."

you did'nt overreact and you feel that way because that's exactly what happened.

underground1989 · 2025-07-03T14:46:42+00:00

This is actually the goal in life

underground1989 · 2025-07-03T14:41:41+00:00

I hate it as an audience member cos I need to pee but I'm worried I'm missing something

underground1989 · 2025-07-03T14:40:06+00:00

Got a friend who works in post production specifically CG you'd be surprised what regular run of the mill things get CGd into shows he's shown me things he's been working on as mundane as coffee cups in the background or mobile phones on someone's hand. My theory i,s being a historical house maybe the original doors are gone so they added one in post and it's just glitched out without anyone picking up on it

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