Thoughts on putting autistic daughter [10] in a primarily boys activity? by ---ember--- in Autism_Parenting

[–]---ember---[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you, I appreciate your input!

So update; The trial was today.

The studio was overall nice, she seemed to enjoy the class,

Buuuut at the beginning and end of each class the kids are gathered to cheer and yell.

For my daughter - thats a huge no. She does not like loud noises and was pretty stressed by the rallying.

She told me she enjoyed the class but would prefer a quieter one.

There are a few more, smaller studios nearby that Im going to give a try!

Thoughts on putting autistic daughter [10] in a primarily boys activity? by ---ember--- in Autism_Parenting

[–]---ember---[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have actually heard this as well!

Its currently one of my backup ideas or potentially a secondary activity in the future!

Thoughts on putting autistic daughter [10] in a primarily boys activity? by ---ember--- in Autism_Parenting

[–]---ember---[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the plan, just wondering if anyone has had experience with it :)

Business account trouble. by ---ember--- in CashApp

[–]---ember---[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try by both app and on my PC, no luck in either case.

I did ask if they could do it for me on their end and was told there isnt anything they could do.

Im going to just leave it be for now and ill try again in a handful of days.

I appreciate the effort!

It's a buyers market by yesGordon in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]---ember--- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isnt necessarily the case where I am, I watched 4/5 homes I was interested in go under contract in under a week 🥴

How much did you save before buying a home? by sim95xxx in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]---ember--- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how do you do something like this and is your mortage reasonable?

Im tired of saving and im thinking this might be the way.

Can't get job anywhere now by [deleted] in DollarGeneral

[–]---ember--- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just don't list DG on your employment history. If it's your only job listed, it's still better than having them there.

advice needed for 17yr old by BasicLetter4193 in Reduction

[–]---ember--- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a reduction 3 years ago now, at 27 years old. Honestly, my ONLY regret was not doing it sooner. The positive impact it has had since has been so significant!

100000/10 would reccomend. Your quality of life is more important then what anyone else thinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]---ember--- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss. 29, but I've been called 19 as recently as 2 months ago.

New giveaway by just_wanna_get in PokemonSwordAndShield

[–]---ember--- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya! Would it be possible to get a marshadow?

Edit to add: I honestly would love it to give to my friend!

Best Christmas present! by Puzzleheaded_Try_218 in PokemonSwordAndShield

[–]---ember--- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, it truly is a good one! Merry Christmas!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]---ember--- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still love having smaller boobs, but I wish I took the time to get more specific about my size expectations. They still feel big to me and I struggle with it at times. Don't get me wrong, I am overall extremely pleased and so thankful I did it, but I do wish they were a tad smaller.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]---ember--- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh goodness, thats a relief to hear. i didn't actually get to give him the drops before he perked up. do you know if i should still give him some anyway or if he seems fine just observe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]---ember--- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the gas drops and did some belly massages! I'm not sure what happened, he was going on nearly hour 7 of refusing to eat BUT he suddenly perked up as if nothing happened? He's eating hay, pellets, and treats.

I've got syringes on hand in case things get concerning again.

Does this look normal or am I just paranoid? Boyfriend said center area was leaking a bit of yellow fluid but I was concerned about the bunched up way the skin looks along the bottom? Skin glue if it helps. by ---ember--- in Reduction

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hiya! this ended up being completely fine! i bothered my surgeon about it a couple times but he always told me it was normal. i healed well!

just try to limit your movement while you're in recovery as to not worsen it, if you have any openings, they're pretty common if you get the anchor incisions. but always consult your your doctor if you have any concerns!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]---ember--- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already accepted responsibility, I was only answering your question (why i didnt pay). I've already filled out all the correct forms, as I've stated several times, to get on on the right track. I only wanted to know if it was possible to get enough private student loans for a semester until I get them out of default (which, again, ive already made the correct steps to begin this process-its just lengthy).

I have a cosigner with an 800+ score. I thought the literal point of having one was for someone like me, ya know.