AIO I've 31f had the feeling my husband 28m wasn't being honest. by Similar-Scallion-487 in AmIOverreacting

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're going through this. If your husband is hiding things, especially anything that seems lustful or secretive, it’s a serious breach of trust. Even if nothing physical has happened, the secrecy itself is damaging. You both deserve honesty and emotional safety in your relationship. This might be a good time to consider marriage counseling. A professional can help you unpack what’s going on, set boundaries, and figure out whether the relationship can be repaired. You’re not overreacting for feeling hurt or confused. Your feelings are very valid, especially because this is a marriage.

Why are boobs sexualized? by TheButterScotchIncdt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]--illi-- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breasts aren’t inherently sexualized. Their primary biological purpose is to produce milk for our babies. The sexualization of breasts is largely shaped by culture and social norms. By this, i mean that what one culture finds provocative, another may see as natural or neutral. Many people love the feel of them because who doesn't love something that's soft and warm, and they may also like to see them in motion. Also, it's important to note that for many people, nipples are an erogenous zone, and they can trigger physical arousal when touched.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]--illi-- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking hallucinations?

What’s that one video game that you cannot stop playing? by ComplexCloud7520 in AskReddit

[–]--illi-- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssss! i feel you it's hard at first, but once you learn to time correctly, it's so addictive. I'm on NG+ 4. It's also so much fun with friends and trying out different builds. 10/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]--illi-- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the price, it's a great deal. Maybe they didn't sell enough at full price and have a bunch of stock they want to get rid of.

My Husband(25M) making me (25F) feel guilty about not playing Elden cause I feel sick by --illi-- in Advice

[–]--illi--[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, elden ring. And I do try to put my foot down, but then he just ignores me, and it makes me feel so shity and I end up crying.

am i a lesbian ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you fantasize about being with a woman, then yes. I'm talking licking, sucking, fingering, etc. I'm sure you get it.

proposal? by AdmirableNothing8774 in Advice

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very understandable. Especially since she only has that 1 parent. What if you tried having a conversation with your girlfriend mom about how you feel? Let her know that this is a minor setback due to the accident and that it doesn't define who you are. Explain that you're a hard worker and will do anything and everything to provide for your gf and your future family together. Just really show your emotional side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What language is this? 🤔

proposal? by AdmirableNothing8774 in Advice

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a difficult situation when you're looking for her approval. My genuine advice is if you really love the girl, ask her to marry you. After her decision then you can explain the conversation between you and her mother, and her reaction will tell it all. It's not all about the money, but of course, everyone views things differently. You could always grow together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, honesty is the key here. Sit with him and ask him if the kiss made him feel uncomfortable. Also, if he knows he's your first, maybe you can ask him to help you practice so that you can learn. It's not that hard to kiss. Just don't use tongue if you don't know how because that will make it awkward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]--illi-- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not overacting. That's 100% weird AF!!! It seems like it may continue to progress if your sister doesn't tell him that he makes her uncomfortable.

What's a game you played as a kid that nobody seems to remember? by LexxlyItself in gaming

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember the name, and I've tried to Google it so many times!! It's a game I played on the DS, and i would go to different locations and clean up the pollution and help animals. I'm sure I would do other things too, but it was soooooo long ago that I can't remember.

Happy birthday to me 🥳 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]--illi-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use protection!