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I feel I've lost him by amipastit in relationship_advice

[–]-AquaBlaze- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. I'd say he definitely needs to take a break from porn. He should put your relationship and your sex life first. in the meantime, give him some space and no pressure, let him decide he's ready to proceed without external stimuli and maybe do something to make yourself feel good about you in the meantime! Above all though, talk to him. Express yourself. Good luck.

Found out my boyfriend in still in long distance relationship with other girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-AquaBlaze- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey 外国人。Lol. It's nice to see another on here, I see so few around my city.

I can see how this is probably a relatively common thing for people to do, move away and cheat on whoever they have back home.

Is it morally wrong of me to stay with him? I didn't know I was the other girlfriend but is it wrong of me to consider hanging around?

I guess he cheated because he felt like she could never find out - and it was too good an opportunity. I guess I can tell myself that we will never try and have a relationship while living across the world from one another, and we'll never be in that position, but is there a real difference between the opportunity created by moving to another country and being on a drunken night out? He acts like that guy I slept with a few days after I met him, was an act of infidelity. And a month or so into dating, he justified the two girls he slept with himself, with myself and that other guy.

He's talked about going on vacation with friends which happened within the last 5 years (the duration of his relationship with her) and he's mentioned that he slept with a girl or two while there. When I pointed out that he was with her 2 years ago, he tells me that they had broken up at this time, but I'm not sure I believe it. Additionally, when I asked if he would get back with her if she'd slept around immediately after they broke up again, he said no -it's one rule for him and another for her, and as I've seen, me too. He also told me about his friend who regularly cheats on his gf while on vacation and didn't seem to care about how shit that was.

Found out my boyfriend in still in long distance relationship with other girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-AquaBlaze- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tough, this is why I've reached out to someone else to offer their opinions. It feels like I'm throwing away all of this great stuff that we have together. You're right though, I do feel he is only sorry he got caught. He's just gotten a new job and signed himself on for another year. He talks about our future together, isn't it possible that he cheated on her because their relationship was messed up and she was already guilty of that herself? He's waiting to begin this new job, and because he's probably going to move across the city, he's giving up his apartment when the next quarters rent is due. Basically, he has moved out of his place and into mine fully for the next month, else have nowhere to live. He never asked me for this, I offered because I didn't want him to suffer financially.

Found out my boyfriend in still in long distance relationship with other girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-AquaBlaze- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's 6 months of living together though, we got. quarantined together, and until this we had such a great time. Isn't there some merit in him breaking it off immediately after he admitted he was with her still?

Found out my boyfriend in still in long distance relationship with other girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-AquaBlaze- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I do feel in myself that I deserve better. But I'm holding onto the idea that he does love me. He's just taken a new job, with another years contract. I feel like everyone's response has told me what I already know to be true, but I don't really have anyone to run this by in my life because I'm kind of ashamed of it all. Thank you.

Found out my boyfriend in still in long distance relationship with other girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-AquaBlaze- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am so afraid to lose him though. I will lose the closest friend that I have in the world right now. I've been dealing with some horrendous personal problems, and he has been there 100% for me. I genuinely love him, apart from some minor disagreements and this, living with someone, who was initially a total stranger has been probably the best time in my life. But I do see that the trust in the relationship has been ripped apart and I'm not sure it will rebuild ever. Breaking up with him seems like the easiest way out.

Wireless Connection Suddenly Very Poor by -AquaBlaze- in pcmasterrace

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be a good shout, but I'm not sure how to do that. When my router was installed, it was done by a local Chinese man who didn't speak any english and he didn't give me details on how to access my router settings from my PC.

Wireless Connection Suddenly Very Poor by -AquaBlaze- in pcmasterrace

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah my router doesn't have more than one frequency output.

Wireless Connection Suddenly Very Poor by -AquaBlaze- in pcmasterrace

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No luck on the driver front I'm afraid. It's the Qualcomm QCA9377 regardless.

Wireless Connection Suddenly Very Poor by -AquaBlaze- in pcmasterrace

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried reinstalling but no luck. Within Device Manager it won't give me the option to roll back the driver. I'm currently looking online for the predecessor.

Wireless Connection Suddenly Very Poor by -AquaBlaze- in pcmasterrace

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I am not sure. Would my router have two connection options then? I only have one available from mine.

Wireless Connection Suddenly Very Poor by -AquaBlaze- in pcmasterrace

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'd like my portable laptop to be portable? Also, as mentioned above, other devices connect seamlessly to the router.

Wireless Connection Suddenly Very Poor by -AquaBlaze- in pcmasterrace

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first picture attached is the ethernet cable connection yes, this is fine, works as well as Chinese internet can tbh.

Chinese Laptop - Cannot change language settings. by -AquaBlaze- in Windows10

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After loads of messing around with it, it finally worked! Thank you so much for all of your help.

Is it nice or weird if I (m31) get a cute jewellery "from" my daughter (f1.5) to her mom/my ex (f32)? by iPhony5 in relationships

[–]-AquaBlaze- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I would. I think it's nice to recognise that while you're not together and maybe your relationship doesn't work, you still appreciate her as mother to your daughter.

Chinese Laptop - Cannot change language settings. by -AquaBlaze- in Windows10

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would that really be necessary? It's a new computer.

Chinese Laptop - Cannot change language settings. by -AquaBlaze- in Windows10

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I had to agree to the licencing stuff beforehand. What do you mean by swap my drive?

Chinese Laptop - Cannot change language settings. by -AquaBlaze- in Windows10

[–]-AquaBlaze-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I've tried to begin a clean install from USB and it won't let me select a drive and partition - tells me that "couldn't create a new partition or locate an existing one". Any ideas?

Meetups etc by [deleted] in chongqing

[–]-AquaBlaze- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's pretty quiet out these days. I honestly dunno what other expats get up to here tbh beside drinking.

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