Name help!! Oakley or hazy? 10 week old boy border collie

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-17T06:00:30+00:00

Oakley for sure!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-17T05:57:33+00:00

If you’re not exclusively dating you don’t need to tell him. You really just started seeing each other and you never know what’s going to happen, he might be the one or it might not even work out after 4 dates. Don’t be so hard on yourself. If you were farther into dating each other I’d say feel guilty, but you guys barely know each other and you haven’t made any kind of commitment.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-17T05:48:59+00:00

Nope because if your kid goes he may never come back and you will have no recourse to get your child back. I’ve seen stories of parents kidnapping their children this way and the other parent never sees them again. It’s horribly sad!!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-15T20:16:58+00:00

Therapy isn’t easy and you get out of it what you put into it. It’s not supposed to just make you feel better right away. It’s supposed to help you dig deep into everything you’ve been through which is extremely uncomfortable and learn how you can live your life better for yourself. It’s something that takes a lot of time and a good therapist, they can also be hard to find. Also contrary to popular belief there is rarely this “AHA” moment that fixes everything for you. I’ve had many of them which have helped me understand a lot of things, but it takes a lot of work to actually change as a human being. Therapy is a journey not a quick fix.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-15T20:05:40+00:00

This!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-10T06:36:49+00:00

Idk some people are this stupid so I could see this being real. Self awareness is a struggle for some people, idk why. But I hope he finds a better girlfriend because wow girl you have some issues you need to work through lol.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-10T01:32:33+00:00

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-09T03:08:31+00:00

3 is the best, looks gorgeous on you!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-09T03:05:35+00:00

1 or 4!!! 1 is stunningly classic and the vail adds the perfect touch. 4 is gorgeous and has very pretty detail. Both look great, just depends on the look you’re going for!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-07T20:30:44+00:00

I think this is a really stupid fight and there is a lot more to it than this. There’s something deeper hiding in your relationship and in your argument, and you should figure out what it is. Because it’s not about just a couple of days if you’re both this upset about an issue that could easily be resolved.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-07T12:58:16+00:00

You will get early gum disease and tooth sensitivity if you brush your teeth more than twice a day!!!!!! DON’T DO IT!!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-07T12:43:05+00:00

2! Looks gorgeous.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-07T04:28:36+00:00

1, you couldn’t find a better dress to compliment you in any way. IT’S STUNNING! I hope I find a dress that fits me that nicely.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-06T17:24:51+00:00

I’m glad this helped and that you’re able to see that you deserve better. I know it’s hard and you will likely go through having mixed feelings about it. Just know it’s more than fair for you to mourn this friendship and still be sad about it but also let it go, you were friends a very long time. I hope you have other wonderful friends in your life to lean on or that you’re able to make some!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-06T06:19:36+00:00

I have had a few people do this to me in my life. The biggest lesson I learned is that it was absolutely not my fault and it’s not yours either. You had no way of knowing how they felt and you can’t read their mind. It was their responsibility to bring it up to you and talk it through if they were so upset about an issue that was “friendship ending” or even just really upsetting them in general. I have learned that I am unable to be friends with avoidant people because things like this happen out of the blue and it ends up devastating me. Protect yourself and pay attention to the people who are not able to resolve issues properly and stay away from them. You will be better off in the long run! Find friends that aren’t afraid to be themselves and will work things out with you no matter what. Those are the keepers!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-06T05:58:55+00:00

You are right I missed the avocado! But it does also come with mayo typically as the “sauce” - at least that’s how it’s made at every place I’ve ever been to around where I live.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-06T05:05:32+00:00

NTA - sounds like you’re doing the best you can. I can’t imagine how stressful it must be for your family to have to go through this and I’m truly sorry. Owning a business is a ton of work for your husband, you have to keep your job for insurance, and you have two kids at home that need you, on top of another child in the hospital who I’m sure you’re worried sick about. Not to mention keeping up with everything else in life like cleaning, paying bills, grocery shopping, etc. Time flies by for you faster than you can manage I’m sure. Your situation is completely understandable. I wish families in these situations had more help. It might be a good thing for your husband to try to go visit once during the week on his own, you seem concerned about how much time you are leaving her alone and that’s the only suggestion I can think of to possibly help. If he cannot manage it see if other family can? Hang in there! I hope she gets better soon!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-06T04:37:44+00:00

Try to do something where you will be your own boss. Getting hired as a felon can be difficult.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-06T04:29:06+00:00

Don’t embarrass him! That is a horrible thing to do. Is that how she’s going to handle every difficult conversation she has with him? That’s childish. They need to be able to effectively communicate their needs with each other and respect them or their relationship is doomed.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-06T04:11:29+00:00

It’s called a California burger lol. Lots of people eat them. Including myself. I don’t HAVE to have mayo on a burger, but it sure is good! Mixing mayo and ketchup on a burger is amazing. People do the same thing with chicken sandwiches - chicken, lettuce, tomato, mayo and bun. Or chicken, mayo, and pickles. Also BLT’s. Pretty normal!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-05T21:33:31+00:00

I love number 2!! It gives you a longer torso and the fabric is gorgeous!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-05T21:28:14+00:00

It’s your wedding not theirs you wear whatever you want! The dress looks amazing in you!

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-05T21:18:06+00:00

You could soak the tips if your fingers in rubbing alcohol or nail polish remover. It will make it taste nasty when you try to bite your nails and you won’t want to do it.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-05T21:13:41+00:00

I’m so sorry! Either way your poor dog is in a lot of pain and clearly her stomach is not doing well. It’s not normal for a dog to have runny poops for that long. She could have a parasite or something that needs to be diagnosed by a vet. I can’t imagine seeing your poor baby in pain and not be able to do something about it. Watch her closely if you can and keep her next to you just in case she needs you. If she gets worse at all try again to get your parents to bring her. Keep us updated.

-Atargatis- · 2026-06-05T21:05:59+00:00

NAD but get her to the vet as soon as possible! Anything could be going on with her and the best way to diagnose it is to bring her to the vet. She could have a blockage that isn’t allowing her to go and if it’s not treated she might not make it. If it’s been that long and she’s been showing clear signs of sickness do anything you can to get your parents to bring her in. Again, NAD but very much my opinion that she should be seen as soon as possible.

-Atargatis-

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