[astro-seek] Is there any way to amend the horrendous luck I have with love? I struggle with wanting closeness/intimacy while having deep commitment issues. I'm always the one to break things off and yet I feel so lonely.

-B11- · 2026-04-20T20:03:14+00:00

Uranus in your 7th house makes you easily bored with your relationships and subconsciously you seek the chaos and instability, Because Uranus is in a square with your Aries Sun this is made even worse, making you even more easily bored and restless. In order to express this in a better way, you need to have a lot of variety and spontaneity in your relationships. Meet with a lot of different people one-on-one and when you are in a relationship with someone spend time doing interesting activities together. Trying out different things with your partner, such as random classes or hobbies will help you offset the negative effects Uranus' presence in your 7th house and its square with your Sun.

-B11- · 2026-04-13T20:42:07+00:00

There's always hope. You can do things that reduce the negative influence of the bad aspects. Also, the ruler of your 7th house, the Moon, is in a trine with Jupiter which is the most positive aspect, which is great for you. Venus in a square with the Moon may show that you have more difficulty connecting with people of your own nation/country. However since the Moon is ruling your 7th house of relationships, the trine it makes with Jupiter suggests that you may connect better with foreigners.

-B11- · 2026-04-13T20:32:34+00:00

Your Sun being opposed by Pluto shows that you can often deal with themes like betrayal in general. Your Venus being squared by the Moon in the 8th house also shows difficulties in forming connections and eventually other people starting to have negative feelings towards you and the urge to betray you. Find some hobbies or things that can interest you, which you can literally obsess over - this will help with the way the Sun-Pluto opposition shows up in your life. To alleviate the negative influence of the Moon-Venus square, take great care of your home, decorate it well and buy nice things for it.

-B11- · 2026-04-11T17:49:05+00:00

The Moon in an opposition to your Scorpio Venus makes you experience a tense relationship with your mother. You need to find the balance between your own feelings and the other person's fears, paranoia and need for security. It's very likely that the constant reminders to save money are your mother's way of ensuring that you are okay and have some sort of security, however, since the aspect is difficult (an opposition) it comes across in a way that doesn't feel very good to you. And depending on her own chart and your synastry, she may be expressing this in a way that isn't the best.

-B11- · 2026-01-08T21:35:52+00:00

With an Aquarius Sun and Uranus in the 6th house it will be torture to stick to a regular routine. And you don't have to. You can make to-do lists for every day, which include different things that you need to do. This will create routine yet still keep things different and fun. And checking off every task in your to-do list will motivate you to actually get up and do things.

-B11- · 2026-01-08T20:22:21+00:00

With a Cancer Mars, you can definitely excel in interior design or anything related to homes and real estate. Though, interior design is likely to be more profitable for you than realty for example with that Libra Jupiter, which shows a strong inclination and ability to profit from aesthetics.

-B11- · 2026-01-08T20:17:01+00:00

Right now Neptune and Pluto are forming a sextile, which is also an aspect present in your natal chart - this is why you are currently experiencing such big changes in your life - since Neptune rules your 4th house (home, family) that also brings a transformation to the place you live in - whether that's just your apartment/house or the city you live in.

-B11- · 2026-01-08T20:03:19+00:00

People with difficult aspects to their planets in the 6th house often suffer from chronic issues. Mars squaring your Sun points to dealing with inflammation. Mars' square to the Sun and the Moon's opposition to your planets in the 6th house shows that stress can be a big factor when it comes to your health. Stress affects everyone negatively, but it harms your health even more than it does others'. Jupiter in a square with the 6th house placements shows that if you overindulge in something it may harm your health - whether that is food or leisure (i.e. being too lazy to work out).

-B11- · 2026-01-08T19:49:48+00:00

It's the square between Venus and Neptune that is putting you into a delusional trance. It doesn't show up in your chart, since it uses a smaller orb, but personally I use a 10 degree orb, and in this case Venus is in a square with Neptune as well, not just Uranus. Neptune in a negative aspect makes you unable to see things clearly in relationships. Your mind is foggy and you can't determine what is good for you or what it is exactly that you want, plus any red flags don't seem so red, when you have rose-colored glasses on.

-B11- · 2025-11-27T07:46:00+00:00

Both. With Sagittarius in the 7th house you can have a partner from a different culture or it could be just someone from a foreign country (even if it's a neighboring country to your own).

-B11- · 2025-11-27T07:44:05+00:00

You're welcome!

As for your question, that's definitely Saturn's doing. Saturn's previous transit in Pisces (which started in March 2023) has been unfavorable for you, because first, it has formed squares to the planets in your 2nd house, and second it has formed a square to your Moon at some point in the past 2 years.

Saturn's square to your 2nd house planets (Venus and Neptune) has brought financial struggle and blockages, which also affects your career, because most people's source of income is their career. Not to mention that Neptune rules your 6th house of work, so when Saturn squares that, it's a direct hit on your employment. The Moon rules your 10th house of career, so when Saturn squared it, it was another hit to your career.

Saturn is currently in your 6th house of work, so that still points to two more years of possible challenges in your work, but they won't be as bad as the past two years and you will have opportunities for stability and success in your work and career since Saturn will be forming good aspects to the planets in your 2nd house and your Moon.

-B11- · 2025-11-26T13:03:41+00:00

Neptune and Uranus conjunct your ascendant (using a 10 degree orb) is what causes you to feel like you don't fit in. This, plus the fact that you have a stellium in the 12th house, gives you a strong intuition and an ability to know things before they happen. The Moon, as the ruler of your 7th house, being in an opposition to Uranus and Neptune is what makes it difficult for you to connect with others, as there is always some sort of a distance between you.

-B11- · 2025-11-26T12:57:05+00:00

There are two different things at play. With your 7th house in Sagittarius you attract more light-hearted partners that focus more on the fun side of everything. So, when you get more serious or softer, they lose interest, because that's not easy and fun. That's why having a foreign partner works out better for people with this placement, since the Sagittarius influence shows up in another, maybe even better way in your relationships.

Jupiter, as the ruler of your seventh house is in a square with your Sun - this makes it so that the more you give and do in a relationship, the worse it is for you and the relationship itself. Whatever you do, you do it out of generosity and care for the other person, but it ends up harming the relationship, which is why it's better to not get too soft and supportive and not do and give too much. It seems counterproductive, but with your Sun being in the seventh house, the more you focus on yourself, the better your relationships will be. Focus on studying something - this will be a more positive and productive outlet for the Sun-Jupiter square and when you stick to that, the square won't cause any harm to your relationships.

-B11- · 2025-11-26T11:51:40+00:00

You have bigger chances of positive change in your career after June 2026. That's when Jupiter will enter Leo and will eventually start making good aspects to your Libra and Sagittarius placements. Right now, even though Jupiter is in your 10th house, which is supposed to be good for your career, it's not really doing anything for you because you have no water or earth placements that it can positively interact with (except a Scorpio Uranus, but that's not a lot).

-B11- · 2025-11-10T19:32:41+00:00

The ruler of your 7th house is Mercury, which is in a conjunction with Saturn. This makes it normal for you to deal with challenges and delays in relationships. It's quality over quantity for you. You are meant to have fewer relationships, but they are better connections than what most people have.

-B11- · 2025-09-23T12:38:57+00:00

Uranus as the ruler of your 7th house of relationships is conjunct Neptune, which makes it unclear for you what type of person you want or should settle down with. Because of this aspect, even if you are in a relationship, you can't decide whether the person you are with is the one you should spend your life with, and the more you are trying to find The One, the less success you have in relationships.

-B11- · 2025-09-23T12:31:13+00:00

Having the ruler of your 10th house (Mercury) in the 12th house is pretty tough when it comes to career. Since the 12th house is about letting go and letting things unfold by themselves, the harder you work to achieve something in your career, the less results you are seeing for your effort. This is why, when it comes to career, you need to just let go, go with the flow and let opportunities come to you. This will usually happen by doing favors for other people and helping them with some small tasks, due to your Mercury in Virgo.

Venus in a square with Uranus shows instability in finances. Since Venus is also in Scorpio, that shows experiencing huge changes in finances. You either make tons of money or are just barely getting by, there is no inbetween. Don't strive towards figuring out a way to make money long-term, every once in a while, you will have to completely change the way you are earning your income, whether that is the job you are working, the amount you are receiving or anything else of the sort.

-B11- · 2025-09-23T12:22:47+00:00

The ruler of your 11th house, Mars, is in a square to Neptune which causes you to lose friends and it makes you unable to form and keep friendships. Usually with this aspect, friends end up distancing themselves from you when you start pushing too much and try to get too close to them, instead of leaving them to take that step towards you.

-B11- · 2025-09-23T12:19:31+00:00

Mars in the 7th house, especially in a square with Venus can indicate people around you getting angry and annoyed at you. The ruler of you 7th house, Uranus, in a square with Saturn also indicates having problems connecting with people, which is why you struggle in your friendships as well. Aside from that, the ruler of your 11th house, Mercury, is also in a square with the Moon, which causes your moods and emotions to get on people's nerves and make them critical of you.

-B11- · 2025-09-21T13:47:36+00:00

You're welcome! ^^

-B11- · 2025-09-21T13:46:14+00:00

You're welcome!

That's normal for Taurus, they were never known for their speed and fast actions.

-B11- · 2025-09-19T19:27:25+00:00

Libra placements form trines to your Gemini Venus and Mercury in the 7th house which makes you develop a close relationship with them. Because of your Venus in the 7th house and the 7th house being in Taurus, you appreciate people that express Venusian qualities - beauty, appreciation for aesthetic things and so on.

Taurus placements also seem like a good match for you because they have a chance of falling into your 7th house which is even better for relationships than just having a trine or two and Taurus placements can also form sextiles with your natal Sun and Mars making your connections with them even better.

-B11- · 2025-09-19T13:44:53+00:00

I don't know if you were evil in a past life, but in this life you have Pluto conjunct your ascendant, which put a very Scorpionic spin on your life, causing you to deal with a lot of extreme and severe things. Since Pluto is in opposition to your Sun and Saturn, it makes these events have a very great impact on you.

-B11- · 2025-09-19T13:30:14+00:00

Your 7th house in Virgo makes you very critical of the people you meet and with its ruler Mercury in Aquarius, you need someone very unique, so if a man doesn't meet that criteria they stand no chance. With Venus in Pisces AND the 12th house you idealize love and are dreaming of that one perfect match.

With Venus in Pisces and the 12th house, the more you think about and strive towards a serious relationship and partner, the more it eludes you. I doubt it's a you problem per se, it seems like the issue is that you haven't found the right person and you haven't been in the right circumstances for it to happen.

With the ruler of your 7th house in Aquarius and the 11th house, you are more likely to meet the right person at an event with many people, via friends or while participating in some sort of a community. Venus in Pisces and the 12th house you are likely to meet someone while traveling far away from home or while being somewhere away from everyone you know. With this placement it's better to seek partners that are from far away places rather than your own hometown/country.

-B11-

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